There is a girl I really like. Last week I asked her out. I thought everything went fine, but apparently did not:
"I want to thank you again for a very enjoyable evening last Friday, and your interest in spending time with me. As much as it was nice to meet and learn about you, I feel I'm not interested in pursuing anything more than a friendship with you. Please don't take this too personally, you're very kind with much to offer, I just didn't sense much of a connection, very little common ground. Thank you again..."
As I mentioned above, I really like her. I believe the first date was kind of too formal and I acted a bit conservative because I was afraid I say something she doesn't like.
I want to change her mind. It's not a exaggeration if I say I'm the most flexible guy on the earth. please tell me what is your suggestion. I feel I have a lot more to offer. by the way, do you think if there is any chance that she doesn't mean what she has said? Thanks.
2007-02-20 03:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by Banzan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You made a mistake when you "Acted a bit conservative because I was afraid I say something she doesn't like." You had the chance to show her who you are by conversation and because of your fear of saying something dumb-you actually did not connect with her in a way you would have liked. I suggest you write this lady a letter and explain to her the fact that you were afraid to blow it with her. I think that anyone can change their mid if they can see the person is being truthful about their intentions. If you are honest about how you feel about her and try explaining to her what you think is special about her and why you think you are the man for her-I believe she will respond kindly to that. If she doesn't she's not for you anyway, and after you get over her, you can find you a lady that will appreciate you.
2007-02-20 03:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact her and say, that you was a bit nervous, and that you was just not yourself. And if she does give you another chance, just be yourself, and if by then, she is just not interested, you just move on, Their are many in the way, just waiting for a guy like you, so now remember to just be yourself!
2007-02-20 03:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh. why don't you try talking to her and saying that you were too formal and you acted a bit conservative. tell her what you just told us! and ask for a second chance...if she's a good girl she'll give it to you. and next time, don't be as nervous!
2007-02-20 03:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by kb293 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, i, like her, know after a first date if i will like the person or if him and i are compatible..
Move on and find someone that will like you..no point forcing it.....
Good luck
2007-02-20 03:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Maria K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push it - she made it very clear she is not interested in seeing you again. She was very nice - don't make her mad by ignoring what she said.
2007-02-20 03:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋