Ok why is it that it seems happiness is always just barely out of my reach. I mean is there some driving force for everything that is that determines who will have everything they could possibly want and others have to struggle everyday of their life just to make some small niche for themselves? I ask this because it seems in all aspects of my life i feel im going nowhere. the harder i try it seems the worse i fail. relationships always elude me no matter how positive an attitude i try to have. it always blows up in my face. Ive heard you just have to wait for the right person to show up but why is it that some people find that person quickly while others wait sometimes their whole lifetime to find their someone and sometimes they never do. Are some people just not meant to have someone? Sometimes im told my standards should lower but i know what i want. why should i have to settle for less than what i know will make me happy? I know this sounds shallow but its the way i feel.
2007-04-02 19:04:57 · 3 answers · asked by zorlandkeirwulf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are right never lower your standards why settle for second best.Happiness only lasts so long when your with someone. In the beginning when you meet up until the second year of marriage everything is great but after that everything else is very hard work and by hard work I mean compromising,biting your tongue,no flirting,no cheating the list is so long. Remember looks are very deceiving but it was no fun being single .By the time I was 27 I was on my third marriage and my last I had always said I don't care how many times I have to marry I won't stop until I find the right one.Each one I wasn't out looking I was out to have a good time and it just happened on it's own.I don't no how old you are but I have a feeling you are in your twenties if that is the case get the running out of you before you settle down if you don't you will most likely cheat on who ever you are with.You will find someone she is out there waiting for you,you just haven't bump in to her yet.
2007-04-02 19:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of us think this same way...I think there are lessons in life that one must learn before things start to fall into place, there are very few short cuts in life...and depending on which path we choose to take it takes longer for some than others to get where want to go.
2007-04-03 02:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to have what you want, change your attitude.
2007-04-03 02:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋