I'm very young, but have already made up my mind to save sex until marriage...My only worry is that there are no guys that will respect this, and I'll never find anyone for me. I want to have sex for love but I'm afraid I may never get married and die a virgin. AHHH! Are there ANY guys that actually agree with me!?
2007-04-03 15:56:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, there are guys out there who are saving themselves for marriage as well. Honestly, this is the best choice. I guarentee you when you find the right guy, after you get married he will adore you for waiting until you were married to have sex. Trust me, the only guys who are going to disrespect you for this belief are the guys who do not have your best interests at heart, and that is not the kind of guy you want anyway.
-Jennypenny
No guys do not only think about sex sex sex. We are often much more complex than that. I for one do not think about sex as much as the people in the media would have you believe the average guy does, not even close.
2007-04-03 16:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by J.R. 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There's certainly nothing wrong with waiting until you're married, though when you get older you may change your mind.
Don't worry so much, really. The person who is right for you will respect your decisions. As long as you're looking for actual love, you'll be fine, in regard to "guys that actually agree with you." The guys who don't agree with you about important issues aren't the right guys for you, obviously. :)
Sometimes it does take a while - a lot of people don't get married for the first time until they're 30 or older! And many who marry before that find that the marriage didn't work, because they were too young and not ready for it.
Just enjoy the moment, and the people you're with, while you're with them. Don't sell yourself short or give in to pressure, do what you feel is right.
When you're ready and when things are in order, love and marriage will be waiting for you.
2007-04-03 16:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by raindreamer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not all guys think about sex. There are some that like to be with a girl and do things together that you both love to do you dont have to have sex to build a strong relationship you need to base your relationship on how much you love that person and the time you spend with them. Thats how it shoulkd it but it doesnt in most cases. There is nothing wrong with waiting till your married most guys would respect that but then there are some who will just want sex and thats it. You just have to believe in that and i am sure some guy you will meet and fall in love with you and it want matter to him at all you meet even be happy that he would be the only guy who knows. But girl stick with what you believe and go with it,
2007-04-03 16:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by wade_rudy78 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey , i'm a 21 year old guy , i'm a virgin and i want to marry a virgin its about waiting for the right person, whom i will be with forever and share my sweetest pleasurable moments . Your taking a wise decision
Any guy who truly loves you will wait for you, think of virginity as a diamond , who is the most worth boy/man worth to receive it , it should be your hubby . Its like your giving him something really special , something you had to say NO about to everyone but him . Don't be tricked by what people say, You love and respect yourself and thats why you taking the wise and harder way
Take care very young girl :) , there is a lot to enjoy now till your older
Bye
2007-04-04 01:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by John N 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would respect it. I think you should wait until your married and I appulade you for making up your mind to do that. Sadly I was unable to save my virginity and I lost it at age 13. But still guys will respect it, if they dont move on to another guy.
2007-04-03 16:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Martin A Neville 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-18 00:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dear, don't worry.... I'm a guy who never had sex with my sweetheart before marriage!!!! because she doesn't want to have it before marriage..... i thought i need to respect her feeling.... so there are guys who respect there partners feelings.... And dont think that you will die virgin or so... You can get a guy who will respect you and you will be very happy with that kind of person
2007-04-03 16:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Raj 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would never dump a girl because she would want to wait. Y ou should tell the guys up front how you feel. If they leave, you're better off. Don't be in a rush though. The right guy will come along. When you least expect it.
2016-03-29 00:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering society is getting married at older ages I do not think I agree. I mean 25 is a long time not to engage in physical contact. Our bodies are ready at young ages, and you will find that ideal goals are very hard to keep.
2007-04-03 16:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by trigunmarksman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe in no sex before marriage and any man who can not respect that decision does not deserve that gift from me to him.
2007-04-03 16:00:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋