Singles & Dating - 2 April 2007

I met this girl a few months ago...she goes to an out of state school so we dont really see other a lot, hung out during her spring break twice and it was nice...couldnt really sense a lot of flirting or anything, but did notice the occasional glance and look over if u know what i mean. when we talk online we talked about us found out a little more about each other since there is nothing wrong with getting to know someone...but also interests...and she has called me "nice guy" twice but that hasnt happened in over 1 month so thats good...she texts me a lot, well every now and then (she initiates convos), i cant even tell if im in the friend zone.

fortunatley she hasnt called me a "friend" or "brother" crap yet..but i want to avoid that AT ALL COSTS

what are somethings i could do to make sure she sees me as a potential boyfriend, not just a friend...things to avoid, things to do, things to say/not to say, how often to respond back to texts etc? i'm a confused kid.

2007-04-02 19:25:32 · 7 answers · asked by Wayne D 1

I am in a relationship and recently accepted Jesus into my heart. My question is this, if we have had sex before this change in my life, should I stop doing it? I know that it is a sin, but it seems a little odd because I'm with the same guy, and we've been doing it before all of this? He hasn't put any pressure on me but we still love eachother very much. He is not a born again christian but believes in the christian faith

2007-04-02 19:21:39 · 37 answers · asked by Cutiepie98 1

for both girls and boys

2007-04-02 19:18:00 · 41 answers · asked by nikki 1

she is skinny but really cute. Almost 20 years old but she has little boobs.

2007-04-02 19:14:52 · 43 answers · asked by joan 1

2007-04-02 19:12:38 · 5 answers · asked by Phillip 4

I met a wonderful nurse last month while visiting my dad in the hospital. She gave me her e-mail address and we have been exchanging e-mails for most of the month. When should I ask her for coffee?

2007-04-02 19:10:56 · 11 answers · asked by Phillip 4

Ok why is it that it seems happiness is always just barely out of my reach. I mean is there some driving force for everything that is that determines who will have everything they could possibly want and others have to struggle everyday of their life just to make some small niche for themselves? I ask this because it seems in all aspects of my life i feel im going nowhere. the harder i try it seems the worse i fail. relationships always elude me no matter how positive an attitude i try to have. it always blows up in my face. Ive heard you just have to wait for the right person to show up but why is it that some people find that person quickly while others wait sometimes their whole lifetime to find their someone and sometimes they never do. Are some people just not meant to have someone? Sometimes im told my standards should lower but i know what i want. why should i have to settle for less than what i know will make me happy? I know this sounds shallow but its the way i feel.

2007-04-02 19:04:57 · 3 answers · asked by zorlandkeirwulf 2

I am only my 3rd week of training/orientation on my new job.?
I received another offer from another company.same salary but im sure i will enjoy the job more. is it ok to resign?are there bad consequences in doing so?

2007-04-02 18:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

also that she never told you that she went out with him as well and that is also considered cheating kissing him. keeping secrets behind your back cuz she's not sure if she still wants to leave her ex and is just using you against him. what do u think?

2007-04-02 18:41:09 · 16 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3

I have been going out with this girl for 7 months. we have gone through alot of bumps on the road and we have been on the "breaking up" side of things for the past 2 months. we really love eachother and we want to continue the relationship. but things are not the same after the fighting. what things can i do. what places can i take her to spark that fire that once was there.

2007-04-02 18:36:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-02 18:34:42 · 7 answers · asked by oral_gourmande 1

I was wearing cute new shoes today and asked my bf's opinion. He told me guys don't care about shoes, unless they are gay. I think a any kind of guy can easily tell if shoes are ugly or unflattering, therefore he can also tell if they are cute or good looking! I mean, whether or not its a big factor in whether a girl is attractive. You can not deny that you appreciate shoes!... Can you?

2007-04-02 18:30:45 · 16 answers · asked by Willow 2

there is a 2 day rule right contact. i mean come on. you would have to be out of your mind to stalk someone for 8 yrs. what these people dont' have alife. especially when i see most of them out with other guys. what is there problem. trust me people have told me i had a telephone guy come to my house he told me they were messing with my line on the main panel. i would like to see them dead for what they did but its illegal. they should be prosicuted. invasion of privacy i don't care who they are.

2007-04-02 18:29:00 · 3 answers · asked by DOUGLAS B 1

The thing is I'm a black guy and sometimes I just think white girls don't be hooking up with black guys. It is difficult for me sometimes to get a white girl number but much more easy for me to get a black or mexican girl number. Are white girls afraid what they parents say or how people look at them?

Or is it me? http://www.myspace.com/fun2bearound_1

2007-04-02 18:28:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious, what are the chances of someone getting pregnant if they've been on the pill for about 8 months now, takes it very close to the same time every single day [sometimes like 30-1hr difference], has unprotected sex [never near her ovulation date, always at least a week before and at the end of her ovulation cycle] and the guy pulls out before [and gets it every time because he finishes himself off the last five seconds on his own to make sure he doesn't go inside her]?

Just looking for some info for a friend.

2007-04-02 18:23:03 · 15 answers · asked by rockinfreakapotamus 2

i have a good guy and he likes me lots too but this one guy at work keeps giving me stuff I dont take them but now he sends flowers and I dont know what to do it feels very weird to go to work now any good suggestions

2007-04-02 18:21:34 · 7 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4

There is a guy who lives 20-25mins from me, I've known him for over a year now and he's been wanting to go out with me since like the day we started talking. I met him through Myspace and it turned out that he was (still is) friends with this girl who I'm friends with too and known for 10 years!!!

Anyways, lately he's been texting me wanting to meet him because he really likes me and wants to be with me but thing is, I'm nevous about meeting him and I keep putting it off.

Is it normal to feel nervous like that? I mean, I've met guys from online before in person, but he's different and I'm just really nervous to go meet him, I like him a lot but he's just different...

Could it be that he's telling me he likes me and wants to be with me BEFORE we even meet? I don't know, I'm so confused, I keep putting off meeting him and I feel bad, what should I do?

2007-04-02 18:16:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i am 15 yrs old
i have a nice body, brown hair, dresses nice(covers herself not like a s**t), likes horses, one of the best runners on track, kind, pretty, wit a very good personality, very social. Do u think that is hot or not? answer truthfully please. thx xoxoxoxo

2007-04-02 18:12:25 · 8 answers · asked by BellaCullen~<3~ 3

my ex, we dated for about three years said she still wanted to stay friends cause she really carred about me but she never calls to see how im doin.

2007-04-02 18:11:20 · 18 answers · asked by mustangghia75 2

or do we just convince ourselves that we can be eternally infatuated and brainwashed into committment.

2007-04-02 18:07:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to hear because they are Sluts and nasty things like that. I mean such as, were they abused sexualy or somthing like that. Or because of the way they were raised and so on.

2007-04-02 18:04:03 · 2 answers · asked by sunnydays 1

The last few times that I went to the gym to work out, there is a girl there that hits on me, and it's pretty obvious.

The thing is she's 20 and I'm 33.

She's nice, and she's one of the prettiest women I've seen in a long time. And I can tell she wants me to ask her out.

What do you think? Do you think age difference doesn't matter, and I should go ahead and ask her out anyway?

Thanks

2007-04-02 18:01:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im attracted to an older man, for first time but have no idea how to approach the situation.

2007-04-02 17:59:03 · 11 answers · asked by katy 1

Ok, i liked this girl alot and we good until out of nowhere we just broke me and I still like her, it has been like 4 months and i still like her alot! I am going to start seeing her (not dating, just actual seeing) and I want to know what I should do to help get us back. I appreciate all SERIOUS answers.

2007-04-02 17:56:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-02 17:54:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this ex and we broke up becuase he was cheating on me and seeing other girls for the last seven months we were together. i didn't even find out from him that we had broken up, but from the biggest loud mouth at our school. two days afterwards he was making out with another girl right in front of my locker. i want to make him feel bad. how do i do this? make him insanly jealous and then not take him back when he comes to me. is this too harsh? if not then how do i go about doing this? ok guys, so what could a girl do to make you jealous?

2007-04-02 17:52:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

what age does a guy think he would like to be married by?

2007-04-02 17:51:56 · 7 answers · asked by loveendswithguns 1

Okay heres my situation. I just recently got back together with a girl I had been going out with for awhile but then she broke it off. We have known eachother for 7 years, since we were 7, and always liked eachother, but had only been going out for about 5 months.
Problem is, my best friend doesnt like the fact im going out with her because she kept afew things from me, like how she had gotten drunk and lost her virginity the summer before we got together the first time. But she did tell me when we got back together.
Shes good friends with my friend, and she had said she was worried us being together would ruin her friendship with my friend. She also has said over the phone that her friendship is more important than us being together, but whenever she sees me she takes it all back. She recently asked me over the phone if we would still be friends if we broke up, because when we broke up the first time I pretty much stopped hanging out with her. Im wondering what I should do.

2007-04-02 17:47:47 · 10 answers · asked by Mr.Right 2

okay, someone tell me what's going on. this guy is in my college and he doesn't know me and we never talked. whenever he's with his friends, and he sees me, he points me out to his friends. But, I just ignore him and his friends and just do my thing. after 3 times of coincidently seeing him again, he still points me out to differnent people he talks to. then, one time, he was alone and he gave me this look as if he feels sad. is that a trick? i mean why would you feel sad when you don't know the girl...? then one time saw him again and he sat there looking at me, sort of frustrated and just plain staring at me pissed. the last time I seen him, he was with some other friends and smiling and making his friends look at me again. now, what do you guys think the guy would do next? give up or what? what do you think I should do? I don't know him, but i think his cute, but he is an acquintance.
he's the jock type and not shy at all. but so am I, not shy and I'm like the cheerful cute type

2007-04-02 17:32:33 · 2 answers · asked by yennay 3

My bf of almost 3 years had an emotional affair with a co-worker. We broke up after he told me about it for about 3 months. We decided to get back together and then we were engaged 5 months later. but i haven't been able to trust him 100% since we got back together. Since then he has found another job but he now shares and office with another women and i am unsteady about his partnership with this women. I love him and he loves me. I am always questioning him about the women that he talks to and checking his cell phone. We have been fighting alot the last couple of month and recently broke up again but he is still living with me since I was laid off from my job. He feels that he needs to stay and help me withthe bills until I get back on my feet. We are also talking about how can we fix this situation, but he tells me that he needs to feel trusted again. How do i learn to trust him again?

2007-04-02 17:30:02 · 15 answers · asked by stephanie r 1