Ok, this girl and i went out for 6 months. during those 6 months she really loved me and cared for me, i could feel it and i could tell. but then she just doesnt feel that way.. i'm not trying to get her to love me again. i'm just curious about how someone that cared and loved you that much just dont care that much anymore? they just act like a totally different person around me. my question is like why doesnt that person care? what makes them not care anymore? i want her to care, but i dont know how to make her feel it. we broke up and its been 4 months of "friends" but we dont act like friends, and sometimes she doesnt treat me like a friend. she treats me like i'm not as important as other people. and everytime i try to talk about it she gets all mad and tells me to leave her alone. i just want her to treat me important.
2007-04-03 15:47:25 · 16 answers · asked by ronaldsmcdonaldc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same thing happened to me too.
2007-04-03 15:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by j_son_06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when she loved you, it was probably very intense. She maybe waited for you to feel the same way but you probably did. She might not have sensed that. She gave up because she couldnt tell if you really loved her the way she loved you. It's kinda common. She stopped loving you cuz she thought u really dont feel that way about her. She starts acting different cuz shes confused.This kinda made her an ememy cuz she thought u didnt like her so she angry.Maybe this info will help you sort it out. I know in her heart she wans to love you again but her pride is probably holding that back. Get another way to talk to her. Cease the chance. What are you doing on the computer, boy. Get off and call her.
2007-04-03 22:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss, man, but it IS a loss. It's over.
Stop trying to understand how a woman can just hit the 'off switch'. If you figure that one out, you'll be very rich!
Your first priority should be to take care of you. Stop dinkin' around with this person. you're just hurting yourself. I guarantee that the more you see her, the more you'll hurt.
Do this: Avoid her at all costs whenever possible. She's not a friend, and she's not thinking of you. Move on with your life, and do what makes you happy. Get to work getting her out of your head. It'll take some doing, but you're up to the job!!!
Good luck!
2007-04-03 22:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by aquaman2964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okai, this whole issue, is not your fault.
She didn't even want to spend her precious time telling her EX BOYFRIEND why she broke up with him. What kind of person does that?
And it's not that you are not trying to learn how on your behalf, because she's pushing you away!
I think you should just leave her alone, because that's what she clearly seems to want. But if you leave her alone, and go your own way, maybe she'll come to you. Just act like yourself, and don't worry about her. She'll come to you in time.
Don't worry, okai?
I know it hurts… I'm sorry.
2007-04-03 22:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Juliette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably ended up liking someone else. or You did something you weren't suppose to. But whatever happened just get over it. Don't waste your time with her. Some women want attention so they will degrade you to see how low you will go. Just forget about her and move on there is more fish in the sea.
2007-04-03 22:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by lubu666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants you to want her back and is luring you on..
Did she dump you or you dump her?
If it hurts so much for her to even talk about it... to the point where she gets mad.. she obviously DOES care
Shes taking it out on you and uses anger..
You can talk to her about it...
If she still acts all mean to you in response.. don't bother with her!!
Find someone else.. That was the past.. don't live on it.. im sure you can find someone just as good as she was or better
2007-04-03 22:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by MeganElizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her. Don't spend the rest of your life pining over it. There are entirely too many wonderful women out there looking for a wonderful guy. She had her chance and decided to break it off. So now you can give the other 3.3 billion women in the world the chance to replace her.
2007-04-03 22:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget Her and Move On Recently a best friend of while I thought she was a best friend and my boss Jumped up in a meeting where they were discussing my work effort which is good and she ditched me lower than dirt...Everyone came and gave me report that she could have got me fired if anyone believed her...she said I ask her to repeat details often...and I was stupid and things that were off the chain.
We shared a lot of personal details and lately she throws my life back in my face in front of others at the worst time...I forgive her of course and it looks like who is stupid me or her and I can not acknowledge the fact that she ditched me in for most of what I can see the Head of the company. She acts like it is my fault and I did all I could to make her look good and I thought we had a nice relationship as friends but she stopped speaking to me and refused to introduce me to her husband. Not that I would take him but just to say Hi to my best frends mate as much as he heard about me over the years 8 to be exact and everyone said she was not my friend and at times she called me retarded even to my face and rate my life as not having a life but it is business and I felt my life and values were on the line and she told me hers show so I told her my show...I never would have guessed by her being religious and all that she would ever turn on me...It hurts and the getting to know you part I felt if the chips were down she would stand for me and have my back so to speak she only hung me out to dry. I still do not know fully what happened or what I did and I blame myself and Yet I wonder what went wrong and what did I do but if you make a friend OK and if you do not OK it is only business...Love you and Your question helped me to write out my best friend problem. Thanks for listening...I really had the most best props for this girl and highest regards and I would not throw her life back at her like she did me...we had some hard scrapes together...I cried once because I wanted her respect for me having gone through something and I could not see that she did not respect me... You can not make some one love you or respect you you leave and scrap the relationship...We are not speaking but that is on her part not mine because I do not know what she said...So to speak less and watch more..I let someone get too close and it hurts...I would leave her alone and I feel some day she wants to come around but I do not want to be there if she does...I hate to loose what I have but I feel I can be better and I can move on from this. I will be stronger and you will too...Yours is more personal than mine but as the song say M&M rapper B*****es they come and they go just get your stupid up off the runway Yo...I cant be your superman....I cant change my life or my face or myself to please you...You are not a psychologist so your not God or Oprah so as Luda says Move B**** get out the way....Omarion Sing I got a Ice box where my heart use to be...
2007-04-03 23:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Nina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has evidently closed the chapter with you in it and moved on with her life. As far as she is concerned your relationship with her is over, done with, kaput! She has no intention of getting back with you and all you are doing is p***ing her off mooning around after her.
Open your eyes and look around. She isn't the only girl available. Who knows you may find someone you will like better. Your old girlfriend might decide to come back to you if she sees you dating someone else.
Just leave your old girfriend be, get on with your life and take life as it comes.
2007-04-03 23:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense, but u sound a lil desperate my friend. look, if shes gonna treat u that way, u needa step back and check urself, u dont need someone in ur life that treats u that way. like a friend of mine always says, dont make someone in ur life a priority if ur not a priority in theres. just forget about it bro, i know it sux, but ur better than that, and im sure u can find a better girl than her. hopefully she wasnt usin u for money or w/e
2007-04-03 22:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. tell her exactly how u feel. sometimes people just move on, it is a part of life. so i sugest u do as she does and try adn move on. im not saying dont be friends or anything im just saying. find someone else who does to get your mind off of her. it works trust me.
2007-04-03 22:51:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋