my ex. girl have tennis match in april and it been two years i havent saw her. i really want to see her i heard she dont have boyfriend . when i was with her i ignore her alot and i made cry alot. and she mad mad all the time but i know that i love her and she love me.. but i have girlfriend and i keep thinking about me ex. girlfriend i mean i missed her alot. alot she the only person that can make me happy but i dont wat i should do about my girlfriend.
what should i do? should i go se her or just let go even thoght i cant take her of my mind of second.
2007-04-03 17:32:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are still having feelings for the ex-girlfriend, then you are not being fair to the present one. You can't have both, and make both happy. You need to decide if you really think that going back to the ex will work or not. Most of the time it does not. I would suggest that you speak to the ex before the match. Tell her what you are feeling, and see if she is interested in trying it again. If you decide to, then please don't go to the match without letting your current girlfriend know that you still have feelings for the ex, and that you need to resolve those feelings before you can truly love someone else. Try to be gentle. Tell her that it has nothing to do with her. It is you, and the feelings that you thought had gone away.
Good Luck!!
2007-04-03 17:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let's see... you treated your ex badly when you were together, and made her unhappy. Now you're with another girl, and you're wishing you were with someone else, which I guess would make your present girl unhappy if she knew.
You say your ex is the only person that can make you happy. First, don't stay with your present girlfriend if you feel that way, because it's not fair to her. I bet she would LOVE to hear you say that.
Second, how about what makes your EX happy? Why is it all about you? Is it just barely possible that she is happy now that she doesn't have to put up with a boyfriend who ignores her, and makes her cry? You had your shot with her, and threw it away. Do the decent thing and let her go.
In fact, let them both go. You need to spend some time on your own while you work out what it takes to be a decent boyfriend, before you ask anyone else to be involved with you.
2007-04-03 17:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Shannen D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women mature often before boys do. In our society we enjoy monogonous relationships. I looked to how the boys treated others. Like thier mom or friends. You don't have a very good track record. I would wonder when you would dump me for something better.
You say, you really want to know. Why don't you know this is not acceptable behavior?
Be nice, friendly but if I saw that you treated everyone fairly, then I would think of you in a better light.
You should let this opportunity pass without changing things.
Then I suggest you begin doing something for someone else. Like teaching underprivilaged children how to play tennis. Only then would I trust you.
I'd have to 'see' by your actions that you thought of others before yourself before I would consider you a 'catch'.
Writing is nice. A woman can hold the letter and savor it even better than you.
Play out this year as is. Change you before you move in.
Define who you are without someone and then have something other than your charm.
You will want to stay together with whoever is your mate. Not looking for more. more and more. Settle down. Good luck in tennis.
2007-04-04 05:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by nanbeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should learn better english.
After that go get ure girl and treat her better this time. Buy her a rose when you see her. That will make her fall for you all over again. :) Good luck!
2007-04-03 17:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obv still love her, do u really want too look back at your life knowing you let the one girl u love slip away?? please dont, go after her. Then you will at least always know. If she loves you and u stil love her it should work out, u said it yourself, your not happy without her, FIGHT for her, dont let her go if u love her, you will ALWAYS think about her in the back of your head if u let her go
2007-04-03 17:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by aces_wild87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what your heart tells you...if she's all thats on your mind, she will never be gone...and if you miss this match..you will always wonder.
i was lucky..i dated a man from high school for 8yrs....love of my life. we split..he married i married. but i NEVER stopped thinking of him. after ten years i wrote a letter...i was divorced, and it turned out he was too. we've been back together for a year now...couldnt be happier.....when you know, YOU KNOW. go for it.
if she is the one......then your gf shouldnt matter, she will live.
you need to follow your heart. i did and thank god
2007-04-03 17:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by justanswerin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably shouldn't say anything because I would be banned from Y! for an obscene amount of cursing.
2007-04-03 17:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by joe l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you think more about your ex. than your current girlfriend--your ex. was the one for you ---- you should go see your ex.--- if you get another chance with her---go for it---and dont mess it up-AGAIN--good luck with the game.
2007-04-03 17:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by .I.L.M.B.-&-.M.G. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just answered your own question.. Enjoy your tennis match.. :-)
2007-04-03 17:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My think best your bet is threesome nooky nooky with ex girl and present girl.
2007-04-03 17:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Captain Fluffy Pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋