2007-04-12 22:02:27 · 7 answers · asked by Samaiel R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to get a life. As a matter of fact tell her that you got one and it does not include her. If you let her back she is only going to leave you again and this time it won't be her fault it will be yours for allowing it. She has issues. You don't need that crap in your life. What happens if you take her back and you need her and she just leaves. I wouldn't allow a person like that to be my friend. She is poison.
2007-04-12 22:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by ARM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she has an excellent reason for staying away for 4 years, you need to tell her that she has already had her chance. Why would you even consider this after she hurt you so badly? Are you so desperate that you are going to let women manipulate you for 4 years, then take her back? She may want you back because she doesn't have anyone else right now. What happens when she finds some else again? You are going to be in pain all over again. You deserve better than that. Get out there and find you a nice lady that will love and respect you.
2007-04-13 05:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. Why did she leave and why did she wait so long to come back? Was there someone else in between? I dont know, but I can tell you this. People take advantage when they know they have something over on you they want to see how long you will beg and then when it finally stops they realize they better act quick or they could lose the game, you know what I mean. You never want what you know you can have. It is far more appealing when you think you cant have it. Ever lost something for a long period of time that was important to you? You appreciate it alot more once you get it back, you make sure you are not going to lose it again. It falls under the category of you dont know what you have until its gone. If you love her that much then take her back. But I sure wouldnt be the fool if she tries it again. Keep your self respect above all else.
2007-04-13 05:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by dydasgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like she's back because you stopped begging her to return.
You can discuss why she left, and why she's back if you're comfortable with it, but after 4 years, it probably should not be put back together.
2007-04-13 05:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where was your dignity those 4 years you were begging her... i don't mean to be mean but jeez have some self respect and find yourself someone worth your time!
2007-04-13 05:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on and find someone else, one not so game playing. she is using you until someone else gets her attention and she leaves again.
2007-04-13 05:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by onlinedreamer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how about you ask her first why she left you? and be attentive, you should be able to determine if she is lying or not.......after which you make your decision.....Goodluck....
2007-04-13 05:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋