I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. He has so many amazing qualities. He loves me. He constantly compliments me on my appearance, on my career, etc etc. He is supportive, always wants me w/him & helpful to me I need him.
The problem is he just decided to take a job in Japan & ever since it feels like everything that we do somehow revolves around his move. I feel like all of his responsibiliites relating to the move have become my own. I am happy to help, but sometimes I feel like his is ungrateful & what's worse, gets very angry when I don't do something he asks.
Bottom line- all the demands, & sometimes diva-ish behavior have made me question some of my feelings for him. Granted, he apologizes if I can articulate why I am upset - but shouldn't he KNOW not to ask too much of 1 person.
QUESTION- should I consider breaking up with him or wait until after the move is done so I can see whether it was the move that was causing the problems, & not our relationship?
2007-04-03
09:34:21
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Buckster3469
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