Are there any girls out there who are I guess OK with their guys viewing porn. But feel kind of depressed by the fact that he can go a week or longer without having sex with you, but has trouble going even two days without porn? Why? Why are you men with some of us women who have nothing physically wrong with us if you can easially go a long time without sex with us, but can NEVER do without porn. Not having your wife/gf for sex wouldn't phase you, but no porn would absolutely kill you? Why do you love that more anyways? Curious. My bf even frequently tells me I could be a penthouse girl easy, and just brings it up when I'm in just underwear.
2007-04-12 20:12:24 · 17 answers · asked by Secret Bubblegum Agent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't understand his choice if I am so "perfect" to him. Seriously, help me here.
2007-04-12 20:14:56 · update #1
btw, we have NEVER had a fight or argument after a year of living together, I kid you not! He buys me flowers, and tells me he loves me a million times a day. Seriously, perfect relationship, I have NEVER nagged him.
2007-04-12 20:15:39 · update #2
men have no emotional attatchment, I know that. But why would you rather spend more time with that, then you would with your girl if the experience is so much better? Why pick something meaningless to you over something that means the world?
2007-04-12 20:20:28 · update #3
I would take sexy pics for him ,but what does it matter?! he would just get off to porn right after.
2007-04-12 20:21:49 · update #4
http://www.myspace.com/arkanadesade
I look like this, so I am confussed by his choice.
2007-04-12 20:23:14 · update #5
To answer your quesiton : Porn doesn't nag.
But you are asking the wrong question.
The fact that he looks at porn has nothing to do with you. We're pigs.
2007-04-12 20:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by Desperate Loser 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-17 13:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your live-in boyfriend likes the porn because, unlike with you, he can get his "jollies" without making any kind of effort to please the porn sex objects in any way. He is obviously not yet committed enough to you to let you take the place of the pornography on a permanent basis. If you are looking for someone to express caring love for you, stop giving him sex without requiring anything in return. Move into your own place and then, see if he prefers you or the porn. If you are already dissatisfied, what can you lose? Best wishes.
2007-04-12 20:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel threatened by porn!
You have to realize (and this is coming from a guy) that we don't have an emotional attachment to porn... it's just for getting off, simple as that.
You're not just for getting off, you're for loving, and enjoying, and spending time with. You have something much more special than a video tape or the internet ever would.
2007-04-12 20:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by tedwardroberts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 01:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are coming from. My bf looked at a lot of porn when we first got together and I was extremely upset by it. I am not a pin up and I always felt that he looked at porn because he wasn't sexually attracted to me. It became a problem when we moved into together, as I would find that he would look at porn before coming to bed to me. I put my foot down and told him that he can look at porn with his mates and on his own if he wants, but out of respect for me and our children, not to do it at home, on the computer that I use. I guess I know that he will look, and it makes me sick to my stomach, but I'm just glad that I don't have to be confronted with it. Out of sight out of mind so to speak.
2007-04-12 20:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you had better have it out with this guy. If he prefers porn over the real thing then he has problems that you will never overcome.Tell him to get therapy or take a walk. As dear abby used to say Are better off with him or without him? Only you can decide. You deserve better treatment. LOL.
2007-04-12 20:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by jms043 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think having a boyfriend looking at porn is a big deal. Porn is just porn, naked women. The occasional porn doesn't bother me, however, some men can be overly obsessed with it. Have you talked to your boyfriend about how it makes you feel? If it honestly makes you feel like crap and he doesn't respect your opinion, then maybe you are with the wrong person.
2007-04-12 20:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This man is sick-if you really love him-get him some help-this may include you walking away from him. Google sexual addiction and you will see what I mean. He has very obvious signs of his illness by what you described.
There are some easy quizzes you can take online to tell you whether or not he is addicted. Do this if you really care about him.
2007-04-12 20:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a addiction. Just like smoking or alcohol or whatever.
He wants to watch others have sex and that is what he likes. I don't agree with it nor do I disagree with what he likes.
He is addicted to sex and I would be careful...he's getting it elsewhere as well.
Yeah, I've seen or watch porn but really doesn't turn me on. He is a addict to watching it. You can give him all you want and it ain't going to change.
2007-04-12 20:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by Magicman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Porn is something a guy can just turn on! Whereas with a girl, they have initiate it, when shes in the mood.
2007-04-12 20:17:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋