Guys point of view would be nice. Me and my ex bf...long story but we had been going on for over 2 yrs, and now were barely starting to date again 2mo later. Im basically waiting for an answer from him...he still has feelings for me. He broke it off with me, but he is sorting out his feelings. So the thing is this, I want to study abroad its not necessary but its something that I wanted to do...I can do it later but if i do it now i can do it with friends. I'm scared to go because Im afraid 4 weeks will change things. We would be able to keep in contact thru email sometimes, but we wont be able to see each other. I know that may be a good thing but...will it help him? Im scared he is going to get used to not seeing me. we still have been seeing each other for the past month or two, talk everyday...
Should I go ? He said i have to do what i have to do, but he'll miss me. Will feelings change? I know most people will say, if its meant to be ...blah blah. BUt come on real answers . Thanks
2007-04-12 17:53:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I had the opportunity to study abroad with friends, I'd take it. Why would you put your life on hold for someone who isn't even sure about you?
2007-04-12 18:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would start packing if I were you. I think that maybe you need to sort out your feelings and decide if this is a relationship worth saving. Plus its only 4 weeks i don't think either of you will be married by the time you return. Maybe a little seperate will be good for both of you.
2007-04-12 18:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by freaking_airhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs time apart to think and you have an opportunity to leave for a while. If one month apart sinks this relationship, it was not meant to be. Go and learn. There is an upside and no real down-side to leaving.
2007-04-12 18:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by Nels N 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 06:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by cabaniss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real answer: It will strengthen your relationship enormously for you to go and study abroad. Guys don't want anything too easy, they want to hunt and chase, they're like cavemen that way. Make it more difficult for him, and he will cherish you more. Go!
2007-04-12 17:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋