my best friend was telling me about how she went out on a date & hooked up w/this guy, and I suddenly felt really sad and couldn't get any sleep that night. ive been wanting a bf that really meant something to me for a long time, so maybe that's why, but i dont know if im feeling jealousy, or loneliness, or whatever else. please help! (please don't kill me about my spelling/grammar mistakes)
2007-03-30 21:40:02 · 12 answers · asked by Danityxkanexluvah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for the clarification guys...if anyone else is here, any tips on how i can forget about wanting a bf for a while/finding the right person for me who's actually serious about a relationship?
2007-03-30 21:50:33 · update #1
the need for companionship is sometimes a lonely thing to experience.. sometimes it's sad and sometimes you may feel strong living on your own. the wish for a bf who is always there for you and means something to you is very normal and probably shared by millions of other people too. I think you feel a mix of being left out, sadness and lonelyness. I think you can counter that by sticking a feather in your cap so to speak. Tell yourself you are a wonderful person and tell yourself that if mister right isnt here yet, he must be very special and will be worth waiting for.... even if you find him when you are 80 years old... :) I don't think you are jealous, just want some company that is real... very very normal. not always pleasant, but normal. Hope you find your soulmate to share your life with :)
2007-03-30 21:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness is something that bugs you up the neck and i truly know what is that.That should not deprive you from performing well in your duties and affairs of heart.Your friend might be telling this to you to enlighten you or provoke you.It can be treated either way.Do what you think, if you feel bored hit the net or hit the floor do something you always wanted to do.We re in the 20th century.Loneliness is never an issue here.Do it slowly and safely.
2007-03-31 04:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello you are definately in love but yet to find one.you are really lonely of which is not good.yes you are jealous but nopt necessarily fpor the guy, but for your friend newly find love.You feel this will put you in a kind of lonely train since your friend will no longer be with you due to this guy.please make sure you dont hurt yourself or your friend.Love will surely find you one day.Goodluck.
2007-03-31 04:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a classic case of lonliness hun. Nothing major.
2007-03-31 04:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty sure that's the feeling of envy. Perhaps a dash of lonliness thrown in as well.
2007-03-31 04:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want someone to love, someone to hug and talk to.
When someone else hooks up, it makes you look at yourself, and see the emptiness that the other person doesn't have.
2007-03-31 04:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by Moogleluvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say lonelyness, everyone gets it when they feel left out, in your case left out of having someone to love. i say just stop thinking about it so hard and when the time comes, the right man will come to you.
2007-03-31 04:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Eddie s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling Left out. feeling "Why Not Me"....
Don't worry. We all feel like that at times when we are single and lonley. When you least expect it, you will find what you are looking for.
2007-03-31 04:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey danity, why are you so consious about it, dont you have boy friends, think about you school friends, I think you are little bit shy toward boys, i am boy too, no one think anything bad. you just go and talk to them, they feel great you know.
nice to meet you
c'ya
2007-03-31 04:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by prashanth always smiling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just lonely. You need to get out there and expand your social circle.
2007-03-31 04:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋