we were talking about not having as much sex as we did in the past, and then she said she thinks she'll be fine if she never has sex for the rest of her life. what the hell do i make of that? i'm upset and sad and depressed at the same time...
2007-04-03 17:05:26 · 17 answers · asked by PortReplicator 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
child is in denial, we gals love to get a hard stiff c0ck in us. get her when shes in the right mood. or let her catch you masturbating then she will gladly join
2007-04-03 17:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Abigail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My immediate response would be that *I'm* not prepared to give up sex for the rest of *my* life!
It's not just about sex, it's also about caring and emotional closeness. If my girlfriend told me she wasn't interested in having sex again, I'd question whether she shared the kind of emotional connection that's necessary for us to have a relationship... because even if sex doesn't mean much to her, it definitely means a lot to me. While the relationship isn't just about sex, sex is definitely an important part of it.
If she didn't appreciate how important sex was to me, I'd ask her if she wanted to end the relationship. Then I'd see where the conversation would go from there.
You should be aware that certain medications can reduce sex drive. If she's on one of those medications, then the two of you need to talk things over. If that's the case, then the problem should at least be solvable.
2007-04-04 00:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something only she can answer for you. What started that topic in the first place? Was it an emotional response? If so, while it still hurts, it may not have been something she really meant except at that moment. Women place less importance on sex than men (and they KNOW this) so her comment may have been lashing out at you in response to something else. Just guessing here due to lack of info.
2007-04-04 00:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by jim w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she said that and how exactly she meant it -- sounds like you're both not being totally honest with one another.
It actually doesn't sound like a major problem, though it may seem so -- women and men view sex very differently. She probably knew that you wouldn't know what to make of saying something like that -- it could be a manipulation tactic... actually, it probably is. (she may not be aware she's doing it though). But honesty is your solution.
Sounds like you need to have an honest conversation about how you're feeling.
We can't tell you anything you don't already know about your relationship though, sounds like you already know that something has to change. Figuring out what that is is up to you.
consider seeking professional counseling. it will clear things up as long as you're honest.
2007-04-04 00:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Steve C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...she most prob wants to develop more on other aspects of the relationship. She's afraid that the relationship will become a sexual one and nothing else.
Communicate more with her and build on the level of trust. Bring her out on romantic dates without sex. That should do it.
2007-04-04 00:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad bad bad. She either has a medical condition which makes sex non-stimulating for her, or she doesn't like sex with you. Either way, dump her. It will save you the heartache and it will also save you. Think about it, are your chances of having sex better when you're with her, or when you're dating women who WANT sex?
2007-04-04 00:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by ninjitsumeiyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about doing it every 4 monthes that way it will be that much better
2007-04-04 00:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do the rough sex like in the porn videos do the gentle sex with her,.! hehehe,.! i mean the porn sex is so yukky you know,.!
and if she still don't wanna have sex with you and you've done the gentle sex move to her, get rough to her rip her, dress and do her, no don't do that, that's rape, i'm just joking,.!
if she doesn't to do it, then do it to others, order a prostetute?
hehehe
2007-04-04 00:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by igel manalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women tend to loose thei rdesire for sex.....she needs to speak to her obgyn about this, because I think there is some type of medication out there for it
2007-04-04 00:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to start looking for a new g/f..
2007-04-04 00:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋