Singles & Dating - 3 April 2007

I like this guy and I fell for him (he knows this)...I haven't seen him in about 5 years but we can't communicate often because he is in the army (he is not in the US...he is not an American we are both in Asia now) He is really nice guy and he aways tell me he could never be angry at me...I gave him some BS because I got confused with him and another guy so I gave him a PSP...he doesn't earn a lot in the army over here...its different than the US...anyway he didn't ask for it I just gave it to him. But my friend's BF told me he didn't think the guy was good and I should forget him...I was devastated by this and told the guy I wanted to go back to the US because I was so hurt..its not that I believe the BF but it shattered all my hope with the guy and I felt so hurt...that the BF felt this way and told me. I told the guy on IM what the BF said but he won't answer me to say goodbye..I told him it wasn't that I believe the BF but I was so hurt by what he said that I had to leave..

2007-04-03 23:56:58 · 6 answers · asked by iaskmyselfhowmuchdou 1

What are you freakin guys looking for? I mean I'd like to hear what some of you see in women you admire. What makes you love a girl or even simpy notice her? Be honest, because I am a woman and would really like to know some thoughts.

2007-04-03 23:42:27 · 17 answers · asked by Reese W889 1

2007-04-03 23:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would be your ideal date, and where would it be...?

2007-04-03 23:29:17 · 6 answers · asked by v. 1

My friend has just split up with her boyf of 9 months. He ended it right out of the blue, saying that he didnt love her and couldn't imagine being with her the rest of his life. He's probably just running scared. She said that they had an amazing 9 months together. What advice do i give her?

2007-04-03 23:24:12 · 9 answers · asked by mr_o_uk 2

Since Im sociolistic I tend to get on well with all kinds of people.I dnt have a prob with shyness.I have to many friends and im not complaining.They just never give me time for myself.I cant seem to say no to a goog time thats the prob!!!!!!

2007-04-03 23:18:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was raped when I was 9 and have 10 sexual relationships with boyfriends and my partner realli want to use me for sex. I have me hurt by him and i cant get away. he put things in my mouth and makes me suk them. HELP WHAT SHOULD i DO?

2007-04-03 23:17:24 · 20 answers · asked by Hollz 2

Theres a girl in my year at school that i like alot...and ive already told her how i feel. but now i feel like shes always avoiding me, she walks away from me and doesnt talks to me at school (she never used to but ive talked to her alot on msn and i think she knows me a little bit, but it feels like shes avoiding talking to me). i told her a little ova 3 months ago just so u know... and i just want to b friends tho cos i know she isnt interested in me, but i dunno if she does. Should i tell her that i want to be just friends but closer friends then what we are now or what should i do?

sorry this question doesnt sound that important but it means alot to me. plz any advice would be appreciated thanx. (also i should add i have talked to her in person but i dont often, and i dont think she hates me).

2007-04-03 23:10:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 23:10:02 · 17 answers · asked by KarenHeaven 1

Right from the very beginning, i already knew that its forbidden to fall for your teacher.But as time past,i came to found out that i likes him more than a teacher! I really feel very dejected and confused now. I wanted to tell him how i feel but i am scare because i knew i would get into trouble by doing so(& he may even be blamed). I dunno what to do now,my friend all tells me to forget about him but i just cant do it! Because i dont wan to.(actually i had tried a few times but i just cant force myself to hate him because he is always so good to me even though how i tried to ignore him.) I know i am bad and very wrong to like him but i am just crazily in love with him. Can anyone pls help me! This crazyness must finds its end!!

By the way, I am 18years old and he is 34years old (this is another problem of age-gap... *sign =/ )

2007-04-03 23:05:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

3 days ago:

my ex been seein my best mate for 8.5 months now we went out before for 7 months 3 days ago he told me how he felt about from start to finish like and i was up-set about it cos he was seein me best mate and i had a bf he was goin to dump her for me

2 days ago:

me and me ex was muckin about he nicked me bobble so i tryed to get it back i gave up in da end so he was on his back on his bed and i was on my belly liein on his side (ish) really odd. he kissed me on da head and he said "i have no idea why i did that" so i turned my head cos i seen its happin again he kept askin me whats wrong untill i turned around and kissed him and said "that" then from them we started kissin like mad!

1 day ago:

yesterday this is now, my ex told his gf (witch is my best mate) she fliped on me and asked for my side of the story (so i gave it to here) even tho he kissed me 1st she said "i don't ever want to see or talk to u again do u hear me!" and now she's not talkin to me

2007-04-03 23:04:10 · 10 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3

I'm in a relationship but made the nearly fatal mistake of asking my girlfiend if i can trust her. I didn't think i was insulting her but she reckoned so and immediately went on the definsive, just from that. is that the trait of someone hiding something or am i just be selfish and insulting to her. I know the answer myself kinda anway and thats you never really know if you can trust someone, you just gotta take the chance and not be hung up about it. So i guess i have answered my own question there!. Anyway if any women wanna chat i'm online!

2007-04-03 23:01:45 · 6 answers · asked by Huggie Bear 1

I mean that we don't only care about how we look, we don't "select" guys according to their backgrounds!
We are not stupid! I finished school with B++,
now i study at the university and i AM one of the most progressing students!!
I have many thing people can talk to me about!
I am not at all boring! I've got the crazy life-style, i try to combine my studying, work, and love!!
the beauty is inside, the beauty is in the look!
so this has a lot to do with my last question!!!!

2007-04-03 23:01:01 · 14 answers · asked by La Tanya 1

2007-04-03 23:00:23 · 14 answers · asked by Life&Death 1

I've been dating with a Japanese guy for 8 month, I really like him, but he is complicated with his family issue, he married once and told me he alreay divorced. but sometime he still says" my wife" when he mentions her. he told me they didn't end up the marrige on Japanese said(this guy has two nationalities, they married twice both in Jap and Canada.) and also he says he loves me but can not manage to marry me for now, even promise a quit of relationship when there is someone else showing up. He said he couldn't give me what I wanted, I deserve better, he just stay with me in my gap. this really bothers me cz I falled in love with him, not just sextually or materially. I don't even know whether he is my boyfriend or not. what should I do? I need suggestion.

2007-04-03 22:58:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 22:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by wvandyk09 1

Ok...heres the sitch. I have just recently broken up with my bf. We are still good mates and he says he still likes me. Then about 2-3 weeks ago this guy told me he likes me...hes cool and all but i dont really like him, hes also 2 years older than me. Now i have just found out that my friends ex who is also 2 years older than me likes me too. Im so confused b'cos ive always been the tom-boy and never really thought of myself as real gd lookin and stuff. but i like this other guy who is from another country. lol so as you see...im in a hard possy...any suggestions? plz...it would really help. XxX

2007-04-03 22:52:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you have read my last question you would know that my boyfreind has passed on. But i have found out iam pregnent with his baby. I dont wont to be a single mum.

2007-04-03 22:50:27 · 15 answers · asked by no_ugly_boys 2

all right so i'm 19 and my girlfriend is 13...don't give me any sex offender crap because i didn't force her to do jack...we met like a year ago and she agreed to be my girlfriend and we did it like seven times and the last time was two weeks ago and it was great except for one thing...it was three days after her period and she got dizzy so i had her take a pregnancy test and it was positive...and she wants to give birth. now i really want to dump her because i'm just an auto mechanic living hand to mouth and i can't deal with a kid. i thought we were really in love and the sex was awesome but a baby's taking it too far. how can i dump her?

2007-04-03 22:45:59 · 27 answers · asked by Eleven Inches 1

In these times it seems that the old rule of men being the hunter is not applicable anymore. I have heard many of my female friends complaining of the same thing:men just don't ask us out anymore!!! We have to use all kinds of tactics to get them to understand that we want to be asked out!!! So, do you guys think badly of a girl who is brave enough to do the asking. Us girls are becoming more and more confident and and hate being the traditional 'wallflowers'

2007-04-03 22:35:22 · 7 answers · asked by Smippy 2

love life moves in cycles? Do you find the same things (Good and bad) happening to you over and over? So that when you stand back and think about it, it's almost spooky like deja vu?

And even the periods when you are alone seem like they are pretty much the same. Until you meet a new person and it starts all over again?

2007-04-03 22:32:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 22:30:13 · 6 answers · asked by himansh_7 1

ok so today we where e-mailing each other and i was telling him how ah-mazing he was. and she said no hes not ah-mazing..n then outa nowhere he was like your to good for me. and we kept like disagreeing,but playflully. and i was like ok lemme make a deal..if your ah-mazing then im to good for you?. and he said well if your to good for me then why are you talking to me? so then i said "well then im not to good for you! haha" and after that he was like ok i have to go i'll ttyl got to go to bed night night. but usually at the end of his e-mails before he leaves he says i love you! and this time he didnt. but the night before he was sayin that he did love me and igave him 3 reasons why he was ah-mazing i said "he was funny, sweet, and he cared about me" and he said "all but one is right=)" so i asked him which one, and he said "i care about you alot" so was he just mad at the time when i was e-mailing him or does he not want to talk to me any more!?! please someone help me i rly love him

2007-04-03 22:26:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand men! I'm 20, slim, ok looking, GSOH, very kind and giving so why can't I get/keep a b'friend? I don't nag, I never say no in the bedroom... Seriously, what more can I do?

2007-04-03 22:25:13 · 29 answers · asked by Me! 3

is it ok for girls/gf if their bf rarely picks them up from ofc/school!?

2007-04-03 22:24:15 · 12 answers · asked by a_girl_from_ipanema 1

(1) Rate your looks, from 1 to 10, and
(2) List some of the qualities you want in a guy.

I'm trying to see if there's a correlation between appearance and desired traits.

2007-04-03 22:19:01 · 5 answers · asked by Queue XIX 1

I have had a very special relationship with my b/f, we have always been very open and we are so close and best friends also. About a year ago, we started dating seriously and quickly got engaged. I’m 20, he's 21. He’s not the player type; he has low self esteem and bad self image even though I always try to build up his confidence. Lately, I have been felling low myself and my normally high sex drive has gone (no, I’m not pregnant). Anyway, he had been complaining that he doesn't think I find him attractive anymore and that I never make a fuss of him...

Then on Monday night, I found a txt on his phone (which I never normally go though) asking a girl to come to his place, and have sex for a few hrs while I was at work. Then I found txt's directing her how to get to his flat. He say's nothing happened and that he just did it o see if anyone would show him some attention...

I know he needs help with his confidence, but I have been nothing but faithful... what should I do? HELP!!!!!

2007-04-03 22:17:21 · 23 answers · asked by natasha l 1

ok.So today in class two girls started crying, both of them r really good frnds of mine so naturally i went to console one of them and told her that the other girl had attitude problem and to forget her.
Somehow the other girl came to know abt this(attitude problem bit) and she came to me and started crying there and then!!!
She told me that i didnt care for her and i went around saying whatever the hell i want.I tried to tell her i did not mean wat i said bt she just walked away crying.I tried to stop her bt she did not listen to me and walked away with all her friends.Now, i really dont know what to do....???? Can anyone please help me with this.
i would really appreciate it....

2007-04-03 22:15:17 · 10 answers · asked by the lost sam 2

Im having a problem with my now as of yesterday ex. During a break we had for a month she dated another man while I was single. I hooked up with a girl she did not like because of a previous incedent I had with her during a complicated time I had with my gf while we where not together. I felt guilty and told my gf about it at the time. So now onto present time. Im back with my gf and she has done some investigating and assumed I had sex with the girl she did not like. I told her yes even though before we went back out again I told her no only because I feared she will not go back out with me. I told her that situation was in the past and should not effect whatever outcomes we have in the recent relationship. My gf said she could not forget the past when I told her she should because she is getting jealous of any female presence within 5 feet of me. She kept concentrating on the past and it was effecting our relationship/trust. Should she forgive what happened before tomake things work?

2007-04-03 22:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by richard b 1

I just started dating this girl and I havent felt about anybody like this for a long time I dont want to move too fast and ruin things but at the same time I dont want her to think that im not intrested because i am She is wonderfull any advice?

2007-04-03 22:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous