2007-04-02 00:34:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have answered this type of question before on here, but if he cheated once and came back and asked you to forgive him, and if you value the realtionship you had with him, then by all means forgive him! HOWEVER...I would make sure he understands that if he "strays" again, that will be it! It may hurt you for a while if he does, but you will be better off in the long run. There was obviously something about him that you cared for, because you were going with him, AND you are considering taking him back after he cheated on you! That says a lot for your character. That you are fair and considerate. BUT...don't be a doormat! Tell him that you will be watching and that he is going to have to stay on the straight and narrow and if he can't do that, then tell you now so you BOTH can get on with your lives!
2007-04-02 00:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ken S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him hang on to him but never trust him again. Dont give him the opportunity to cheat again. Spend all your spare time together and ask that he tell you where he is at all times. If he cant live with that let him go.
If he really loves you he will regret that he has hurt you by his cheating. The ball is in your court now so its your turn. He now has to be very good to you. If you want to stay together you will need to do everthing you can to make each other happy. Good love is hard to find. Dont give it away if you think it will last but youll have to work at it. Good luck.
2007-04-02 08:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope! Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!
2007-04-02 07:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!! some people may change but would you take a chance that he may break your heart again?? just get away from that situation
2007-04-02 08:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by drummergrrl2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHETHER he deserves it, it really depends on the cheater's spouse or girlfriend.I will not be a judge here
2007-04-02 07:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you can forgive him. If not then you will be constantly wondering where he is or what hes doing, its not worth the torment.
2007-04-02 07:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be wiser.
be experimental
tell him " I will forgive you now cuz I am also in a crush on another guy."
if he gets mad ,tell him "you know now the pain I had,"
IF he doesnt get mad , he doesnt love you, zero.
leave him , give your concern to the street dog.
2007-04-02 07:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NNOO!!! once a cheater, always a cheater
2007-04-02 07:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by angel eyez xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! he does not care for you if he cheated on you in the 1st place.
2007-04-02 07:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Becker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Fool you once it's their fault. Fool you twice it's your fault.
2007-04-02 07:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋