Singles & Dating - 30 March 2007

when a guy your not going with is on the phone with you for 3 hours what does it mean.

2007-03-30 23:12:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious. I'm in a very close and loving relationship and just want to find the best ways to please my woman even more. Size is not an issue, but I was just curious if I should focus more on oral sex over intercourse. What techniques are the most preferred by women? Do most women truly enjoy getting their anus licked (seriously, this is what many of my friends and their girlfriends have stated)? Are there any new or "better" positions for receiving oral sex or intercourse for my special lady? Answers open to both male and female genders. Thanks alot (and please note that I am not trying to be perverted. Just trying to please my woman as much as humanly possible)!!!

2007-03-30 22:58:49 · 21 answers · asked by ArmyImp 1

i'm 21 and he is in his late 30's or early 40's,but i really like him everything about him.i'm just not sure how togo about this.

2007-03-30 22:44:14 · 12 answers · asked by jacks20_20 1

If you are 24 years old guy having conversation with 18years old girl, do you feel the age gaps between two of you???? I heard that some of guys think the conversation with much younger girls(like 6yrs younger) is limited meaning no fun...
the guy has a full time job and i am a sophomore in college... What is your opinion???

2007-03-30 22:36:03 · 15 answers · asked by Abigail L 1

"hi, my name is _____ and i think you're really pretty and i'd like to take you out to dinner sometimes"

2007-03-30 21:58:03 · 12 answers · asked by waddle02 2

Would a girl that like you(in your office) will stop liking you if people bad mouthed the guy you like and stop liking him or at least don't want to go out with him.

2007-03-30 21:50:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 16 and i'm single. I've only been out with one guy when i was 13 and it only lasted a month. I think i'm ok but i dnt no why i still dnt have a boyfriend or at least someone who likes me. I think i need to be more of a girl coz i think i act a bit boyish which is something guys dnt rly like and i need to flirt more and raise my self-esteem which is very low these days. I kind of feel very lonely and would like to have someone to love me and me love him back. Guys at my school are asses and so immature and i dont rly know how to meet new people outside of school and im trying but its not really working. I think i need a lot of help with my social life coz i think i dnt rly have one so... Plz help me become more sociable and extroverted and attractive. I think i have problems with my attitude, my physique, my way of talking... Everything in me is not attractive so i dont know what to do actually. I'm trying but I think im doing a lot of wrong things here so help?

2007-03-30 21:46:00 · 2 answers · asked by BrokenArtist 7 1

me and this guy had two dates, and i asked him out yesterday..
so we are supposed to meet up on upcoming sunday..
but the thing is, i don't want to meet him for a while....
the reason why i asked him out is that he paid for dinner twice.. i felt some kind of obligation to pay that money back by taking him to good restaurant... (do you think so?)
this guy is really gentle, nice,polite,caring etc.. i do not want to hurt his feeling..
some of my friends told me to raincheck .. but i've already done it..a day before the first date , i was sick.. when he asked me for a second date,i was out of town.(for 2 weeks)... so.... if i tell him some sort of lame excuse, unless it is a very good, he will be very disappotinted and i don't want that to be happened..
What should i do???????? without hurting his feeling..........

2007-03-30 21:44:25 · 8 answers · asked by Abigail L 1

my best friend was telling me about how she went out on a date & hooked up w/this guy, and I suddenly felt really sad and couldn't get any sleep that night. ive been wanting a bf that really meant something to me for a long time, so maybe that's why, but i dont know if im feeling jealousy, or loneliness, or whatever else. please help! (please don't kill me about my spelling/grammar mistakes)

2007-03-30 21:40:02 · 12 answers · asked by Danityxkanexluvah 1

he always talks to me when he sees me, he always makes me laugh and we get along great his friend says he likes me but i dont know. how do i REALLY lure him in?

2007-03-30 21:15:05 · 9 answers · asked by 10AnnaE 2

okay so this lady comes in to where I work and always flirts with me. I think its just in a play around way. You know, she smiles at me, stares at me a lot, laughz at my jokez even if their not funny. And she alwayz takez her time leaving the register after she has already paid. The problem, she is 26 and I'm 20. I want to ask her out but I'm afraid she'll just laugh at me because I'm too young. Do you think she'll go for it or laugh at me and the idea?

2007-03-30 21:03:30 · 7 answers · asked by Running Man 2

Its so true no matter what I say or do he acts like it never happened and will talk to me...He is a nice guy but I told him not to say this because its impossible someone can never get angry..for example I gave him a PSP but not a game...when I asked him are you angry I didn't get you a game he just said no...I never angry at you..how would you take it?

2007-03-30 20:36:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok. I am almost 17. In highschool obviously. I don't no what I'm doing wrong. I have been told countless times by both guys and girls that i am BEAUTIFUL. Not just pretty. BEAUTIFUL. But no guy has ever asked me out DIRECTLY...it's always through a friend or i had to do the asking. I've had relationships but never with someone from my school. I'm not a slut and i don't sleep around and that's prob. why most of the time the really cute one's don't want me. I have TONS of friends and everyone both male and female likes me. I've only met a few who don't like me. I'm not bragging. I just don't understand why i can't snag a man. Every guy I've gone out with has cheated on me. I've always been the on to break up w/ them too. WHY WHY WHY !!!!!!!!!!!! ????????

I need a guys point of view on the sit. plz. !!!!

2007-03-30 20:31:01 · 3 answers · asked by kiki<3 4

Men are always talking about what kind of woman they don't want or don't date so I was just wondering... what kind of woman do men want and what kind of qualities are they looking for in a woman besides looks and brains?

2007-03-30 20:27:27 · 13 answers · asked by diva22 2

ok heres wat hapn i was wit this boy we will call d anhe is n the marines so we dont talk much. well my ex (k) was gettn help on the reasons we broke up 4 (dnt ask long story) but n e way we started talkin an he askd me if id like to go to the movies an i dont bleeve in cheatin but he said it wuld be as friends so i said yes but he is really pushy(i was afraid of him due to that) an i thought that he was changin but i guess not becuz wen we went he was all over me an i kinda caved but while we were in the middle i want to stop but newayz in the end he calld d an told him wat hapn i am tryin to further myself from k but he wont let me he threatns me an i dont want to call the police so 1 how do i stop k from harrassing me an 2 how do i win d back he is talkin to me just not happy id love to hear a mans point of veiw thanx

2007-03-30 20:22:55 · 3 answers · asked by belly jelly 1

There is this young lady, who is my best friend. We have known each other for 2.5 years. We are really close, and share each others secrets. The problem is I have fallen for her. I have tried at least 5 times to make this relationship more than just friends, but she does not like me in that way. During these 2.5 years, she has gone out with "losers". She keeps getting her heart hurt by these dum-dums. She talks to me about them and about the idiotic things they do to hurt her. Sometimes I just want to say, "Stop dating these idiots and be my girlfriend!" What should I do?

2007-03-30 20:21:38 · 21 answers · asked by bigtwan_76 1

I like this guy that obviously likes me and we would be going out if we where old enough but I am 13 and he is six days older than me but lately I have heard that in the passed he has prettended to like a girl so that the girl he really used to like wouldn't think he did for some reason and it is making me nervous.Do you have any advice for me and don't tell me just to sk him out cause I am too young and niether of or parents would let us at this age.

2007-03-30 20:21:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-30 20:19:30 · 9 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

i was woundring what do girls want in sex i mean what it is the main thing that they love and what do girls really like in a man??? i mean really like?????????????!!!!!!

2007-03-30 20:17:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me because she all of a sudden "doesn't love me anymore...and doesn't want to be with me.." It's been 5 days now and I'm hurting so much right now...is there any hope left between us?

i know for sure she is not cheating on me...

2007-03-30 19:54:20 · 11 answers · asked by hii 2

Okay, I was told by someone close to me that I need to start focusing on settling down with a guy along with completing my education.

At the age of 22, should I start looking for someone to share my life with now?

Yes, I've been busy with school and work but should I really start improving my love life too. I took a break from relationships for maturity reasons (I've always felt wiser and stronger emotionally then my b/fs). For that reason, I thought I'd reflect on why I attract the kind of men I don't want in my life.

However, should I just stop with all the reflecting? How do I start attracting the men that I need verses the the ones who are toxic?????

2007-03-30 19:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by rosie768 3

I'm a very attractive black woman and want to try dating outside my race. Im not going around looking for white guys or any thing like that. But for some reason its not going well.

2007-03-30 19:32:26 · 9 answers · asked by vicki 1

Have you ever had a male housemate who keeps pretending to get caught in the act of pleasuring himself? Whenever my girlfriend or I walk into the bathroom, there he is at it again with our photos. He acts all embarressed/looks sheepish etc but he never even bothers to lock the door. We have both made it clear to him that we are only interested in sleeping with each other and not him, but he insists on trying to change our minds by doing all our chores etc. How do I let him down gently without breaking the fragile and delicate male ego. And how do we get him to lock the BLOODY door and quit using our photos!?!

2007-03-30 19:28:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been cool for three years and this whole time he's liked me (i had no clue) and recently i just realized that even if he is a dork, i really love him. We're both mutual yet decided that right now in our lives, we can't risk it. We'll take our time and not rush - it'll happen when it happens.

So now we're trying to be normal again but WE CAN'T!!! I MISS IT! I know me and him are on the same page - we're both selfish: we want to be best friends again but at the same time we secretly both want each other to still keep those feelings in tact.

I'm scared because i'm afraid we'll never have that same friendship again and also if we did, he might not look at me the same way. After going through soo many stupid guys, the one i was looking for the whole time, was the one right next to me

i don't think i'm ever gonna get over him and i need help!
we'll we ever be normal again? I just want us to have that close friendship again and maybe some potential for being together later..

2007-03-30 18:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have claimed the whole time we dated that she used me for things that I gave her and told her that is why she dated me, but she denied that being true. We have a baby together and on the day she broke up with me I had the child with me and while she was at work I suspended the account (since I am the one that pays for it). She went hay wire calling me up telling me how this is one reason she didnt want to date me. She claimed that this is the reason that " she felt like she was selling her soul to the devil by dating me" Now I try and tell her how this is a perfect example of how she used me and she still claims that she never used me and that I should not have turned her cell phone off since we have a baby together, but again, the child was with me at the time I turned it off. We are both curious of everyone's response and will be checking the answers frequently so if you need more info, just ask and I will provide with in a half hour. Thanks for your oppinions

2007-03-30 18:51:35 · 19 answers · asked by drbrian247 2

people say leave that who hurt me, try to distract myself from the things which makes me sad... forget the person whom I love but he doesn't... everyone said to me forget him and other person will come who will truly love me but this is all to say... nothing is in reality.
Its been more than a year... but till today I am in deep deep sadness. mourn on my love, my feelings never changed. I pretend to be happy in front of others, my friend and my parents think I am funny girl...
but I know this is just not me. my Internal is sad, in greif, I am in pain,,, for so long... I am tired from this sadness.. my life undergown from so many tragedies in past 4year and the guy whom I love come in my life 1year back with promise that he will never go my smile from my lips... but he left me, I bear everything happened to me but this , he left me. i cant come over it. each time I tried to come out but In this past year I tried to forget him but as I tried it become more painful. I truly love him but He dont care for my feeling.
from past two days I am very upset, I dont want to eat, I am not crying and not doing any thing. I am loosing interest in life's activities. But i want to come out. I dont want to be like this but i am unable to help myself. there is nobody in this huge huge world to whom i can explain how sad I am, how painful is to tolerate that you are not been loved with that person to whom who love more than anything. I cant forget him and I dont want to be with him. Is this sadness will remain with me forever? Thats why I thought to describe my feelings here... help me people, I am helpless.
I am sad, I am very sad.

2007-03-30 18:45:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

So there is this girl I really like and she likes me and we are both sophmores. she and I would like to take our friendship to the level of Boyfriend girlfriend, but I can't do that because I am a christian and she is not, and the most important thing in my life is my relationship with my God so If I did this it would definitely effect it. I also think she is curious about what is so great about my God, and I would like to know how you think I should present my standards to her without hurting her feelings, of feeling forced into Christianity.

2007-03-30 18:42:52 · 21 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3

Its true, but I was mortified when he told them - we were all a bit drunk but still . . . . What else can I do?

2007-03-30 18:39:02 · 11 answers · asked by risky girl 2

I have a friend who had an admirer who was deeply in love with her.She didn't mind him before because she hated him.As her admirer started losing faith that my friend would like him, my friend started liking him.And to the point that my friend loved him.And she found out that her admirer liked one of her other friends.And that certain friend hates my friend's former admirer.My friend is heartbroken and is trying to get him back.But how?

2007-03-30 18:30:16 · 6 answers · asked by kitbianca 1

so i just got out of a pretty long relationship. like...2 years almost and i was kinda liking being single. but then...this hottie pa tottie comes along at my work and were getting to know each other b4 we seriously date. i think that God is telling me to be with him, the sad thing is that his mom has cancer and hes really blunt so hes told me a lot about his hard life...hes such an amazing person though. idk...how can i help? what exactly do i need to do to make this what God wants?

2007-03-30 18:27:22 · 4 answers · asked by Jenna M 2