If you know that you may like someone and they dont notice you at all. Then why does everyone go that extra mile to stand out just so that person notices you, or you try to get their attention by any means (but not too crazy means) necessary. So could anyone answer this question for me?? please
2007-04-03 09:36:54 · 12 answers · asked by mr_grimm_1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you missed the point of your own question. you obviously don't want to stand out in anyones else eyes and see it as pointless for anyone else to. Does the word narcist mean anything? Its like selfish. All about you and nothing about what you would be willing to do for someone else.
2007-04-11 09:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to want to generate (positive) attention from your crush... the only question is HOW... how to do it right, so they are open to the thought of you two together... how to do it, without seeming silly or immature... how to sweep her off of her feet...
If you don't know her well enough to know her likes and dislikes, see if you can ask someone who knows her - on the sly... Have you ever talked to her before? Do you have a class with her? Ride the bus together? Find out what you may have in common, and see how you can be couteous to her in that environment, without making her feel weird. Seem nonchalant, but NICE... girls like NICE, REAL guys... (don't be fake)
You'll get it, dude! Good luck!
2007-04-11 14:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Amaris in Wonderland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you realy love that someone and realy is interested in knowing him or her then by all means do whatever you can to be noticed. The end justify the means. There should nothing be confusing about it. You want it go for it!
2007-04-03 16:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by BigBro Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. it is not rude, it is not self seeking,
it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love
does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8,13
2007-04-11 13:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by setfree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people try hard to stand out when people dont notice them ( in a crush situation) maybe because its one of those situations when ~you want what you cant have~. .. I mean seriously if you truly like someone alot & they dont notice you......** thats pretty bad.** Who wouldnt want to do somethin a little different for their crush to acutally notice them.
2007-04-03 16:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by tar =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please work on your grammar and spelling. I don't understand your first sentence at all.
People go out of their way to impress people because people want to be liked and loved, and they feel that if they fit the stereotype of "loveable" or "attractive" or "desired," then they'll be loved or liked. However, if you're not liked for who you really are, then what's the point.
2007-04-03 16:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if your unnoticed by your crush, then you want them to notice you. Just don't do something stupid or you'll regret it. If you want them to notice you, and they start paying attention, you play hard to get and they'll keep paying attention to you. It's that simple.
2007-04-11 16:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by Maia Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's because they like that particular person. People do/say stupid things when they are blinded by love.
2007-04-11 07:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by AskQns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do that but i guess we do it cause we audviously really like that person and want them to know it.
2007-04-03 16:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they think it will help
2007-04-11 16:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by kimbo hines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋