Singles & Dating - 2 April 2007

I met a girl through a group of friends that know her. Since then, I see her about 1 or 2 times a week during meals or on weekends. I talk to her but I havent gotten alone time to judge whether she's attracted to me. I also havent had a chance to drop any clues. This has been going on for about a month. What do you think, ask her out or not?

2007-04-02 13:19:00 · 11 answers · asked by elvatoloco2025 1

i am in love with my female flatmate and i can not tell her anything cause if she's not interested,it will ruin our relationship and we have common friends as well...
Until now i was able to hide my emotions.Recently i've got that vibe(she "touches" me with an "innocent" way) that she's testing me if i really want her.Maybe she wants me as well....
The thing is what should i do in case she asks me something about our relationship straightforward?
Cause i want to be sure that she has emotions for me as well in order to move furthermore

2007-04-02 13:11:43 · 9 answers · asked by dblackjohn 1

My e-mail friend stopped corresponding after 5 1/2 years. I don't know what I said or did to hurt her. We shared so much...I love a woman I've never seen!

2007-04-02 13:02:49 · 17 answers · asked by blackeagle 1

girl i like said that she and i were going to have a cat and dog fight but she wanted me to be cat only beacuse she said, she hates cats but she had a cat as a pet. why did she wanted me to be a cat?

p.s when her cat died she was so sad and was crying for days.

2007-04-02 12:53:25 · 2 answers · asked by Showstopper 3

a 21 yr old to date a 16 yr old.... i'm asking if its wrong..not illeagal. i know that it is illeagal.... but age is just a number right?

2007-04-02 12:47:54 · 4 answers · asked by ~Angel Face~ 1

I think its really gross, and my guy wants me to give him oral. I really dont want to. Is there any other alternative?!

2007-04-02 12:46:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my ex of a month has moved on to another girl that he knew i hated....I can tell that they will never be as close as we were......she parties and hangs out with different people....and he is totally not like her at all.....so is he trying to show me something? and how should i act around him if i still have very strong feelings for him?

2007-04-02 12:46:05 · 12 answers · asked by Lo 1

2007-04-02 12:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by rashmi 1

what are the 1st 3 things a guy notices when he see's a girl or meets her for the 1st time?

2007-04-02 12:42:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

for example: yesterday we just came back from a lovely holiday. today i haven't heard from him all day. i know i can call him for a chat anytime but i do ask myself why he doesn't do it naturally. a lot of couples call each other three times a day. once i tried to ask him about it and he said that he thinks about me but he just doesn't send random text messages etc... and that i could have called him , and he said that i shouldn't play stupid games. he would call me next day...
well i'm not playing games but i sometimes wonder why??

i have to mention that he is not very talkative about his feelings and stuff like that.

do your boyfriends behave like that? or guys do you behave like that and why?

2007-04-02 12:42:07 · 14 answers · asked by petr 1

ladies... guy with muscle, small "member" OR big "member" big gut?

2007-04-02 12:34:01 · 5 answers · asked by Kimberly D 2

2007-04-02 12:02:02 · 12 answers · asked by shine 1

i started seeing this lady for some time , she is beautiful and her character is really good ( god fearing ). that is what made me really attracted to her. i am 26 yr old and she is 32 . i am persuing for a long term relation ship.every time i talk to her i am just confused that should i take her for a date. i think this girl likes me
i dont know much about her past personnel life , . i prefer a girl who didn't have many partners i had only one gf and we got break up and i am just recovering from it.
is there any problem if ur partner is older than u .i dont mean now may be after 15 years, is that ok to ask her abt her personnel life

2007-04-02 12:01:22 · 6 answers · asked by simon l 1

Is it right that my friends boyfriend is telling me that I'm not allowed to communicate w/ her whatsoever? I mean I love my friend to death and I don't want to lose this friendship because he is saying that. And yesterday he called me while i had a friend over saying that I need to leave her alone because she supposebly "called" him and told him that I called her a lesbian and that I was stalking her which I would never even think about doing. So I confronted her about it and comes to find that she is in New York. And I hadn't even talked to her in over 2 hours when he called me.But when I did confront her I told her that one of them is lying to me and she said that she would never lie to me and of course I would never lie to her. So what should I do? I'm really stressed because of all this and I just can't take it anymore!!!!

2007-04-02 11:57:39 · 9 answers · asked by .Forever Young. 4

my b/f just told me sex with me is a waste of time...... i am now sleeping on the sofa what does this mean? dosent he love me any more? lately he has been acting weird

2007-04-02 11:56:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend recently began talking about my ex bf. We broke up back in october(he ended it)we've remained good friends, i've recently came to the relization that its never going to be and that i don't think i really want him back. I've started to go after this other guy i like now, and i know my ex is jelouse (we are all in the same theater group, so thats how we see each other). My ex is a big flirt and he flirted with my friend the last 2 rehersals. not a terribly great amout, but now i think shes starting to like him. (flirting for him doesnt' mean he likes the girl)I don't think i could handle seeing them together, he was my first bf and we went out for 6 monthes i was in love with him. She said she doesnt' knwo what she woudl do if he asked her out, she lieks this other guy a lot and he knows it. I know that my ex and my friends personalities dont' match, she admited it, but she says hes cute. I can't reallysay don't go out with him cause i'm going after the other guy what do i do

2007-04-02 11:47:14 · 14 answers · asked by Jessie 1

I was hanging out with my friend and his girlfriend and we went to a club in LA to meet up with their all their group friends. My friend introduced me to his friends. I said hello and they were all very nice. There were a few girls I thought were very fine. After the club, we went to a restaurant to eat. When we were there, everyone was talking, laughing, and I didn’t really talk to anyone because I didn’t know anybody and I feel very weird. When someone said something funny, I just laughed and went along with the crowd. This girl notice I wasn’t saying anything, and she ask me why I was quiet. Is there a good comeback answer to this question? When I’m in a group, most of the time, I don’t really say anything and I don’t know how I should react, especially when I’m around people I don’t even know. But I want to know them, they all seem very nice. Is there any other way to appear confident without talking? Also, do people interest level go down if they see you not talking?

2007-04-02 11:39:45 · 13 answers · asked by jerry_won3771 1

I know for some this won't sound like a big deal, but i need help b/c i don't know what to do. Please answer seriously. There's this guy, he likes me so when he asked me to hang out i did, i figured it would be a good way to get to know him. I had a great time w/ the guy , he has a great personality and would treat me well. But I don't feel the connection, he's like just good friend material. Now he acts like he's my b/f and he raves to his friends about me. I need to make a decision b/c the way he is acting is making me uncomfortable. Like when i see him i want to go the other way. I don't know what to do, maybe i could get to know him even better and end up liking him or maybe i will never like him in that way.Should i talk to him and say i don't want a b/f now or i feel like we're just friends, or should i let it go and see how my feelings are after a while. I don't want to regret it and miss out on a great guy but idk if my feelings will ever change. What should i say and do?

2007-04-02 11:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by Blossom 1

Guys confuse me they are never upfront about anything they will flirt but not actually tell you if they like you so how are you supposed to know please guys help me out

2007-04-02 11:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-02 11:29:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

and dont go all obserd on me

2007-04-02 11:26:35 · 42 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2

so, i've slept with him for the past three nights, but we havent dont anything besides hold each other. i want to take it slow, because he's tenty-one, and never-been-kissed sort-of thing. but he was stroking my stomach, and then moved a little lower by about an inch-- i was disappointed when he stopped and moved back up because maybe he felt that it was either too soon, or he's never felt a girl who shaves down there.

i dont know. it was kind of embarassing-- even though i did nothing wrong. i guess i kind of wish he knew you were supposed to groom that area, or it gets outa control.. and that i'm not some freak?!


but my main question is, if you were a guy, and it were somewhat your first time doing anything intimate with a girl, would you be weirded out to rest your hand there, and find it shaved?

2007-04-02 11:18:53 · 14 answers · asked by jay 2

2007-04-02 11:14:20 · 1 answers · asked by more than words 1

... tries to get ur attention a lot and starts random conversations with you for no reason whatsoever and makes a lot of eye contact and smiles and says hi and bye a lot and tries to be funny, like whats up? my friend says this guy does this to her all the time, does he have a thing for her or something? honest answers...

2007-04-02 11:10:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was a 19 year old virgin when I started dating my fiance. In the beginning stages of our relationship we didn't discuss how many people he had slept with in the past, but I knew I wasn't his first. When I lost my virginity to him, he said that he wished I would've been his first. Despite what he says to try to make me feel at ease, nothing changes what I was raised to believe. From the time I was a child, I was told that sex is something special you should save for the one you truly love. It bothers me to know that my fiance has had casual sex with people whom he wasn't dating at the time, let alone people he was in serious, long term relationships with. I suppose I would feel better about the situation if I didn't know who he has been with but we run into his past lovers from time to time when we go out and it makes me uncomfortable. I wish we could've been each others firsts but I know that's not an option. I guess I just want to hear from others in my situation. How should I feel?

2007-04-02 11:00:16 · 28 answers · asked by Desiree 5

ok, so i was at my friends house and her mom is divorced and i was staying with my friend while her parents were away and then my friend had to go to dance so her mother took me and her mom said stay with Jason(my friends 17 year old brother) when they left i just started watching tv and then all of a sudden her brother came in wearing a bathrobe and said he just got out of the shower, then he shut the dorr and took of his robe and said ''Get naked I wanna see u naked'' he had a knife so i was scared, I took of my clothes and then he put the knife down and said have u had sex before and i said no and he said well then this will be your first time all of a sudden he started licking my thingy and then he started to ahve sex with me. Please dont mistake this for an inappropriate question becasue i need help, did he rape me? I have never told anyone about this and now he stalks me sometimes what should i do? worse than that i was only 12

2007-04-02 10:59:58 · 16 answers · asked by iluvu 1

I have bad luck with guys, i mean i get approached by them but i come to find out they always have girlfriends. They claim to be in love with them but still want to take me out and spend time with me. Should i take it as a bad thing that im wanted by guys who have gf's or be flattered??

2007-04-02 10:54:35 · 1 answers · asked by *siigh* 2

Stories or experiences please!

2007-04-02 10:50:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. & I was really worried it would hurt but when we did it, i didnt feel anything. I didnt bleed or anything. But then when we tried a new possition of me lifting up my legs, it hurt loads. A friend said it happened to her and she had to keep letting it hurt a few times and the pain went and then it felt good. Thing is i dont feel anything when we have sex, we have had it four times not and it dont feel good. And then when we do a possition where he is going straight deep into me it hurts. so do you think i need to get past this pain? and has this happened to any of you? and why do i not feel anything when we do it normally in normal possitions. Is he just not going in at the right angle? Im sorry if this is an akward question lol =] but i really need to know the answer.

2007-04-02 10:46:59 · 40 answers · asked by amyloveanimals 1

2007-04-02 10:46:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous