Singles & Dating - 3 April 2007

I have a question or two.. I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years, and just recently we've established careers.. well he said he did want to get engaged once everything settled.. well lately he's been hiding text messages, and calls from me. He texts right in front of me but NEVER lets me see anything. He says it is a surprise and that I will really like it and that he's getting advice from his best friend on what to do. I keep bothering him about it because it makes me angry but he says "your going to ruin it... or why would i text another girl in front of you?"

On the flip side.. he says is scared that when everything settles down that I won't wanna move in with him but I tell him why wouldn't I after 4 years?

Anyway.. am I paranoid, or is he cheating?

2007-04-03 18:14:34 · 4 answers · asked by jenna d 1

why is it that when ur sad/depressed... u feel like time goes by SO SLOWW???

2007-04-03 17:59:07 · 17 answers · asked by ¤Amanda¤ 2

2007-04-03 17:57:45 · 7 answers · asked by omsy101 2

2007-04-03 17:56:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with this guy and i am stupid for it and he is hard to get a hold of he has a gf like everyday and i really miss him but then i was stupid and wrote him a rude letter on myspace and now i just want him back! =( Wat should i do?

2007-04-03 17:51:38 · 28 answers · asked by Dezi 1

For some reason, women that are into me always drink beer when they want to kiss or express something. On top of that, I was having sex with a woman, she said, I need a beer next time for this one. Why is this?

2007-04-03 17:47:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's always been considered a cliche date move, but is it even comfortable?!

2007-04-03 17:40:28 · 24 answers · asked by HallamFoe 4

This girl offers you FWB (friends with benefits- however no s e x, just heavy making out), no strings attached, would that interest you?

2007-04-03 17:40:19 · 13 answers · asked by katiebeth 3

I guess you could say I am in serach for that special one and I am having alittle bit of trouble as all the women I tried dating after one thing and that is money and I wont spend my hard earned dollors for some user how do I go about finding the right women that is TRUE

2007-04-03 17:38:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex. girl have tennis match in april and it been two years i havent saw her. i really want to see her i heard she dont have boyfriend . when i was with her i ignore her alot and i made cry alot. and she mad mad all the time but i know that i love her and she love me.. but i have girlfriend and i keep thinking about me ex. girlfriend i mean i missed her alot. alot she the only person that can make me happy but i dont wat i should do about my girlfriend.

what should i do? should i go se her or just let go even thoght i cant take her of my mind of second.

2007-04-03 17:32:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we were talking about not having as much sex as we did in the past, and then she said she thinks she'll be fine if she never has sex for the rest of her life. what the hell do i make of that? i'm upset and sad and depressed at the same time...

2007-04-03 17:05:26 · 17 answers · asked by PortReplicator 2

I hear this like 3 times a week and i am tired of it. just because they date guys who are jerks that doesn't me we all are. am i right?

2007-04-03 16:59:03 · 5 answers · asked by art 3

The youngest so far has been 16. It happens EVERY time I go to the mall, to the market, to the library, even if my kid is with me. I usually wear no makeup and sweats. I try to attract as little attention as possible, but it never works. I know it is very flattering, but my kid gets mad, (he is 13 and adopted so no one believes he is mine-he's bi-racial) and when I am alone I try to tell them my age, but they never believe me and it makes it worse, even if I show them ID. I am tired of being bothered, guys asking if I am related to Jessica Simpson, trying to get autographs, so I have almost become a recluse in the house. I am a single mom who is dating, but my BF (who is 46) works a lot and is rarely around. What should I do?

2007-04-03 16:56:06 · 21 answers · asked by quacker 2

you really want a girlfriend but it is hard to flirt her back if you don't have mood and hard to pretend any good ideas

2007-04-03 16:55:50 · 2 answers · asked by th y 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. He is very Catholic and does not believe in divorce. I think this makes him more cautious about getting married. He also feels that if you tell someone that you love them, then you should get married shortly thereafter. That being said, I asked him if he had thought about getting married. He responded that he had. When I asked how in depth, he said that he had thought about what I would be like when I was in my older age, where we would live, if he would get a different job to be home more often (he travels with work), and also that he wanted to live in a place that had good schools for his future children.....

Okay! So, my question is, how do you know if he wants to marry you? I mean, with the things that he has been thinking about, do you think he is seriously contemplating it? I am unsure as he is very careful with his feelings.

2007-04-03 16:50:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 16:45:17 · 17 answers · asked by Niyelli 1

I'm not trying to just be infalammatory or just be a jerk, so please don't take this that way. Is there really an emotional 'off switch' that women have? It seems that women can just turn off their emotions suddenly and act like nothing ever happened. I can't forget like that. I anything, I'm envious. Is this reality, or is there a composure gap between the genders?

2007-04-03 16:42:27 · 17 answers · asked by aquaman2964 3

I told my boyfriend that I have had sex with 2 of my ex's numerous times but I have only had sex once in my whole life. I know if we have sex he will find out. What do I do.

2007-04-03 16:29:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that I always get the jerks??? Why is it that we hit it off for a little while, then they just stop calling? Why can't I find any NICE ones? Am I doing something wrong? WHY are all guys JERKS???? >:(

2007-04-03 16:26:11 · 13 answers · asked by abbeyroadey 2

Well we talked about moving out, and I told him I wouldn't really have money for tanning anymore, he said that he doesn't care, and he doest notice my tan, and he thinks I look sexy with or without it....Do u think he really likes me tanned better?? I am small and have a nice body, I just think the tan enhances how I look, what do u think? That he notices my tan...????
he says he loves me for me, not my tan, which I know is true, but you gotta look good to you know, soooo.???

2007-04-03 16:25:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everywhere I go I see women with guys who treat them badly and 1 of my exes actually told me she was breaking up with me cause I was "too nice". Is this true, do women really prefer bad guys?

2007-04-03 16:25:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i like this guy and he called me a b*i*t*c*h then he said he was kidding. so i really like him but im not likking his attitude right now. wut makes it even harder is that he is really hot. im so confused

2007-04-03 16:25:03 · 8 answers · asked by broken heart 1

do guys act like girls in the sense that they tell their friends everything about their "crush/significant other"?

I was surprised because the guy i hooked up with (who happens to be my best friend) i guess told his best friends (like 3 guys) that he was involved with someone and hooked up with a girl but didn't tell them it was me - they're his friends soo they guessed me...

soo guys have "guy talk"?

2007-04-03 16:24:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started a new relationship, with a female...This is my first Lesbian relationship, any suggestions??? How to keep the fire alive and just fresh???

2007-04-03 16:23:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 16:16:06 · 13 answers · asked by Nora G 1

2007-04-03 16:02:49 · 1 answers · asked by Mario K 1

I'm very young, but have already made up my mind to save sex until marriage...My only worry is that there are no guys that will respect this, and I'll never find anyone for me. I want to have sex for love but I'm afraid I may never get married and die a virgin. AHHH! Are there ANY guys that actually agree with me!?

2007-04-03 15:56:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

pretty much every bf i've ever had has been a disapointment. some were ok, but about half were either rude, unwilling to open up to me, cheaters, liars, or manhoes.
however, all of those (the half i mean) have had one thing in common: they do not respect me.

my last bf was kind of a wakeup call. he was four years older and pretty much treated me like $hit. he broke promises, lied to me cheated on me (i think) and tried to go to far-

after the relationship was over i realized what an idiot i had been ever since the first bf that treated me wrong

i'd acted like the kind of girl that would only except respect-
but i just didn't.

well, even though i regret dating that last guy, im glad i did,

because the next guy i date is gunna treat me right Satan Damn it, becuase i deserve so much better!!!

2007-04-03 15:55:44 · 6 answers · asked by KB 4

im looking for guys 18+ to answer. im an 18 year old girl, and you see my pic there, i mean, would u talk to me if you felt attracted to me? i mean i am tired of guys looking at me like they like what they see, but dont do nothing about it. i dont have a problem with going up to guys but sometimes, cus of the place and cirmcumstance i cant. but since most of the time the guy is the one that goes up to the girl, if it was you, and you thought i was cute, wat would be a reason why you wouldnt make a move?

2007-04-03 15:53:53 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ 4

Ok, this girl and i went out for 6 months. during those 6 months she really loved me and cared for me, i could feel it and i could tell. but then she just doesnt feel that way.. i'm not trying to get her to love me again. i'm just curious about how someone that cared and loved you that much just dont care that much anymore? they just act like a totally different person around me. my question is like why doesnt that person care? what makes them not care anymore? i want her to care, but i dont know how to make her feel it. we broke up and its been 4 months of "friends" but we dont act like friends, and sometimes she doesnt treat me like a friend. she treats me like i'm not as important as other people. and everytime i try to talk about it she gets all mad and tells me to leave her alone. i just want her to treat me important.

2007-04-03 15:47:25 · 16 answers · asked by ronaldsmcdonaldc 2