I sometimes feel better off alone than when involved in some simulations of love and I also think that people should not get married before 30.
2007-04-03 09:55:08 · 23 answers · asked by Reploid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wellll Oli...who knows really?
Whatever feels best for you is right.
If you are single, and loving it, it doesn't mean you have to go with the flow of the rest if they're getting into serious ones.
If you are happy with the single life, it's the life for you.
Being alone can be peaceful.
But you also have to consider the fact that you may want children some day.
(but adoption is an option.)<--that rhymed!
:P
But you also have to ask yourself if you've ever been in love. TRUE love.
It has been described by countless people as the best feeling ever.
But stay single if you enjoy it!
Maybe it's meant to be that one day, while enjoying the single life---you'll find love at first sight and be happy that you kept yourself free for that one person.
Once again, no one can tell you if it's right or not.
You need to go by how you feel and what is right for YOU, not the rest.
Yours truly,
Tasha
2007-04-04 11:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tashatikuh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People should get married when they grow up and realize a marrige means two of you working together and growing together, not what it has too offer you. That can be at any age, or for some never. It also depends on your personality, some people are just not the commit type, they would rather be free, if they do get married it's only a matter of time before they get anxious and try to find a way out. If you can find the right person you are definetly not better off alone.
2007-04-03 17:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll let me say one thing. I think it's completely normal to feel left out because that's what you're feeling. And it's ok...really!!I do think getting married by 30 is a good age, because you would want to be young parents, hopefully your careers are at a high point. BUT if you don't have things settled in your life, then NO why should you get married? But don't try to convince yourself to be alone, and that it's ok
2007-04-03 17:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly alright to be single and happy. I got married when I was 29 and I wish I wouldn't have! It was the biggest mistake I ever made. Enjoy single life. Get married when the time is right for YOU.
2007-04-03 16:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Fierce Lioness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only offer that you need to do what is right for you. If you are not a follow the crowd type, and good for you if you are, you have only to do what you believe and right for you when you are ready to do it. Too many times kids follow each other down the paths of matrimony because everyone else is, but it is not better as if you look at the divorce numbers, significant numbers are not ready and do it just because everyone did. Stick to what is good for you. That will give marriage a fighting chance and you will be ready for the challenges and willing to do what it takes to get over them.
2007-04-03 17:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by g_menagerie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u see urself old?lonely?no children?..no family?
this is the life without marriage
its not about getting married after 30
some are 30 and STILL not ready to be settled.
once u find the One you'd want to spend and share the rest of ur life with her.
or would u still be waiting until u get above 30?
but yes its alright to be single for now..
2007-04-03 17:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by G?ld?n ang?l 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's ok to for you to feel that way. You will want to commit and get married when you feel the need and you're ready. That will be then the better time to do it. Don't rush it. When you meet the right woman, you won't want to be alone.
2007-04-03 16:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by BeckhamGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy then be happy why would you do something that you don't want or are not happy with. I agree some people dont know what they want until 30 and if that is the way you feel go for it and be happy and enjoy your life, take care Heather
2007-04-03 16:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Believe it or not, some of them were probably happier when they were single. Its like the grass is always greener on the other side. Speaking from experience, cherish the time that you have to yourself while being single, and don't not do things because you don't have a man. When you have one, you'll be saying I should have done this, that, and the other while it was just me...
2007-04-03 16:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by mochachreme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're absolutely right. You have to do what works best for you and you can't succumb to pressure (so old-school). But to make your social life a little easier, for they do change when your friends get married, I would recommend finding some club for happily single people.
2007-04-03 18:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋