Singles & Dating - 2 April 2007

I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months and for several reasons it's not been going very well. Then 2 weeks ago we had a huge argument over the phone and I told him I was going to finish with him. He phoned me the next night very late drunk out of his mind saying he was cutting himself and that he was going to slit his wrists if I finished with him as I'm the only good thing in his life. Stupidly I took him back. We haven't seen each other since but we were supposed to be meeting up a few days ago then at the last minute I had to change my plans. Again he phoned me the next night, drunk and said he was cutting himself as he thought I was rejecting him. I really really want to end this but I'd feel to blame if anything did happen to him. This guy is seriously scaring me. Please give me some advice I don't know what to do

2007-04-02 01:13:26 · 38 answers · asked by jane w 1

OK, a girl wants a nice guy. He can't be too nice. He has to take charge. He can't be controlling. He has to listen. He has to ignore. He has to be there. He can't always be there. I'm trying to figure out how to be a well-rounded guy that will attract the right girl by not being too nice, yet someone who cares and not a jerk, someone she would know would be able to protect her, a listener yet not a listener. I don't even know what is is exactly I'm trying to do. I know not to be desperate, clingy, to be confident, and such. I want to be someone who can cause the girl to chase me for once.
I'm 17. I can't seem to find a good girl at my high school. Either that, or I don't know how to have a conflicting/complicated enough personality to attract her.

2007-04-02 01:13:06 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

I have been seeing this guy for like a month now. He is a sweetheart, he says and does all the right things how can I tell he is liking me? For real, for real...

2007-04-02 01:11:21 · 4 answers · asked by tiarawright2008 5

We are planning to get married and since we are both working he asked me to give up my career for us to live together. My workplace is quite far from him...

2007-04-02 01:09:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-02 01:06:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is my first kiss and i wont it to be perfact and not like the ones on cmedy showes im afraid if its not the way he wonts it then he'l never wont to kiss me agien weve been dating for a year now and i dont wont to throw it all in the trash what should i do.

2007-04-02 01:05:52 · 17 answers · asked by chy_chy1985 1

2007-04-02 00:59:01 · 14 answers · asked by Omar 1

i'm 16 and when i turn 19 my daddy say's he'll put me on perental control if it is still on because he doesn't get along with my boyfriend because his alway's over me even in school we've been together seen thanksgiving shoulkd i break up with him before my daddy breaks his neck

2007-04-02 00:58:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had a 'bed' friend for three months now and have tried to stop the physical stuff over the last month because I am getting attached and I can sense it is going nowhere. I want him in my life though as he is good for my head, really listens and makes time for me. He lent me his van this weekend to pick up my daughter and her friends from Uni for Easter and then has been nasty since accusing me of not putting any diesel in.......I put more in than I used and of smoking in his van, I respect him way too much to do anything like that. Now it seems he is not talking to me and I refuse to message him but I am so upset, yes....I am attached and hurting too. Seems silly maybe but I am quite sensitive and can't even eat. Nice comments you guys please, reaching out to you here x

2007-04-02 00:57:04 · 15 answers · asked by Andrea 2

i'm not Very chubby,but my arms & tummy are a bit,lol.my best guy friend thinks it looks cute & he always keep squeezing me & touching me(my arms & tummy only! he's not a pervert,he has a gf-a quite slender one for that matter).

so,how come some guys like chubby girls?esp squeezing them(sometimes it's hurts too,lol)

just curious & bored :)

2007-04-02 00:51:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 4 year girlfriend and I broke up in early November and of course the I was having a hard time with it until towards the end of February. At the end of february I stopped feeling like I missed her as much and I was starting to feel that I was moving on. But then I had a dream about her last Monday, Tuesday and then last night. The dream on Monday was that I saw her and felt no connection. The Dream I had on Tuesday is the one that is bothering me. Right now she has a new boyfriend and in the dream I told her that I still miss her and she said that she was engaged to him and that really hurt but in real life I don't want to get back with her but part of me still misses her.

2007-04-02 00:44:02 · 13 answers · asked by HHH 2

2007-04-02 00:34:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a 2 year, long distance relationship with my boyfriend. Now I am having sexual thoughts and other thoughts about this other guy from my work. I am thinking about him more than my bf. I don't want to like this other man, what should I do. i don't want to ruin my relationship!

2007-04-02 00:29:11 · 4 answers · asked by Kiss_Kris_xo 2

OK, this might just be in my mind, but for the past month or so i have found myself play cat and mouse with a guy in my office, the thing is we have never talked, Since i started here, nearly 8 months ago he caught my eye straight away but i'm the kind of girl who is very and i mean Very shy when it come to flirting, so i did not do a thing, then at christmas party we kind of talked we said "hi and Bye" that was it, but these day its seems like we both are doing things to see each other like, walking past each others desk, ring each others pone "by mistake" Wink wink" or walking down the stair together but each time it is just me and him we don't say a word to each other why???? He's is everything i look for in a man, and yet i find it so hard to stop thinking about him or to even talk to him,

I have tryed to break the ice twice but still no joy, I just about to give up, What should i do next.

Please help i'm going out of my mind.

2007-04-02 00:25:39 · 12 answers · asked by Lynda27 3

2007-04-02 00:25:04 · 7 answers · asked by frantic! 2

i have a boyfriend, and we're really love each other. we always have a lot of fun together. We have sex too sometimes, and i sometimes perform striptease in front of him, and we both really enjoy it. but one day, he said that " you're my hooker, you're my striper " ???

2007-04-02 00:23:45 · 12 answers · asked by jane 2

2007-04-02 00:23:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is your favorite article of clothing on them?

2007-04-02 00:20:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love him soooo much and he knows that.
we live in different countries,
but he haven't send any sms's for a month
we haven't chat for more than a month,
when i ask him why aren't you sending sms's? and
i wnat to chat with u, he doesn't answer.
i try to phone him but he doesn't want
i asked him to phone me before 2 weak but he didn't call
does he really love me?? and just busy
what does he mean???
will he come back??

2007-04-02 00:17:17 · 12 answers · asked by baby2007 2

2007-04-02 00:16:33 · 9 answers · asked by sachhi18_m 1

I wear nice rings all the time, on 3 fingers?

2007-04-02 00:06:54 · 21 answers · asked by 77684 3