2007-04-03 09:18:49 · 49 answers · asked by JOANNA A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
time and masturbation twice a day will solve all your troubles...
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2007-04-04 23:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by James God 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel a bit like that. I can't work out whether my bf really does care or not - i recon he does really he's just not that great at showing it sometimes or mayb im just paranoid...
The best way to stop the pain is to take ur mind off it. Go have fun with the girls - have a laugh. SMILE :-) works 4 me
Just a thought: He SAYS he loves you. If he really really didn't care he wouldn't say that would he? Maybe he wants to and it just takes time... Or if you're still not sure he cares then i say ask him and if ur suspicions are correct end it so at least u know where u stand (sometimes i think that's what i should do but these things are easier said than done aren't they?)
2007-04-03 09:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that's a difficult position to be in. The best advice that I can give you is that the world does not stop with the one person who broke your heart. Take a look at the big picture. Use this as an opportunity to meet other people who will cherish you and love you for who you are. Imagine if he had told you that he loved you when he really didn't? It's good you found out the truth....There are many great guys out there dying to treat you like princess.
2007-04-03 09:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by texaspapichulo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, there is nothing you can do! Just keep him close to your heart and just have fun! You will find someone who is madly in love with you, when the timing is right, I promise! I thought the same thing, last year I found this amazing man, he worked at a church and had a steady job and wanted to be around me! Well little did I know he was doing the same thing and saying the same thing to 3 other women, I know because I looked on his myspace and emailed these other girls! It is very hard to not be with the person who you love, but I promise you, when you are not expecting love, it will sweep you off your feet! It did for me! I met the love of my life August last year and we started off as friends and before you knew it, we were dating! And I have had so many wonderful experiences with him and I love his family and they love me and my family loves him! I just know there is someone out there for you and once you stop looking and being sad b/c you lost someone, love will find you!! I hope that helps! If you need anyone to talk to you could message me!
2007-04-03 09:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by shannabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant stop that pain. It's something that you learn to deal with and it's not easy. You have to pick up with your life and keep going though even though it might seem impossible at times. Keep yourself busy and know that sooner or later the right person will come along. It's not your fault this person doesnt love you. I wish you luck and I'm sorry for your pain because too many of us know it.
2007-04-03 09:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out all the bad feelings - cry, listen to depressing music, eat ice cream straight from the carton with a spoon. Do this for a couple of weeks. Then go out with the girls/guys, dressed as hot as possible, and have a crazy night where you try to get as many phone numbers as possible. Do other things that boost yourself esteem. And let it go. That which does not kill us makes us stronger. You need to have lows in your life to appreciate the highs. If everything were easy, you wouldn't appreciate it when that perfect love of your life does come along. Learn from your experience, figure out why this person wasn't interested (without actually asking them, that is) - maybe you didn't have enough in common, for example. Then try to correct that problem next time you fall in love. It is possible to some degree to control who you love - if you feel yourself falling for someone inappropriate, you stop seeing them to whatever degree possible. You focus on their faults. etc.
The vast majority of the time when someone says that phrase, you have gone after someone who considers themselves too good for you, for whatever reason. You need to learn to identify people in your own league and only go after those.
2007-04-03 09:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by industengr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not underestimate love.
Being in love most of the times expires soon leaving one or both, in pain.
Love, true love, forgives, endures and gives only comfort, joy and soothes the pain.
Treasure the one who loves you and do not feel that sad for not being in love with you. I understand you cannot come over it very easily but when you cannot bear the pain, take what he has to offer you. And if it is real love, it is precious.
2007-04-03 09:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant stop the pain..its going to hurt no matter what..sadly has much I hate to say this...time is the only thing that will help..and meeting someone new....dont worry there are tons of guys out there you will meet and they will love you back...Im sure something like this is not what you want to hear but i promise you its true...time and meeting someone new and keeping yourself busy with friends and activitys..always does the trick....good luck..hope you feel better =)
2007-04-03 09:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have no pain because I can't love people that don't love me...I think true love is a mutual thing...if the other doesn't love you...you can't really love them either...unless it's your ego that is damaged and you mistake this for love...save your trouble and pain and turn it into excitement...the excitement you'll have meeting new people and probable someone that loves you...don't worry things will get better just don't waste your time thinking about this person...it really isn't worth it...don't give him your precious time.
2007-04-03 09:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Melina A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, the pain. i've been there a time or two. But with time, the pain will ease and it will go away and you may even forget about that person who caused the pain, in time you will find the one you are supposed to be with, that really loves you. it seems hard to think about it now, but trust me, we've all been through it and it all goes away... :) don't let it get the best of you :)
2007-04-03 09:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by ♫Mama of One♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to move on from that.. It sucks. All you can do is sit back, and wait for time to heal it, youll soon find someone else who will end up replacing that person, and without you even realizing it you would have forgotten all about that pain you once felt. Thats the best way I can explain it.
2007-04-03 09:34:04 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋