I'm 16 and i'm single. I've only been out with one guy when i was 13 and it only lasted a month. I think i'm ok but i dnt no why i still dnt have a boyfriend or at least someone who likes me. I think i need to be more of a girl coz i think i act a bit boyish which is something guys dnt rly like and i need to flirt more and raise my self-esteem which is very low these days. I kind of feel very lonely and would like to have someone to love me and me love him back. Guys at my school are asses and so immature and i dont rly know how to meet new people outside of school and im trying but its not really working. I think i need a lot of help with my social life coz i think i dnt rly have one so... Plz help me become more sociable and extroverted and attractive. I think i have problems with my attitude, my physique, my way of talking... Everything in me is not attractive so i dont know what to do actually. I'm trying but I think im doing a lot of wrong things here so help?
2007-03-30 21:46:00 · 2 answers · asked by BrokenArtist 7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the other guy. Guy's generally like girly girls more. And you are only 16. Some of us.. I won't mention names, didn't have a girlfriend at 16 either. I'm sure you will find one. Don't feel depressed because you havn't got a boyfriend. It will happen. Just be yourself & friendly, present yourself well, Have a little confidence in yourself, Just have general conversations with people (boys & girls). If the boy hears you talking he may just talk back.
2007-03-31 06:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 16...give it some time. Not 'everyone' has a date or realtionship.
Being more of a girl would be a big plus. Guys like girly girls(they like tomboys too...but more guys like girly girls so your chances will be better).
To meet guys outside of school, just go anywhere else there are guys. The mall, for example. Or a fair or bolwling aley. Though at your age they will all be immature school guys.......
You can't be that bad, and even if you are a couple of thousand guy like you just the way you are.
Just give it time.
2007-03-31 12:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋