Have you ever had a male housemate who keeps pretending to get caught in the act of pleasuring himself? Whenever my girlfriend or I walk into the bathroom, there he is at it again with our photos. He acts all embarressed/looks sheepish etc but he never even bothers to lock the door. We have both made it clear to him that we are only interested in sleeping with each other and not him, but he insists on trying to change our minds by doing all our chores etc. How do I let him down gently without breaking the fragile and delicate male ego. And how do we get him to lock the BLOODY door and quit using our photos!?!
2007-03-30 19:28:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say take the photos off him, and tell him straight up. he dont seem to be listening to you being nice, so use some force!!! xxxx
2007-04-01 07:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by fear of the dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly... some personalities cannot be helped. And how do you know you're not actually catching him?
That said... some solutions depending on how daring you are....
1) Confiscate the pictures.
2) Threaten his pleasure centers with a razor.
3) Knock on the door.
4) Make it a habit to leave the door open. That way when it's closed, you know someone is in there, and should not be disturbed.
2007-03-30 19:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW
he is very much interested in showing you his moves
he do what with the photos yuck
first hide all you photos.
does old women or men live in your house if yes then bring up and let him or her see that dirty fellow what he is doing.
and about the lock, when he is inside, lock the door from outside let him inside for a day till he does approve that he will lock the door.
or just change you housemate
2007-03-30 19:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your photos in your room and lock the door
Let him do the chores saves you the trouble
2007-03-30 19:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Janice M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you knock before you enter a closed room?? Also, why bother telling him no over and over again when you are getting chores done for you for free? Let him be! After a long while, he will get the hint and move on!
2007-03-30 19:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by Snow Bunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he sounds like a sick and twisted individual. I wouldn't even feel safe around that. Who cares about his ego, tell him to stop or you will have to have him move out, or if it's his place, you move out. It seems like he is the type that could snap. He leaves the door unlocked, because in his twisted little mind, he thinks you actually like it. What a loser.
2007-03-30 19:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... dealing with a mad man here. Kick him out. trust me. You will not break his ego. A mad man like that will just be after you. Or in some cases, move on to another victim. So, restraining order, is my first priority. but, you can do it other ways. but remember. NEVER give in.
2007-03-30 19:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is a trip. Maybe you need to find a new housemate. I don't think this is working out.
2007-03-30 19:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds absolutely wonderful, what is the name of your website, I want some photos too.
2007-03-30 19:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all you get rid of your male housemate and that will take care of all your other problems.
2007-03-30 19:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋