Me and my girlfriend have had sex for the 1st time but we want to know if its likely that she will bleed again? Also how long we should leave it before having sex again.
2007-04-03 10:03:47 · 32 answers · asked by Neo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She could very well bleed the second time, it's not totally uncommon. Sometimes the hymen does not totally detach the first time and the remnants of it can still tear and result in light bleeding.
There's no waiting period unless she is sore in general... please be understanding and gentle with her.
And please make sure that the two of you are ready to handle this new phase in your relationship. It's about MORE than just your bodies. And it's about BOTH of you and your physical AND emotional needs.
Be considerate, safe and respectful.
2007-04-03 10:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kia A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be normal to have some bleeding and even days after, especially if the hymen was still intact. Many females will accidentally break their hymen before their first sexual encounter, without knowing about it - this can happen as a result of playing sports or horse riding.
It really depends on how long it takes for you to have sex again. I think that it depends on how thight she was. Every girl is different.
2007-04-03 10:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Monika M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman loses her virginity, it's natural for her to bleed, but if she bleeds the second time, it'd only be if you were big & she has a small vaginal opening. If that's the case, just be gentle or have her use a lubricant.There's no set time when it's right to have sex again. It's up to the couple & no one else.
2007-04-03 10:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not likely unless she's not well lubricated (too dry and you forced it). You should definitely wait at least until she says it's ok before having sex again. A week is probably normal, but some people heal faster or slower than others. Also it could be psychological. As long as she's ok with doing it again, then you should go with what she tells you.
2007-04-03 10:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was her first time to have sex and not just a period, then no, she shouldnt but she may bleed for a couple of days before stopping. All women are different.
2007-04-03 10:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how big your *MALE PART* IS. If you go in with force and don't ease your way in she will feel a lot of pain and bleed. More than likely she will bleed a little bit for the 2nd time. Just tell her to relax and you both should take your time in bed.
2007-04-03 10:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by cnicegurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your girlfriend will bleed the 2nd time ya'll have sex. She just won't bleed as much as she did before.
2007-04-03 10:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure about the sex, but she would bleed if you hit her with an axe
2007-04-03 10:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didnt bleed the first time. Try getting her better lubercated first before you try again....maybe oral sex or ky jelly??!!?? I would wait a few days at least!
2007-04-03 10:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may if her hymen wasn't completely broken the first time. so she may bleed a lil more and it may still hurt and sting her a bit. about the third time she'll be fine.
wait a day or so... or ask her when she is ready... it may scare her. it did me the first time.
2007-04-03 10:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋