I told my boyfriend that I have had sex with 2 of my ex's numerous times but I have only had sex once in my whole life. I know if we have sex he will find out. What do I do.
2007-04-03 16:29:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The point was so he would think I was experienced.
2007-04-03 16:34:25 · update #1
How do I tell him I lied?
2007-04-03 16:39:50 · update #2
You can tell him the truth or just go with the flow.
Most guys prefer girls who haven't been around the block so I'm not sure why you would lie about it.
I'd personally prefer to know that you've had sex with less people.
2007-04-03 16:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by eaglefox200 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Mee!
You should never have to lie about something like that. That is an insecurity you have with yourself that you need to figure out. Also, you need to ask yourself why you felt the need to tell him that lie; do you think he would have thought less of you? Do you think he was expecting you to be experienced & would have left you if you were not? In my experience, a gal who's got LESS experience is often a rare prize guys are happy to get! There's less a chance of disease, and more chance of the girl thinking HE is the BEST in bed EVER when she doesnt have as many guys to comapre him to! :D I would be honest with him. If he's a good guy, he'll probably be flattered you told him the lil white lie & hhopefully reassure you that it doesnt matter HOW many guys you have slept with, just so long as you were safe when you did & that now you are ready to put the other guy(s) behind you & focus 100% on him! Best of luck!
2007-04-03 16:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Spiral_Dancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I don't think lying is a good thing.
Second, I don't think your boyfriend will just "find out." If you're concerned about being awkward or not knowing what to do, he could just assume you're a little nervous about having sex with *him*.
2007-04-03 16:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by A.W. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why should you not tell him the truth...Do you want to sound experienced in having sex or were you just bragging about nothing.
2007-04-03 16:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him thats a very good that you have sex only once compared to numerous times.
2007-04-03 16:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Coonsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth, and why would you have to lie about it, sounds like you just said if for him to like you more, and maybe you should really think it over about having sex with him
2007-04-03 16:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by exclusive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with him. You can't build a relationship based on a lie. If he means a lot, you will be open and honest. If he doesn't mean a lot to you, then you should sleep with him at all.
2007-04-03 16:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are a woman...you are supposed to lie, and cheat, and lie down with numerous men.
2007-04-03 18:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may like the fact that you've only been with one guy and if he doesn't he's not the one. But you should be honest anyway.
P.S. You don't have to sleep with him either :)
2007-04-03 16:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by PrettyLady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll probably like the fact that you haven't gone around the neighborhood. tell him the truth saying that you were nervous about him knowing the truth.
2007-04-03 16:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ava Ano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋