i have a good guy and he likes me lots too but this one guy at work keeps giving me stuff I dont take them but now he sends flowers and I dont know what to do it feels very weird to go to work now any good suggestions
2007-04-02 18:21:34 · 7 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you get them refuse to sign for them and tell the driver to return the flowers to the shop and have the shop call the buyer and tell them you refused to sign and asked for them to be donated to a hospital but you did not want any delivers from the buyer! then send a note or call the guy and tell him in no uncertain terms that you will not be taking any gifts or flowers from him and that you would like to have him honor your request for him to have no further contact with you or you might feel the need to get a restraining order filed don't say please or thank you in this discussion because he may take this as a sigh you are being nice and worried about his feelings giving him hope just be firm and straight forward and direct don't chit chat don't say thank you but no thanks or they were very nice its just... you just call and say point blank i don't want anything from you and then all the above so that way you are not sending out any mixed signals at all!
2007-04-02 18:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by peterpansdate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in person and through email (and save it to your computer) that you have a b/f and it makes you uncomfortable when he sends you flowers. If he still continues to do so, print out a copy of the email (And any responses from him) and take it to your boss and/or HR. This is harassment.
2007-04-03 01:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firmly tell him that you can't accept any more flowers or gifts because it makes you uncomfortable to do so.
If he doesn't stop, next time refuse the flowers.
The florist has to take them back to the shop.
He'll get the message.
Good luck
2007-04-03 01:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Croa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should kindly let this guy at work know that you are in a happy, committed relationship. Plus, you are not romantically interested in him and that his nice gestures are not appropriate to you under the circumstances.
2007-04-03 01:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by artutina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gifts take and re gift them. maby even let him see u do this.flowers just say o yes that giy last nighit must of sent them or must b my frends just tain them home for her. but re gift the flowers to.
2007-04-03 01:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by farm_boy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If these advances are unwanted and you have made it clear to him then his behavior is harassment report him
2007-04-03 01:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would explain to the guy at work that you think his actions are sweet, but that you already have a man in your life. does he know that you do?
2007-04-03 01:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋