Singles & Dating - 12 April 2007

with a guy I felt very deeply for. We had a few issues with communication and it was bumpy anyways,but tonight he said his whole life he has always "needed to be right" that being right is important to him,he stressed it being of top importance to him in life.
I literally couldn't speak for a minute,and I questioned whether I heard him right...and yes I heard him right as he repeated it again.
All I could say was "no one is always right" and that "I would rather be happy than right any day".
I had to end it,I just couldn't believe it and yet that suddenly explained the problems communicating,and why I always felt on trial with him.
Is it me or is it messed up to ruin a relationship you said you wanted for life just because you have to be right??

2007-04-12 19:10:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 19:07:00 · 37 answers · asked by risky0077 1

2007-04-12 18:51:06 · 6 answers · asked by missy k 1

why do we as guys stare (or better yet glance)at ugly ar fat gurls breasts or as$ .

2007-04-12 18:47:20 · 6 answers · asked by joanthan f 1

Okay! This is straight forward really? Why do you ladies cheat? I mean, wherever i go i see ALOT of girls giving the sex look at me. not that i act on it (seriously) but it just gives the impression that i dont really want to be in a relationship cause whoever the girl may be, she'll cheat sooner or later. i have a friend who married and she is actually quiet open that she cheats with (more then one other guy). Not only does it make me disgusted in her, i actually sympathize for the guy who married her and chose to give her a BIG diamond ring. Is actually picking a girl who will cheat avoidable? I guess when im in a relationship, ill have to accept that she cheats....and when she does, not to make a big deal out of it. OR just stay out of a relationship all together.

2007-04-12 18:36:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 18:30:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Right now, my best friend and i are trying to get over each other - no, we didn't go out but decided to let things ride and didn't want to risk our relationship for something more right now in our lives. We'll hope and pray we can get another chance someday.

Anyhoo, we've been best friends for about three years; he's the guy i always go to and complain about weird guys hitting on me - he's always been there: taking care of me, saw me through my best and worst times. According to our friends, he's liked me this whole time and he just admitted it - "from the very beginning, i've always liked you..."

he's had no dating experience - never had a girlfriend and ALL of that stuff that comes with love - they physical stuff: cuddling, kisses, etc...He's pursued girls but never got it...until me...i was the first girl that's unlocked everything for him. He seemed happy ...neway, here's the question:

do you think he ever appreciated/valued what happened with us? Will he always remember?

2007-04-12 18:30:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I Drink 3 Times a Week, Tuesday's, Thursday's And Friday's, I Don't Drink On the Weekends, Am I An Alcoholic??

2007-04-12 18:19:34 · 26 answers · asked by mizktic_1 2

my boyfriend of 4 years thinks i'm immature though I don't think so. he's 25 and i'm 24. I'm the youngest in my family so I have have that baby trait but I don't think that I'm b/c compared to my friends, i'm just normal. he's kind of uptight catholic. my question is, i hate the fact that he thinks i'm and always uses it against me when he fights with me. It frustrates me. Is it wise to stay with someone who always think you're immature?

2007-04-12 18:07:52 · 8 answers · asked by mulan 1

I'm 24 and will be graduating this may. I'm currently working at two part time jobs, one for 5 years and one I just got. The new one is this assistant job for this very NEW small company. This job is really just to build up my skills and resume until i get a REAL ONE this fall. however, this company is so NEW that everything is so unorganized and I'm the only assistant my boss has in the "office." There's only one computer and one printer. No fax machine. There's not much in the office. There's piles of things to be done and it's a little overwhelming. The pay is kind of low ($9 an hour) and already after the first day, my head is aching from all the stuff I have to do. She also expects me to know a lot of computer stuff, like A LOT. Should I stick it out and learn my skills at this job (there are much to be done so I will definitely learn something but will have lots of stress) or get another assistant job at a bigger company? thanks

2007-04-12 18:05:15 · 5 answers · asked by mulan 1

Guys point of view would be nice. Me and my ex bf...long story but we had been going on for over 2 yrs, and now were barely starting to date again 2mo later. Im basically waiting for an answer from him...he still has feelings for me. He broke it off with me, but he is sorting out his feelings. So the thing is this, I want to study abroad its not necessary but its something that I wanted to do...I can do it later but if i do it now i can do it with friends. I'm scared to go because Im afraid 4 weeks will change things. We would be able to keep in contact thru email sometimes, but we wont be able to see each other. I know that may be a good thing but...will it help him? Im scared he is going to get used to not seeing me. we still have been seeing each other for the past month or two, talk everyday...
Should I go ? He said i have to do what i have to do, but he'll miss me. Will feelings change? I know most people will say, if its meant to be ...blah blah. BUt come on real answers . Thanks

2007-04-12 17:53:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am fairly new to the dating scene and finally have had the courage to ask a girl out. I recently met this girl at the mall and asked her to dinner. She said yes, and we went out the following night. I felt the date went really well and we surprisingly had a lot of things in common. This girl seems really nice and I would like to see her again. Now, here is my concern: I told her that I had a really good time and that we should do it again sometime. She responded by "yes we should". She also stated "I'll definetly be in touch". Now how do you think I should take that? Does that mean I should wait for her to contact me? Should I call her soon? Is that her still being interested or is she saying.......eeeehhhhhh maybe.? It's been two days since we went out and I haven't heard from her. Should I be concerned at all? I don't want to call/text her and seem overly interested. (even though I am interested) Any suggestions anyone?

2007-04-12 17:52:08 · 20 answers · asked by jbm3893 2

What do you say? I am thinking 20 is a good minimum and 35 is a good maximum. Please give your own min/max based on a man who is 25 for dating(not mating!) and what about a platonic friendship?

2007-04-12 17:50:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's a really hot chick I want to hit on in my class. I have never really talked to her and I don't know what to say and I really wanna get to take her out tomorrow. Any advise? BTW for some reason I kind of just don't know wtf to say to her. I have a lot of gf's that are pretty hot but I cant for this one. What should I do?

2007-04-12 17:38:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like the one You Said You Would Love Me Till You Die, But As Long As I Know You're Still Alive.
Any other/s?
Thanks!.

2007-04-12 17:37:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are NOT HAVING SEX
we were really good friends before we got serious

2007-04-12 17:24:58 · 49 answers · asked by Kimberly 1

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2007-04-12 17:21:04 · 11 answers · asked by penny p 1

There's a really hot chick I want to hit on in my class. I have never really talked to her and I don't know what to say and I really wanna get to take her out tomorrow. Any advise? BTW for some reason I kind of just don't know wtf to say to her. I have a lot of gf's that are pretty hot but I cant for this one. What should I do?

2007-04-12 17:14:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

We had dates for 2 years, planned out our future, talked about marrige, kids and then.....She told me it was over 1 week ago, then on Tuesday we had a little bit to drink and then we had sex. We weren't drunk enough to not understand what was happening, we knew what was going on. She initiated the sex, she said she loved me and then she fell asleep holding me. Then the next morning, she asked me if I wanted to go to breakfast after school, then we went to breakfast and talked for like an hour and a half. We said our goodbyes and that was it. Then the next day I asked her what was going on. I asked her if last night meant something to her and she said yes, then I asked her if we were back together or not and she said that she needed 2 days to think about it. So I don't know what to think, she put a time frame on how long it was going to take her to decide, I think she knows the answer and just isn't ready to tell me. Whats going on??????

2007-04-12 17:01:10 · 14 answers · asked by Dan H 1

ok, my roommate's ex is a friend of mine, and has been for a while. now however prom is approaching and i asked her to prom becasue i had no one else, and its senior leadout, so i need an escourtand i asked her, well naturally she said yes, otherwise i would be asking for advice, but my roomate is pissed as hell. what should i do to stop him form doing something stupid

2007-04-12 16:56:37 · 1 answers · asked by vincent, the lord of chaos 1

Curly or strait for my birthday tomorrow?

2007-04-12 16:55:40 · 15 answers · asked by Elle 1

would you kiss them?

2007-04-12 16:20:07 · 15 answers · asked by bridget 2

what do you do?

2007-04-12 16:19:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 16:18:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i luv simple plan and im also bord.

2007-04-12 16:17:59 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1

well my boyfriend is 15 and ALWAYS in trouble. He gets in trouble for stealing a bike and lieing about, getting fights (lots of fights) and he is in trouble with the cops right now because his friend (not him just his friend) was going to smoke some weed. but his lighter didnt work so his friend threw it on the ground and the trash can was right there and blew up in flames! they tried to put it out but couldn't and everyone was watching them so my boyfriend said dude we got to leave before we get in trouble! so they ran but people already saw them and knew they did it. it ended up catching the park on fire. But last time he was in trouble i told him he has to stop getting in trouble because he gets in trouble with the cops for something different every week, that if he doesn't end up changing his way im going to leave him and he said he will change but i guss he didn't because he is in trouble again. What do i do with him? i love him alot but im scared he is gonna go to juvie!HELP!

2007-04-12 16:15:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What height is ideal for a guy in your opinion? What is the minimum? personally I am 5'9, am I too short (or on the short side) to date? There are alot of girls 5'6 and 5'7 these days, am I too short for them?

2007-04-12 15:52:09 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a hot chick become friendly with you all of sudden because she likes you, what would you do??juz be friendly and treat her like the others or somehing else??

2007-04-12 15:48:01 · 1 answers · asked by denise 1

Ok there is this girl and when she comes around I just walk to the side and don't say thing and my face gets red how is a good way to start a conversation?

2007-04-12 15:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

"EYES DONT LIE" - I dont want people to look in my eyes to see how I really feel, how can I prevent this

2007-04-12 15:30:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous