ive been goin out with my girlfriend lisa who i realllllly love,,but lately she doesnt seem like she does back, and theres this other girl niki, who said to me, she doesnt have to know, so i told niki id think bout it,,,pleaseee help me! idunno what to do
and i apreciate any responses except nasty ones
2007-04-12 09:45:55 · 7 answers · asked by macguy11935 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Choose one or the other. Chances are, if you are really considering cheating on your girlfriend, you don't truly love Lisa the way that you thought you did and she deserves to know.
2007-04-12 09:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront this Lisa and ask her how she feels about you. If she isn't feeling it for you move on. Don't cheat on her just because you could get away with it or think you could justify it. There's no justification.
I'd think twice about this Niki, bro. If she feels like Lisa doesn't "have to know" then I would be wondering what she thinks you "don't have to know"....
It sounds like you need a girl who knows what she wants and isn't in to games, maybe that isn't Lisa OR Niki!
Good luck...
2007-04-12 16:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Noazdove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to respect the girl you love. And if you're gonna dip your stick in another pond, you better break up with her first. She'll find out if you cheat, because they always do, and then she'll hate you. It's okay to play, just not when you're attached. It's reckless and you're messing with people's emotions.
2007-04-12 16:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you???
I would say, if you are still in high school, you need not be in a relationship anyway. Just date a lot of girls. Find out what you like, what you don't and what they like!
But, no, don't cheat. Thats wrong!
2007-04-12 16:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I had 3 boyfriends, I told all three I was also dating someone else. I was honest and upfront about it. But that was me. I figured if they were going to be jealous, I didn't want them.
2007-04-12 16:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick one you dog. if you really loved her, you wouldn't have even thought about cheating on her much less do it. if she finds out, ur dead.
2007-04-12 16:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your even THINKING about leaving her you dont love her so save yourself some pain and break it off
2007-04-12 16:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋