My boyfriend got kicked out of his current residence and has noplace to go. We tried everything but ask my ppl can he stay. But im afraid to do it. Im lost should I or just try his family somemore??
2007-04-03 09:42:19 · 11 answers · asked by Chicka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep trying your family. NOTHING ruins a relationship faster than having to live with someone, NOT because you truly want to and have planned to... but because you have no choice.
2007-04-03 09:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He actually sounds under pressure over something, yet that doesn't propose that he has lost interest in you. He must be snapping at you all of the time by using fact purely you are the only that is there. Is his interest going ok? have you ever offered any money problems, possibly which you need to be blind to? Is he laid low with some style of rigidity from outdoors the homestead that he's bringing into the homestead? If he won't confer with you approximately it, it must be that he does not know the place to initiate, he does not go with to difficulty you approximately it or he (mistakenly) thinks you does no longer understand or be waiting to assist. even nevertheless, communique is the main to a healthful courting and he does might desire to chat approximately it to you. As a married couple you're a set. even nevertheless, it truly is a no longer common subject to do with out including to his problems by ability of making him experience which you're by some ability accusing him of neglecting you. I even have commonly had to take heed to my husband have a bypass at me as though i replaced into his boss, or his colleague or whoever it truly is who pissed him off on the instant. I smile, I pay attention, I sympathise and then I gently element out that i'm no longer the guy who wound him up and that i'm on his factor. and of direction, that i like him. It does not sound like he's having an affair to me - it does sound like he's under pressure and under rigidity from something. Your undertaking, might desire to you compliment to settle for it, is to unravel it. sturdy luck and my sympathies.
2016-11-25 23:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your family,hopefully they shouldn't have a problem with that as long as he pulls his own weight and helps around and doesn't overstay his time..........i understand where youre coming from.......bcuz if u have to live with him then the two of you will get fed up of each other and you'll fight a lot and you don't want that.......if he has no choice but to *** stay with you then ya'll have to lay down some rules and give each other space
2007-04-03 09:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Crazilicous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all you have to do is ask ur ppl! Don't be scared if they say no drop the subject and walk away don't argue don't do anything. I've learend from watching my sister don't be scared to ask them! And then if they say no maybe he could rent someplace or prove to ur ppl that he is responsible enough to take part of the family buisness.
Hope I helped :D
2007-04-03 09:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by VmkRoxMySox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't he get a job and rent his on place, if you want to break up with him just fool one of your parents and you got it licked, The relationship will come to a halt real fast like. Living together with the parents is the sure way to lose anyone that is fudging off of a parent.
2007-04-03 09:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying to find some place and if all else fails maybe ask room mates. maybe charge rent so doesn't feel like burden. maybe have him live in basement or attic. just don't give up keep hopes up. if you're old enough and willing, try to find an apartment together and llive there together. good luck.
2007-04-03 09:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try his family. You're not his mom, and it's not your job to ensure housing for him. Plus, if he got kicked out of his last place, do you want him doing the same at your place, and get you kicked out? No.
2007-04-03 09:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that he is nice and he is not going to bother you then you can but it is better not to do. Try in his family again and again and say sorry to his family for the reason they kick him out.
2007-04-03 09:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to come to your house it will be better then not going anywhere
he will be so ahppy and you don't have to sleep with him NO you just have to let him a a basment or a living room he will be better with you then a street
2007-04-03 09:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kool no one cares
2007-04-03 09:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by sandi k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋