Singles & Dating - 12 April 2007

I just got hurt real bad. How long should I wait before trying again?

2007-04-12 10:04:41 · 6 answers · asked by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7

huh?

2007-04-12 10:04:30 · 18 answers · asked by pookie 1

Well I really,really like this guy and we hang out ALOT and I always play around with him and joke but we still hold hands and kiss and stuff like that. But, he asked me today why I treat him like a friend and not like a boyfriend,what ishe talking about? I mean I never regect him when he makes moves you know what I mean like he'll put his hand and my knee and I never move it. how does he want me to act?what should I do?I thought guys were suppose to make the moves? PLEZZ HELP ME!

2007-04-12 10:04:05 · 2 answers · asked by island gurl 2

Im 29/fem & my g/f of 6 years broke up with me suddenly 11 weeks ago and we have had no contact whatsoever for the last 4 weeks. I am totally wrecked by this and I am trying to be strong and listen to everybody when they tell me "you'll get over this"
Last night I discovered that she has updated her profile on a well known website that lets old school friends see what you are up to now. She added to her profile that she has a gorgeous g/f and she is very happy. I was shocked I admit but I calmly phoned her and asked her and she denied everything. All she could say was "who told you that" then she got angry with me as usual.
All I want is to know the truth, fine, she may not want to hurt me anymore but I am at the lowest point right now and her lying about it is making me feel like she hates my guts and that I am nothing but dirt on the bottom of her shoe.

Am I wrong to ask for her to have the decency to be honest with me so that I can get closure on this once and for all??

2007-04-12 10:02:01 · 13 answers · asked by Hurt & Alone 1

the oldest guy ive dated was 25, we had the best relationship ever, one nighht one of my guy friends got me drunk at his party. with me being bi i cheated on him with a girl. when he found out he cheated on me with my best friend who was 22 he broke my heart and i forgave him but he thought i would cheat on him again so we broke up. now he wont even talk to me. so im single with the guys but my girlfriend and i have been together scince......

2007-04-12 10:01:34 · 17 answers · asked by sweetblood 1

ive been goin out with my girlfriend lisa who i realllllly love,,but lately she doesnt seem like she does back, and theres this other girl niki, who said to me, she doesnt have to know, so i told niki id think bout it,,,pleaseee help me! idunno what to do
and i apreciate any responses except nasty ones

2007-04-12 09:45:55 · 7 answers · asked by macguy11935 1

2007-04-12 09:43:17 · 13 answers · asked by shell 1

2007-04-12 09:38:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf tends to categorize me as a 'beautiful man', 'pretty boy', and also someone with a boyish appearance.

Sometimes I can't help but wonder why she keeps on saying that!

Can someone help me with all the above terminologies? What does she mean and besides, I'm in my mid 20's. Also, I get this a lot from other girls too.

Help ladies!

2007-04-12 09:37:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 09:37:25 · 1 answers · asked by Suzie Q 1

this guy just texted me and he's asked me out a couple of times and i've said to him I didn't want a boyfriend right now. we're friends. i don't want to go out with him but he's never asked me in person or never when he can hear my voice so i know he's really shy about it.

he just said: i really like you can u please give me a chance.

I feel really, really, REALLY bad...what do I say? I need help!
To save time, I responded: do you really, you're so mean to me! <--in a joking way.

Now I need to give him a serious answer. HELP!

2007-04-12 09:34:25 · 8 answers · asked by Madeline B. 2

the company a while and hardly charged him what I was worth as his assistant and asked only one thing of him to always be honest with me I reciently asked him if he was selling and he said no hence he lied. So either way I will obviously look for another job my question is should I confront him on it or just leave since he was going to without telling me

2007-04-12 09:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What can a woman do or say to a guy to let him know she wants sex from him?

2007-04-12 09:28:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

He lies SOOO much. now i cant trust him. when i ask him a question i dont trust his answer because of all the lies hes told me. hes never cheated or anything like that (or at least thats what he tells me..he says he would never cheat on me or anything like that) but he wont stop lying. ive talked to him about it, he said he just cant stop lying, it just comes out. anyways..he just lies soo much, it hurts. and idk what to do. please help..

2007-04-12 09:28:07 · 28 answers · asked by Maddy 2

2007-04-12 09:23:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm the gingerbread man.

2007-04-12 09:12:09 · 16 answers · asked by Mr. Snow Man 2

i really wanna give my guy friend a hug before he moves away..but how should i ask him and not get shy asking

2007-04-12 09:04:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 09:01:32 · 21 answers · asked by Pinky 6

do guys make sure they are clean-shaven when they are trying to impress a girl? or do they worry about that?

i know, random question ;)

2007-04-12 09:01:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay i am 19 and in college i have had bad experieces with relationships my first bf got me pregnant left and i went through a miscarriage alone.My 2 bf tried to take advantage of my emotional state and he hit me during a fight. My 3 bf was the perfect guy but very religous and judgmental causing many fights.My last bf lied/cheated on me throughout my entire relationship.I have been single for a while now gotten my life almost in order and i like this guy in my english class. I got one of my friends to ask around about him and he came back with a clean rep as a nice guy.We make small talk in class and on the way out of class but i am really shy?

2007-04-12 09:01:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really care about him, but I have doughts about our relationship because of his past.

2007-04-12 08:58:57 · 29 answers · asked by LaToya 1

2007-04-12 08:53:42 · 8 answers · asked by janet m 2

2007-04-12 08:51:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY EX. WAS STUPID AND HE TRIED TO CUT HIMSELF BECAUSE I LEFT HIM FOR A BLACK GUY.....

2007-04-12 08:50:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Love Her ...when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you

Love Her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you

Love her...when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her...when her cooking is bad. She tries.

Love her...when she looks scary in the morning. She always fixes herself up again.

Love her...when she makes you watch corny love dramas while the sport is on.

She wants to share these moments with you.

Love her...when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.

Love her...when she looks beautiful. She's yours so appreciate her.

Love her...when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.

Love her...when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her its what you've always wanted.

Love her...when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay

Love her...when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and rent any movie with Vin Diesel (trust me this works!)

Love her...when she asks you to handle the kids. She trusts you for better judgement.

Love her...when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass

Love her...when she stains your clothes. You needed a new shirt anyway

Love her...when she argues. She only wants to make things right



All these things form part of a woman's character.

This woman is part of your life and should be treated as the queen she is.

Take time to make her feel special in every way.

LOVE HER for the woman she is!

Woman enjoy the person that you are

2007-04-12 08:49:20 · 13 answers · asked by dodo 2

I startd seein this guy that I have been attractd to for along time now, he's friends w/ my ex boyfriend & had a past relationship w/ my bf. we knew it was wrong from the begining but chose to keep seeing each other on the under. I really started to fall for this guy & I thought he felt the same way. My bf ended up finding out & now our friendship is over. My ex boyfriend has suspectd somethin was goin on but doesn't know for sure. My ex has calld the other guy to hang out w/ him and they have a few times w/ my ex not knowin what has been goin on. Me & the guy ended the relationship this week & now I feel like I made the biggest mistake in the world. I don't know if I should tell my ex about it or not. I lost my bf now but I was only willing to risk it bcause I really cared about this guy, it wasn't just a fling for me. Should I tell my ex about it?? once he finds out he's goin to flip & I don't want to cause drama between them two so do I say somethin or not??

2007-04-12 08:43:55 · 2 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2

2007-04-12 08:43:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I figured from the last situation from him putting his hands on her, him cheating on her, and mentally abusing her. she would grow some sense and some dignity but I dont know whats wrong with her....after loosing her job and hitting rock bottom, she wants to see this guy again after he accused her of keying his hummer, calling her crazy and other numerous things. with some time apart from him, she meets a guy that is all around the perfect match for her and now she is screwing up by seeing her ex boyfriend that treats her like **** and then wheels her back in when he is in a good mood and is willing to be a good man for five mins. all because they want to have sex together. should she focus on finding a job and stick with the new guy that treats her right or work things out with her Jerk Ex Boyfriend that plays her?

2007-04-12 08:36:47 · 2 answers · asked by Nicohle Jordi 2

Is the bf supposed to pay for most of the things or are we supposed to split the check?

I believe that it depends on the person's situation, but what if we both have money to spend? Who pays then?

I just want to know how your relationship is. Does the boyfriend pay for everything, most things, or do you split the bill?

2007-04-12 08:36:05 · 15 answers · asked by Virginia 3

my boyfriend and I used to have sex every day when we first started dating (2 yrs ago). After several months into the relationship though, sometimes he would get bored with our sex and say that I wan't "dirty" enough like I used to be or something (totally false, because my rhoutine was completely the same!). He would need porn to turn him on. After a while of not having sex we were at it again like rabbits. Then after a more months passed, he only wanted sex about once or twice a week. We're both 21 and I don't think that's normal for two young, good looking people. Sure we're busy with our studies, but how is it that my sex drive is so high (wanting sex every other day), whereas his dwindles down after awhile (wanting it once or twice a week only)? Now when I'll be frisky with him and grab his butt or something, he'll look disgusted and tell me to stop! This irritates me because he does it to me all the time! Today, I woke up and found tissues in the toilet (from him masturbating)!!

2007-04-12 08:33:32 · 3 answers · asked by aMeNa_aCid* 1