Okay! This is straight forward really? Why do you ladies cheat? I mean, wherever i go i see ALOT of girls giving the sex look at me. not that i act on it (seriously) but it just gives the impression that i dont really want to be in a relationship cause whoever the girl may be, she'll cheat sooner or later. i have a friend who married and she is actually quiet open that she cheats with (more then one other guy). Not only does it make me disgusted in her, i actually sympathize for the guy who married her and chose to give her a BIG diamond ring. Is actually picking a girl who will cheat avoidable? I guess when im in a relationship, ill have to accept that she cheats....and when she does, not to make a big deal out of it. OR just stay out of a relationship all together.
2007-04-12 18:36:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
monogamy is a myth. There is no such thing! Well, I've never seen any proof of it's existence anyway.
I find myself thinking of straying when I'm lonely or feel like I am not a priority in my significant others life. He's got other things going on in his life and not enough time (or energy left) to offer me. I am very good about telling him when I'm starting to feel like I'm missing out. Sometimes he listens and makes a minimal effort sometimes he just doesn't get it.
I always make it a point to let him know my state of mind before I act on it. Usually between the two of us we are able to forestall any infidelity. So far....Though we did enjoy a poly-amorous relationship when we were considerable younger.
2007-04-12 19:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Heathery Lane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to cheat i dont any more
The basic reason is that i didnt get out of the relationship what i needed, i loved the guy this is always hard to explain how can i love someone and cheat on them, the thing is he realy loved me back and did everything in his power to keep me happy and i was happy when he was with me then i wouldnt even look at another guy but the problem there is that i only saw him every second month for a day or two
I still love him i will always love him
The guy if with currently i see everyday and i never even thought about cheating on him
2007-04-12 18:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just fantasizing. If you only want to take matters in your own hands, and prefer it over your girlfriend, it's become a problem. It doesn't mean that you're cheating, it means a real woman can't satisfy you. I'm pretty sure ALL guys are fantasizing about someone when they're doing this...they may even be fantasizing about their girlfriends getting freaky with them. Isn't it always about the sensation? You aren't doing anything wrong. Most people who take matters in their own hands fantasize about the opposite sex, whether their other half...or a stranger. Some even fantasize about the same sex. Give yourself a break...you aren't cheating.
2016-05-19 15:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so sure that a woman will cheat. Millions of women are completely faithful to their husbands. Men are more likely to cheat. Look for someone who is reliable in a lot of ways, honest, shows up on time, says she'll do something and does it, and then you'll know that she is going to be faithful, because she shows good values and character in a lot of ways in her life. And then be a great husband to her, so she's not tempted.
2007-04-12 18:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being married to an Ahole makes us cheat.
2007-04-12 18:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mabey it is becuse somtimes we get board of the same person. i sound crazy dont i #_#
2007-04-12 18:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by the_smaller_gods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋