this is my first kiss and i wont it to be perfact and not like the ones on cmedy showes im afraid if its not the way he wonts it then he'l never wont to kiss me agien weve been dating for a year now and i dont wont to throw it all in the trash what should i do.
2007-04-02 01:05:52 · 17 answers · asked by chy_chy1985 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lose the "prince Charming" fantasy and just get on with it. It might be great or it might be just OK. The bottom line is it don't really matter.
2007-04-02 01:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think ur ready then go for it...but if not, no one is pressuring you to do anything....
Everything should come naturally... its just a given! But here r sum tips!
***How to kiss
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.
On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...
****French kissing
(or Frenching)
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.
Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.
See www.how-to-beat-up-your-little... for details!
~Kissing with glasses or braces
If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.
If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!
If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!
*****Kissing do's and dont's
A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!
Practice makes perfect!
The only way to get good at kissing is to
practice. Have fun!
Trust me i went through the same thing u are!
If u ever need anything else email @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com
*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-04-02 01:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be afraid but nothing will happen if you let your fear take over. Nothing's really perfect. Just take the plunge and learn from it, If he never kisses you again, he's not worth it in the first place, if he thinks you're not a good kisser, he might teach you how, that's the joy of discovery.
2007-04-02 01:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is the answer to this question:
Do you want to kiss him?
If you don't then forget about it for now until you feel ready.
If you want to kiss him then here are some tips, firstly relax I know its hard because your nervous and want everything to be great, but as you said you have been with him for a year, so surely one bad kiss wouldn't destroy it all.
Don't rush the kiss, move in slowly and just make it a nice gentle one to start with and thirdly make sure your breath is fresh and lips aren't dry before you do it.
2007-04-02 01:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by UnTrace 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im sure he would understand if your nervous if you have been together for a year, does he know its your first kiss? I remember mine but it was a very long time ago and i was nervous so didnt get to enjoy it at all, try to relax and go with it, if your not comfortable than dont, maybe try and talk about it :)
2007-04-02 01:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to stress about the first kiss dont worry about it it will come to you.
Yes that is true not everyone wants to remember their first kiss but in the end it is all what you make of it
Just relax dont try to make it perfect because then it will be a disaster
2007-04-02 01:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, you're not ready. Don't rush into things or pressure him.
If you still really think you're ready, you could start by taking things slow. Play truth or dare and dare him to kiss you on the cheek. That's always cute. See what he does. If he's ready. He might be as nervous as you are. Take it from there.
I hope this helps, Good luck!
nicole
2007-04-02 01:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally up 2 you.. If the chemistry is there it will just happen.. Or just start off with a peck on the lips and it will flow from there.. Make sure sure your mouth is fresh....LoL
2007-04-02 01:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by SHY GURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to start somewhere tell him its ur first time kiss a boy and u want it to be right. ask for his help man love that.
2007-04-02 01:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by roeroe417 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid of kissing someone you don't have to do it do what is inside your brain your brain will tell you what to do
2007-04-02 01:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by govtagent_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋