Singles & Dating - 2 April 2007

i met this girl last summer and we automatically clicked and was attracted to eachother, the only problem was that she lived in another country and she was going back. Anyways she left and went back and we started speaking to eachother on the phone. We grew a relationship over the phone very fast in the space of 8 months, she told me how she could see herself marrying me and she even named kids she wanted to have with me in the future,and from then we talked about dating because she's coming back this summer to live here in america. Well the phone conversations were getting shorter and then we started chatting on msn and then all of a sudden jealousy started coming between us and now she has a boyfriend because she claims i made her do it because she was hearing things about me and i also found out she liked him before they dated and i said hurtful things to her. She still tells me she wants to be with me when she comes but now she ignores my messsages and claims to be busy with work.

2007-04-02 23:44:26 · 7 answers · asked by mr discreet 1

I don't do that. I respect my hubby's privacy , i have never checked his e.mails either and would be very upset if he checked out mine. I like my privacy and therefore find it unthinkable that people can even think of doing that, UNLESS, they feel they have good reason to.:)

2007-04-02 23:34:38 · 22 answers · asked by Duisend-poot 7

plz !!!
make it fast !!!
through chatting which is the best chatroom for finding good girls or website (like orkut)

2007-04-02 23:27:40 · 2 answers · asked by Venkat N 1

or is it more of a threshold thing?

2007-04-02 23:10:19 · 17 answers · asked by hot carl sagan: ninja for hire 5

I love life. People tell me I have a great sense of humor and generally a good person. I'm not especially pretty, but not ugly either. I don't normally whine - tonight is the exception. So what is so very wrong with me that no guy is even remotely interested in getting to know me? I'm tired of being alone.

2007-04-02 23:05:10 · 7 answers · asked by Rabbit 5

he's studying a lot this time because he has to sustain a very difficult exam...so we don't spend too much time together... what can i do when we are seeing each other?!

2007-04-02 23:01:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my partner of 3 years broke up last night. I initiated it and i'd been thinking about it for a while, but it hurts so bad. I took for granted that I could kiss and hug him whenever I wanted and now that I can't, it feels terrible. I do still love him but there was no sexual attraction and I was more attracted to other men. I now have to sleep in a different bed, and I hate that I won't be able to reach over and hug him. I love him but I don't have any physical attraction. I just want the affection and love. What do I do???

2007-04-02 22:57:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the best way to get someone to fall in love w/ u???

2007-04-02 22:56:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

if u paid a visit at ur bf's office and u saw on his desk a souvenir that his ex-gf gave him a long time ago, wat wil ur reaction be??will u be mad?

2007-04-02 22:49:13 · 11 answers · asked by a_girl_from_ipanema 1

i am 36 and have been with a 20 year old for the last year. we get along great but i wonder if we really have a future together. he will turn 21 in May and we do tell each other we love one another but what are the benefits/drawbacks here? do You think it will last?

2007-04-02 22:42:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm getting so sick with this thing called love...no matter what i do or how hard i try to make my relationship work- it's all underappreciated...i'm a beautiful girl wit a really nice personality but for me to find the one guy, i've been through 3 relationships and only god knows how many more...is this world filled with jerks and liars n cheaters?

2007-04-02 22:42:48 · 11 answers · asked by frantic! 2

So, when im with my girlfriend she likes to sit on my lap. Well when she does so I get an erection and its very embarassing. We've decided to not have any type of sex so as days go on I find it harder to keep myself not think about it.

Right now im open to any tips so I just dont think of sex and so that wont happen.

2007-04-02 22:21:21 · 2 answers · asked by Nick 1

2007-04-02 21:40:30 · 16 answers · asked by tinklefaerie88 3

I've always found that non-Asian girls are hesistant to go out with a Chinese guy....even tho I am not the typical Asian guy (I am 5'11, part French and Indian), I've always found girls to be hesistant to go out with Asian guys...why is that?

2007-04-02 21:32:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-02 21:29:39 · 9 answers · asked by Direktor 5

I hate this question...but here's my story...

I met this girl few a months ago, I like her, i dont know if she likes me the same way or whatever and is stayin away from it because well even though we live somewhat close together when at home, she goes to school out of state, so like, what is the point you know? my biggest fear is that if i try to become her good friend, will she only ever see me as that? do i have any chance to become her potential boyfriend in the future or more if i am her friend right now? she wants me to visit her at her college...i mean its amazing how much she texts me and stuff even though she is states away...dont know if shes interested or not...

its funny we hung out and she texted me the same night saying to def come visit her at school, so i dont know what this means or is hinting...does she like me? can we be somethin in the future? i hate figuring it out. i dont want to tell her i like her because i heard thats the wrong way to go. maybe hints are good?

2007-04-02 21:22:33 · 6 answers · asked by Wayne D 1

So there are other girls trying to flirt also. But I'm sure he's interested in me too. How do I win his attention over the rest of them?

2007-04-02 21:18:31 · 6 answers · asked by sweetlovespell 3

So basically my whole life has fallen apart over the past year. I'm 16 years old and allowed my friend to live with me for about 6 months. She was 17, was very controlling, I felt bad for her and let her live there. She then moved back in with her mother. A week later I found out she was with my dad and since then everything has came out about there relationship. I mean they were even having sex. After he said he was so sorry I told him if I found out that he saw her again i would disown him. Which he did but I didn't. My mother tried killing herself and stayed in the hosp. for a week and just got out. I am no longer in school and I'm only working about 4 hours a week. I got in a fight with this girl even though i'v never fought before. And more drama that can even fit. I used to have the "perfect" life a year ago like one that you would see on a movie. Nothing seems real. I wish I hadn't taken my old life for granite. What would you do in my position with your life.???

2007-04-02 21:05:48 · 17 answers · asked by jessica h 1

I'm sure you'll know what I mean by this. What's your price? Don't give me that bull "I do't have a price." Everyone has a price, what's yours?

2007-04-02 21:01:09 · 16 answers · asked by hop 1

I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend so I am unable to go to her Sorority formal. She has decided to take her X-boyfriend whom she dated during a brief stint when we wernt together. I won her back.
She has jsut informed me that this guy has a girlfriend now, but she will be taking him to her formal. I said absoultuly not, saying that I know what this guy is thinking. She got mad.
In my eyes this scenario can not play out without me getting screwed.
Am I over reacting or do I have the right to be upset, and if she decides to continue with taking him, even though I said it made me uncomforatable, what should I do then?

Additional Details:
We have been on and off for 5 years now, and 2 have been long distance.
She has a small history of being a bit untrustworthy, but i also get jealous easy.

2007-04-02 20:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by EB1285 2

If you had an aquaintance who was seeing someone who'd been abusive in the distant past(like 10 years ago), would you try to warn them?

Dude just hooked up with this woman, I used to live with her. She's abusive, selfish, lazy, and just doesn't think straight. I'm in a healthy, loving relationship, and I really don't bear any grudge toward her, but I feel like I need to warn this guy, who is, for now, extremely happy to be with her (starting off same as the guy who's life she ruined 10 years ago).
Should I warn him and if so, how?

2007-04-02 20:39:51 · 10 answers · asked by Roadpizza 4

any hints......

2007-04-02 20:16:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so this guy is always doing stuff to me like calling me over to talk to him, hi-fiving me, poking me and pretending it wasnt him and tripping me over as a joke. What can i do back to him? I like him to, so what can i do back?

weird question but i need help!

2007-04-02 20:10:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

"you should come to my baseball game and watch me play and we could hang out after" keep in mind im in 8th grade and he is a freshmen..and we just causally know eachother..does this mean hes interested?

2007-04-02 20:08:00 · 8 answers · asked by ♥hp♥ 2

I mean we are pretty good friends and all. I didn't suspect this until lately. She seems to giggle a lot and stuff when I look at her. We always joke around with almost flirting but not really. She ussually takes her seat across from me or next to me at lunch.

But recently, we both went to a party. At the party she asked to dance and stuff. She was pretty drunk, but I was only tipsy. She was pretty touchy feely and pulled me all across the floor and to and fro from the drinks. Also on the way back to home she interlocked arms with me. I took her to her room and stayed with her a while, and fell asleep in her bed (not the first time). I left later when see seemed okay. The morning after she thanked me for taking care of her.

What do you think?

2007-04-02 20:01:37 · 11 answers · asked by RAEJUI` H 1

If I was a dog, I would totally not want to hook up with my bird.

2007-04-02 19:58:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

"maybe you could come watch me play baseball and then we could hang out after" does that mean hes interested?

2007-04-02 19:55:08 · 24 answers · asked by ♥hp♥ 2

2007-04-02 19:43:28 · 28 answers · asked by $$-PLAYA-$$ 1

Okay the situation. I wrote my past flame a note a long time ago saying that "the one that your looking for is out there waiting for you." As in me saying that I'm not the one. But I knew within myself that I am the one that shes looking for and that I didn't mean to write that to begin with because I was mad at a situation. Did that jeapordize my future relationship with my past flame or no? Me tellin her to keep looking for the man of her dreams, when I know that I'm the one cause she told me. Help!

2007-04-02 19:32:15 · 6 answers · asked by Dusher 1

tell me ur experience...don be shy...

2007-04-02 19:29:43 · 17 answers · asked by cindy tan 1