people say leave that who hurt me, try to distract myself from the things which makes me sad... forget the person whom I love but he doesn't... everyone said to me forget him and other person will come who will truly love me but this is all to say... nothing is in reality.
Its been more than a year... but till today I am in deep deep sadness. mourn on my love, my feelings never changed. I pretend to be happy in front of others, my friend and my parents think I am funny girl...
but I know this is just not me. my Internal is sad, in greif, I am in pain,,, for so long... I am tired from this sadness.. my life undergown from so many tragedies in past 4year and the guy whom I love come in my life 1year back with promise that he will never go my smile from my lips... but he left me, I bear everything happened to me but this , he left me. i cant come over it. each time I tried to come out but In this past year I tried to forget him but as I tried it become more painful. I truly love him but He dont care for my feeling.
from past two days I am very upset, I dont want to eat, I am not crying and not doing any thing. I am loosing interest in life's activities. But i want to come out. I dont want to be like this but i am unable to help myself. there is nobody in this huge huge world to whom i can explain how sad I am, how painful is to tolerate that you are not been loved with that person to whom who love more than anything. I cant forget him and I dont want to be with him. Is this sadness will remain with me forever? Thats why I thought to describe my feelings here... help me people, I am helpless.
I am sad, I am very sad.
2007-03-30 18:45:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can do then please Read my previous question also. you will understand my situation better. thanks
2007-03-30 19:05:44 · update #1
I have a question for you. Why r u letting this person control u and ur feelings? Don't u know that u decide how u feel and we sometime forget this and let others decide how we r going to feel. Take control of ur life back. Say to ur-self that today i'm going to be happy, then do it! before long u really will be happy. and b able to move on to a better more useful life. We hold the power to our own lives. Here's something I tell myself all the time. I am responsible for my own happiness, no one can make me happy, but me.
2007-03-30 18:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by panda bear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are depressed and the best cure for depression without medication is exercise. Get out and go for walks, ask someone to walk with you. Exercise gets your endorphines going and that will make you feel better mentally and physically. It hurts to have someone throw away and not return the love they once gave you. It is true, the first cut is the deepest. You don't have to forget him and you can still have a place in your heart for him but your happiness should not depend on anyone. You are not in pain because you don't have him, there is probably more going on than just that...perhaps you feel betrayed and regret from giving him your heart. Make a schedule and start walking or go to the gym more...I promise you'll feel better. Know that you are beig his fool by pining away for him and you need to move on with your life.
2007-03-30 19:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mamma Mia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what your going through, I'm in a similar dilemma at the moment. You may call me a hypocrite since I am going through the same thing but still giving advice but here it goes. You need to talk to the person, you can't keep pretending to be someone your not. If you have true friends then they will help you through it better than anyone over the internet can. You need to tell someone you trust your feelings, start to go to things the person you like goes to. Start flirting with him, in a worst case scenario is that you become friends. Best you guys go out together. I truely do hope that you get help from a friend and start to make a better relationship with the other person. Just remeber not to send mixed messages, guy hate it when you send them. We can't figure them out.
2007-03-30 18:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mathias 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When we are hurt badly in a relationship, it often takes more than a year to get thru. Try to do more things with your friends and family. Stay busy and find fun things to do. You don't deserve to go thru life suffering because things didn't work. There are never guarantees when it comes to guys.
2007-03-30 18:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jan C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We live in this vast world full of all sorts of people.
I feel your pain, sadness and despair.
I know how you are feeling right this moment as I have gone through such a situation myself.
Talk to me.
[edit] Your question is = Should I leave him?
Yes, you should leave and forget him.
He is just using you for his own emptiness.
Leave him, girl.... leave him and carry on with your own life!!!
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2007-03-30 18:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by winterlotus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it over a year & you have made every effort to come out of this gloom that surrounds you ,I think you need to see the situation in a different light.& i think you should seek professional help & guidance,this I am sure will help you & make you feel better & help you to ultimately br your owm self
2007-03-30 19:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by dee k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be loving you too. Ask him. Tell him everything.
2007-03-30 18:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
congrats ur oficially emo
2007-03-30 18:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by skitz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋