we had been good relation since last 2 yrs....but suddenly things changed....he remains so busy in his work....and does not even keep some time for me.....and we usually have fights over small things....like not writing mail...or keeping me waited for long time n all.....day before yesterday i asked him if u dont have time then u should not have loved...or make this new relationship.....he said i was little child that time and now i m grown up......it really felt me so bad...i did'nt had any talk with him since and i just wrote 3 lines mail that "whether it was a joke or truth but sorry i think u dont need me anymore so bye forever?if i did the right thing and i love him ,i dont know wht to do help me????
2007-04-12 23:43:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey breaking up is soooo hard to do.... its been two years... maybe the relationship has grown stale... Men have very short attention spans... You deserve more!!!! tell him how you really feel over dinner or something intimate... see what he thinks about you two splitting up for a while ... doesn't have to really happen, but see what his thought is on this... Good luck!!! Love is such a delicate situation.
2007-04-12 23:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by SexyCole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well things are clear he is trying to wind down relationship and if you can understand he mention he was lil child then and now he has grownup. Things happen when relationship become boring or stale. You deserve alot more. He might not very stable or has grown out of this relationship but same time he does not want to hurt you by telling you its over. If you do not hear from you or he do not call you then you take it its over and move on. I feel sorry for you and hope you gain enough strength to pull your self through this situation. Spartan
2007-04-13 00:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Spartan Total Warrior 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either the pressures on the job have gotten worse, or he is trying to split up with you. Sometimes men/women or cowards. They don't always say what is on their minds. They figure that if they treat you nasty enough, you will leave them and make it easier on them.
Have one good talk with him. Ask him to be honest. Ask him if he is ready to end the relationship, or tell him to explain what is happening at work that keeps him from spending any time with you.
If he is really working, or under some sort of pressure, you will need to give him some space. If you love him, you will need to be understanding. If he wants out, you haven't been very happy anyway. Move on. You will find someone that will love you, and treat you that way too!! Best wishes!!
2007-04-12 23:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this type of problems vil not stay longer, not to worry okena. And moreover compare to me ur probs is very very silly. Mine Is 7 years of love. We both used to fight for unnecessary issue and simply things, but that vil lead to 1 or 2 month break. Then after 2 months he vil call me up and v vil start continuing. This happened for years together. Then after both side agreed marriage was fixed. Our marriage was on july 4th. So in between june 20 – 30th v had a v v big fight. I took all the saree, jewels etc for what all he gave for marriage I went and throwed on his face. After that he didn’t talk to me only only 1 week was left for marriage. Then all of a sudden we spoke to each other. Now we got married I have a kid of 3 years old. (I am not joking or just framed a story to comfort u) it true life of mine
2007-04-13 00:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by vinsha_goldie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m really feeling very bad for you, But I must say that he was not child that time when he loves you even this time he behaving like child.
I do not understood How you loved him. He is really very irresponsible for his Love.
You dont contact him, If he loves you then he will call you back first. You just wait for some days, If he will not call back to you then dont call him ever.
Just forget him and moov ahead in life.
Best Part of luck is always with you.
2007-04-13 00:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obvious signs of a dwindling relationship are there - no time for each other, fighting over petty things, easily irritable, not caring at all, & etc. Your partner has grown tired of your routinary relationship. To win him back, try to add spice to it. Give him space too, especially now he's busy with work.
2007-04-12 23:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by thatsraven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what u must be feeling right know but may be he's too busy that he doesn't find time for u. So for a moment just forget about him and search ur self. Think about ur self just do something which makes u happy like listening music or talking to an old frnd. boys are idiots they think that we girls can't live without them so just ignore him, his calls, messages. just behave like a stranger to him like u don't know him never met him. u have lost ur self somewhere in the crowd so just find ur self don't let anyone play with ur emotions.
2007-04-16 05:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by catherine f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take the relation as learning,
look back positively try to figure out negative points and correct them for next relation opportunity.
to pardon is the greatest deed.
pardon him let him go ..u will feel like god
2007-04-13 03:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by chin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont disturb him. is he behaved well with u when he met u . if he behave well like loving means then ur wrong . if he not behave like a lover when he met u these days means he lost his concentrasion on u . may b mind changed . if he love means he will come back if he didnt means he may have another thought
2007-04-13 02:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some another friend stay happy.he is living his happly.
2007-04-13 00:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋