My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me because she all of a sudden "doesn't love me anymore...and doesn't want to be with me.." It's been 5 days now and I'm hurting so much right now...is there any hope left between us?
i know for sure she is not cheating on me...
2007-03-30 19:54:20 · 11 answers · asked by hii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've tried calling her and texting her...she said she will never talk to me again but she still answers her phone but hangs up quickly?
2007-03-30 19:58:20 · update #1
her main reason was that "we've been together for too long"
2007-03-30 20:01:59 · update #2
I assume you asked her alredy "Is there anything I can do to change it?" in this case - sorry to say - the answer is probably no. It takes two to tango. At least she was honest.
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Then the best strategy is to not call her. There is a slight chance that she will be surprised that you are not chasing her anymore. She might actually call. But the chance is small. Try not texting her or calling her for 3 days and see what happens.
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Huh? Together for too long? What kind of reason is that? One would think, if you like a person, you'd want to continue being with them. She probably decided that she wants something completely different in her life. Same conclusion: don't call her for 3-5 days, see what happens. It is either her decision that you can't change, or she will call you.
2007-03-30 19:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people just drift apart, or start wanting different things. If she told you this things calmly, after thinking it through, not just because she was mad at you for something, i think that it must be what she really wants. And if that's what she wants there isn't really anything that you can do. If you still have doubts, you should tell her you need to talk to her about it, maybe she's saying those things because there's a problem that she may think is not fixable, when actually it is.
I know it's really hard, but i remember when i said those words to someone, i meant them. And the more he wanted to stay near me, and make me come back, the more i wanted him completely out of my life, i felt really bad, and it took me a long time to get him to understand that it was over. But then again, this was after the guy hurt me, not just because, like in your case.
Talk to her, maybe she just needs some space. But if she insists on the not wanting to be with you anymore, leave her alone. It's awful, and it will hurt, but it has to be done...
2007-03-31 03:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably found someone else or is looking at someone else, or you did something. Yes, I feel that there is still some hope for you two. Two years is a long time, and it probably is something serious that had come between the two of you. If that is the case, I think you should really talk to her. Communication is the best tool. If she tells you it's something with you that made her not love you anymore, then you can improve yourself. I think you should also tell her that you still love her very much, the truth does set you free. Good luck!
2007-03-31 02:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by jas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be a classic case of a nice guy being tossed into the dumpster
Chicks work off "chemistry" and when it stops - nothing you can do about it
I bet you 100 to 1 she discovered you either weren't cheating on her or didn't even want to cheat on her - which is a big turnoff for many chicks who need that evolutionary based SEED SPREADING male thing going - in effect to increase her genetic survival odds in the lottery of life
SEED SPREADING males won the game of evolutionary survival and chicks via their DNA are hardwired to want to mate with such males
Note very rarely are chicks actually bothered when they toss a nice guy into the dumpster - they actually are annoyed such (inferior) non-cheaters would waste their time - when they could have been mating with controlling, lying, cheating jerks
2007-03-31 03:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by jet99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look...your a pussy...strike one you've been with her for two years, strike two...shes got you so pussy whipped that your crying, "she dosn't love me anymore" and strike three you acually think shes not cheating on you?! if you still have any ounce of man left in you you'll pick yourself up tell yourself it was fun while it lasted and move on. trust me your much better off staying single and geting more *** than a toilet seat than having a repeat every night for another two or so years.
2007-04-08 02:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by robthemob85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs- two years is not too long at all- let her go- don't take that from her- time heals all wounds-
2007-03-31 02:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by It must be said 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reality check: you don't know "for sure" that she's faithful. It sounds to me like she already has someone lined up. Maybe she hasn't done him yet, but I'd bet she's got him picked out already.
2007-04-07 21:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by anastasia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes a wh*re and wants a different d*ck. sorry bud! but when u love somebody, u love them no matter how long u been together.. its love. love dont fade away that fast...
2007-04-07 14:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by claudia g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go and get ur self another gf
2007-04-07 18:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by c'est la vie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your spending to much time on yahoo answers she thinks your cheating!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-31 07:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by wildman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋