my boyfriend of 4 years thinks i'm immature though I don't think so. he's 25 and i'm 24. I'm the youngest in my family so I have have that baby trait but I don't think that I'm b/c compared to my friends, i'm just normal. he's kind of uptight catholic. my question is, i hate the fact that he thinks i'm and always uses it against me when he fights with me. It frustrates me. Is it wise to stay with someone who always think you're immature?
2007-04-12 18:07:52 · 8 answers · asked by mulan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must have something going on because he's been w/you for 4 years, so I'm guessing he's just pulling that out in a argument because he has nothing else to use. He probably knows it bothers you and takes advantage of it. Next time you argue and he brings immaturity up tell him you're not arguing about it because arguing is immature. That your sick and tired of arguing like children and when he can discuss it like a adult then come and talk it out.
2007-04-12 18:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by G=ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why is the jackass with you? I told him that if he feels that way than he can leave. Great idea but in case he won't leave you leave you don't need this. I've been really annoyed lately as well because hes going to after prom without me There must be a guy that you might enjoy going to the prom with. Should I leave or not? Yes and why are you still with him?
2016-04-01 12:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's the immature one, since he keeps bringing it up. Sometimes people say to you what's the most true about themselves. Maybe you shouldn't stay with him if you're always fighting with him. Or, you can tell him, when you're not fighting, that you're sick of him always saying that and you don't want to hear it again: he can stay or go, but you don't want him throwing that at you every time you fight.
2007-04-12 18:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. He probably thinks so for now. It might make you feel better to let things cool down, then bring this up too him again. I would tell him how you feel then I would listen to what he has to say about why he says things like this.
2007-04-12 18:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he calls you immature then he's treating you like a child..and if he sees you as a child, then he's probably a pedophile. Why would you date a pedophile?
2007-04-12 18:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Che G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him...or he'll leave you...you need the upper hand so you do it first...there are more muture men out there willing to treat you the way you deserve...and want to be...he's just a jerk...
2007-04-12 18:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once again dump the loser!!
2007-04-12 18:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by CR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i'd move on
2007-04-12 18:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋