Singles & Dating - 20 February 2007

There is a guy that is really hard to understand, he is obnoxious, he is rude on how he talks about other girls, but I think I am crushing on him.

He has been very nice to me, but his behavior towards other people bothers me. Also he is into things I don't agree with. I don't like him when I am talking with him, but when I am away he is what I think about. Its a work thing. And I feel a little mad when he talks to other girls.

How would I get a feeling of crushing to go away?

Why do I have slight flirtatious feelings for a guy I don't even like?

I don't want to like him!!!!

2007-02-20 03:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by blondieinlove 4

I just do not get it. I know I am not the best looking man. However, I am well-dressed and well-groomed. For example, I always wear a shirt, tie, nice cufflinks, etc. I am also very quiet. Nevertheless, women have always ignored me all my life. I will reach 25 years of age later this year and will still be single!

2007-02-20 03:39:45 · 26 answers · asked by wayne b 1

can i have the ladies answer this one for me plz. thankk you. i don't get it, they say i was the best bf they had but then they end up dumping me. what are they really saying? serious answers plz.

2007-02-20 03:39:32 · 2 answers · asked by smallguy 2

Some girl called him the day before Valintine's Day and told him that me and her was in a relationship with the same boy. He did'nt ask me about he just wouldn't answer my phone calls and he wouldn't call me. I saw him in the mall that Saturday he ignored me, but I met this other dude that same day. We talked on the phone all night. That Sunday my new friend and I went to this party and he was there. Now he called me yesterday, he wants to fight him over me.

2007-02-20 03:39:19 · 6 answers · asked by Jazmen G 1

ok, so in my class there is this boy that just came in
he has a british accent and i can't resist him. he is very cute too but the accent completes him for me
i always go up to him and talk to him about his country and just things about him.
dose that mean i'm being wierd or brave
i really don't want to freak him out or anything like that

2007-02-20 03:38:43 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 03:38:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy is sweet, caring, and loves me more than anyone has ever loved me. I'm afraid that if I break it off, not only will I shatter his existence (seriously...he's crazy in love), but i might lose a good thing.

2007-02-20 03:36:38 · 5 answers · asked by nikki 1

I seem to always disagree with my work colleague,one day we get on fine, the nxt day she is rude and extremely patronising towards me. I've recently just started also.

There are other times where we flirt continuously,smiling,stare into each others eyes,emails,body language etc....A few weeks back at a works drinks, she said:

I want to trust you-get to know you better....
What happens at work stays at work....
I want us to get on....
I don't do 1 night stands,I only have proper boyfriends....
Then she asked if we're cool???
MEANING???

Another week (at work drink) she just stared at me, I asked her why and she said "I just want to look at you and your funny".The look was all smiles - like checking me out!!!

What she playing at???Advice please...

p.s. there is trouble with her boyfriend of 2 years, as he don't want to commit....colleagues say we have a love/hate thing bwt us.

2007-02-20 03:35:52 · 11 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2

FHM or Playboy?

2007-02-20 03:34:16 · 8 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2

we been together since october and I am still in high school. My mother told to focus on school instead of him and at some point I agree with her and asked him to he understand he did not answer me. But like 2 days later he tells me about a dream he had about him and me. I said talk about later He just stop talking to me.

2007-02-20 03:33:46 · 14 answers · asked by Daniela 2

There's this boy. He's a couple of years older than me, and I'm young enough to make a couple of years quite a big difference. He goes to my school, but I don't know him that well. Yesterday, he followed me around for a bit, and we started hugging, and holding hand, and he said he fancied me. And today he hugs me and stuff like that...
Problem-I like the THOUGHT of him, and miss him when hes not around, but I freeze up and get all shy. Almost like I don't fancy him. I like him...But I've been hurt so many times before, I'm afraid to let him in my heart... Soooo, what should I do? I don't want to walk away from him, but is it the oly thing I can do?

2007-02-20 03:33:43 · 10 answers · asked by Live4Music 2

If a woman is not completely happy with the person she is currently dating due to a lot of emotional heartache. Is it okay for her to meet and get to know others?

2007-02-20 03:33:06 · 11 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1

Gave the female coworkers on my team roses this year. One to each and one to my female friends that come through for me. My friends think it was dumb because they said you will get no play fomr it. I dont want play just to do something nic e on that day for them. The coworkers liked it . Doesnt help me trying to get rid of the nice guy stigma but hey it boosted team moral and thats important .
I didnt think there was anything wrong with it how about you guys

2007-02-20 03:32:01 · 8 answers · asked by Arthur D 3

2007-02-20 03:31:42 · 14 answers · asked by workaholic 2

I really can't seem to get him. So here goes the short version.

A. We're coworkers. But I'd say we were pretty good friends.
B. When we are having a conversation with a large group he seems to keep all his attention on me.
C. He'll always accidentally touch me, or he won't move away from my touch.
D. He always hugs me. And he hugs me last, which in one of my guy friends opinion thats a good thing...
E. People think we are dating. Or say we should date. I've had people ask me if he's my boyfriend.
F. He always does the little things for me. He'll always grab my things.
G. He smiles a lot.

Right. So since he wasn't doing anything and since all the people who had responded to this question before said yes he likes you I took a big step gave him a valentine and told him I like you. Now, it's been what a week and he hasn't said anything about it. He was out of town for the long weekend. Anyways, yesterday was the first time we saw each other since I told him. See additional details!!!!

2007-02-20 03:31:37 · 13 answers · asked by Ni-Kay! 1

2007-02-20 03:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by bruce_wayne 2

they have such low self esteem - have you noticed that?

2007-02-20 03:30:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 9 month old baby w/ my ex. he was making good money but is financially a moron so he was not paying his bills or giving money to help w/ the baby. He has basically ignored me for the past 7 mths showing no affection or love to me. He sees the baby and I 1-2x a month and all he would do is sit on couch w/ beer and ESPN. He slept on the couch. He would not touch me at all & when I would try to kiss him he would clam up. I ask him what was wrong and he would get mad. Now his car has been repoed which is on my credit because I signed for it, and he has lost his job. Lack of affection has cause me to not love him now. He is at my house laid up drinking beer and running up stuff that I will have to pay for w/ no help from him because he have no job. He is my baby father but I want him to leave. he has been rude to me and has not helped with the baby. Now that he down and out he wants to try and play house. I don't need it. I've moved on an will take care of my child as a single mom.

2007-02-20 03:30:02 · 7 answers · asked by candyred1999 3

he is out of the country and lately, he is always too busy to talk. I hear women around him but he always seems to have an explanation that makes no sense. He picks up a fight with me when I ask him why he is acting different. I am so upset because I love him so much. Our relationship was great until now. I am tired of complaining and sounding like a desperate nag. I feel like he has someone new distracting him from me. The last time i called him he ignored my calls, I called again and he answered the phone not knowing. I heard a female voice. I then called him a little after, he answered, had a fight with me, told me he was in bed. I asked him to tell me what was really going on and he told me he was tired of me nagging him. That happened two days ago. I have not called him and neither has he. What do I do? Do I call him, not call him, ignore his calls if he does call or what do I say when he calls? What can I do to make him know that I am upset without acting like a baby?

2007-02-20 03:28:21 · 9 answers · asked by Piscess 1

well i have, few time actually.
like this one time, i didn't find the guy that much attractive so i just ignore him. (he had short curly hair) which i wasn't in to. but now its a lil longer and he straightens it. omg he is soooooooooo hot. I want him now.

2007-02-20 03:28:17 · 10 answers · asked by Shana 2

He says he likes me....bt doesnt want to go into a relationship..so ignores me ,acts totally unromantic! n stuff like that...bt i knw he really likes me...wat do i do??

2007-02-20 03:26:38 · 6 answers · asked by fm_scar 1

2007-02-20 03:26:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok.here's the problem.i keep talking a lot abt my crush, & how cute he looks & some guys in his class had gone & told him that i talk of him in a wrong way & that i constantly keep on complimenting his looks.apparently,my crush thinks i'm a psychopath now(seriously-one of my friends had explained to him that it's just my hyper way of dealing with crushes & that it's my personality but he wasn't convinced)...now he's freaked out by everything i do.(he doesn't know me very well.we hardly talk & i assume he doesn't know my real character at all,or has even bothered to find out).when i confronted him abt this & apologised,he just told me that he didn't know who to trust.was this a wise thing to do?
plus i just want to know why he thinks i'm such a psycho.i mean,i don't think that ANYONE would be freaked out by compliments & attention,are they?
guys-what would you do in a situation like this?listen to your friends,or ask the girl herself?would you even give her a chance to explain?

2007-02-20 03:24:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am with my friend's brother (She hooked us up) Me and him like many other couples have arguements. And sometimes when I need someone to talk to, I was so use to talking to her all the time and now I'm talking to her about her brother and its kind of uncomfortable. She listens, but she is still his sister and I try to avoid talking about him cause them two are very close. I know she has and will go back and tell him things. Some Good thingd ;-) I want to brag about to my Best Friend..but can't lol,

Its kind of changing our friendship, every since I've been dating him. (the way we communicate) We are still friends, but its a little weird. Like I'm all silly and crazy when I'm around her, but around him I'm more laid back. But when I'm around them both...its like if I get to crazy around him he'll think I'm showing out! Its just a mess...I love them both

2007-02-20 03:24:26 · 2 answers · asked by SexyBlackFasho 3

I don't know where to start. I was walking one day with my daughter in my apartment complexes, and this man walks up to me and asks for my number. We went out on a date and formed a friendship. After two months, we officially started seeing one another. This man turned out to be wonderful. He treats me like a princess and he is in love with both my daughter and me. The problem with our relationship is that he is very quiet. He is going through depression, but he says that he has always been shy. Sometimes, it's very hard to talk to him. He doesn't get irritable, but he just can't seem to find the words to say. Last week, he started antidepressant medications and he is going to start therapy. Our relationship is very routine, and we are somewhat limited to what we can do due to my physical disability. He has been wonderful to my daughter and me, but he is also a little clingy. He is not controlling, but when he is with me he shows almost too much affection.

2007-02-20 03:21:18 · 8 answers · asked by aloha_kisses2007 1

There is a girl I really like. Last week I asked her out. I thought everything went fine, but apparently did not:
"I want to thank you again for a very enjoyable evening last Friday, and your interest in spending time with me. As much as it was nice to meet and learn about you, I feel I'm not interested in pursuing anything more than a friendship with you. Please don't take this too personally, you're very kind with much to offer, I just didn't sense much of a connection, very little common ground. Thank you again..."

As I mentioned above, I really like her. I believe the first date was kind of too formal and I acted a bit conservative because I was afraid I say something she doesn't like.
I want to change her mind. It's not a exaggeration if I say I'm the most flexible guy on the earth. please tell me what is your suggestion. I feel I have a lot more to offer. by the way, do you think if there is any chance that she doesn't mean what she has said? Thanks.

2007-02-20 03:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by Banzan 2

2007-02-20 03:19:17 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is really busy and stressed in his final year of uni therefore we only see each other when he has time, every few weeks. This is really annoying because i miss him loads. He does want to see me but i dont think it botheres him as much as it does me. Is there anyway i can get him to want to see me more?

2007-02-20 03:19:10 · 24 answers · asked by me 1

I have liked this guy Hayden Blackmer since 5th grade. Right from the moment he sat next to me I liked him. We have a lot in common: we both like basketball, music, drawing, etc. I am now in 8th grade and I still like him. During 5th and 6th grade I was always his confidante and he told me I was a good listener. Then when we went on to middle school everything changed. We didn't have any classes together so now I only see him before classes in the morning and lunch and in the hallways between classes. We barely talk anymore. People always told me he had a "thing" for me and my friend said he brought up my name totally randomly on their bus and she thought it was odd. He asked her if I liked him and she told him yes I did, I think. How do we come onto speaking terms again? How do I show him I am still interested? I really like him and have for a very long time. What do I talk about? How do I flirt with him? Please I need HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-20 03:17:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/cupidslittlearrow/

i am single since my boyfrined run off with someone else, im quite shy so meeting new people is difficult for me. Does anyone have any suggestions that could help?

2007-02-20 03:16:20 · 7 answers · asked by Emma T 1