Singles & Dating - 19 February 2007

im seein a guy casually and wanna know if he is sleepin with anyone else and i was wondering if u think i have a right to ask that question?????

2007-02-19 23:57:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ever since I was a little girl I've never really felt feminine or masculine. Sure, I knew I was a girl, but I've never truly felt 100% girly. I'm not gay or anything... its just I feel kinda neutral. I don't feel like a boy. I wear dresses, jewelry, makeup, I just don't wear them all the time, nor do I have a desire to get dressed up. I do have my girly moments, I played with dolls as a child (but not in the sense of a normal girl.. nothing very maternal) but at the same time I also raised toads and had a desire to play boy's games, but nothing too masculine either (like wrestling or football). Its like, you are either one extreme or the other, and I fall in the gap in the middle.

I'm completely straight... I've been around, I've had a boyfriend, I'm female, but I don't feel like one gender or the other most of the time. I usually feel flattered or suprised when someone refers to me as a "she". In my mind, I'm more of an "It"

Does that make any sense?

As far as puberty goes, I was ashamed to grow breasts and have boys pay attention to me... I felt odd and out of place. When the other kids started dating (around middle-school), I never had much of an interest until I was about seventeen (my parents didn't help, whenever I had a male friend over as a child they would always tease me horribly and try to get me to like him). I'm now used to being a full grown woman, and I'm comfortable with it, and I am comfortable with guys (in fact, I love guys)... but I still can't really identify with girls, or anyone for that matter, especially in a social setting. While most girls have crushes on guys, it takes me a good while to find anyone I'm interested in and I usually have to befriend them first and get to know them, I can't pick a "good looking" guy out of a crowd and automatically have a crush on him like my female friends do. And once I like someone, thats that.. I like them, and then I get to know them better and I start loving them.. and it sounds weird but I don't have any desire for anyone else around me.. which is weird, because while my other female friends are in a relationship and they see another guy, they daydream about him, giggle, discuss how cute he is, and sometimes they can't control themselves and have flings. Once I find a guy, I'm set.. I have no desire for another person (romantically) in my life.

What is wrong with me? Am I normal, or is everyone I hang out with different? Is this a hormonal imbalance?

2007-02-19 23:57:22 · 11 answers · asked by Shelly Smith 1

well can a small girl love his own uncle???and when she asked to the astrologer about that , some r saying that he loves her physically and some r saying that he loves her and in her astrology chart its also written that there will be a marriage between them !!!!!plzz answer me!!!i need helpppp!!!!!

2007-02-19 23:55:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can you tell if a girl likes you?

2007-02-19 23:54:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-19 23:51:37 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not so muscily. Would maybe loose in an arm wrestling match to them, but is not a wimp. Has a good personality, pretty attractive, and very emotionally concious?

2007-02-19 23:51:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

He tells me private things and laughs at almost everything I say. He knows that I have a thing for him. Do you think he's intersted in me too? Last night we were on my phone trying to find a number and we were sitting knee to knee and touching and joking around. I am just so dumb about these things.

2007-02-19 23:50:55 · 12 answers · asked by katieinok94 1

A single friend of mine sent me a personals ad featuring my husband, & I was just wondering how I could find out if he has another email address & how I could find it. I don't have the $ for detectives, etc. Anyone with some help I would sure appreciate it.

2007-02-19 23:49:16 · 3 answers · asked by maria s 1

There's this boy from church that I like and I only see him then,how do I talk to him privately?

2007-02-19 23:48:06 · 7 answers · asked by Dianaykj 1

I have "known" this girl for a while but became much closer friends over the past year, we would chat alot at work on msn and email each other and on the phone. we hang out with the same group of friends.It came naturally that I started to like the girl alot too much on the verge of loving her. Supressed feelings of love turns to hate and thats what it turned to. I acted like i didnt like her i acted weird around her i started to seek attention basically I acted like an idiot. I had lost my confidence esteem and self respect. but we were still close. she is a beautiful girl and im not Gods gift to women - too good for me

4 months ago something terrible happened which affected her i didnt deal with it properly and basically we started to part. She doesnt chat to me much now but im desperate to chat to her I care for her so much. but it seems that how I have acted has changed her opinion of me. I regret it. How do I pursue her again? or should I? we were close before. I messed up.

2007-02-19 23:47:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

so exite, if have someone i love and say love with me, but if have someone i don't love but he say love with me so hard to explain to him

2007-02-19 23:41:48 · 6 answers · asked by Ahoy 1

I have a monumental problem and i think i just found out about it. My dad was a wife beaterhe beat my mom up infront of me. It kinda stuck in my head and ever since i have the problem of not dating guys cos of this. im twenty somethin and have NEVER dated. will i ever escape this???

2007-02-19 23:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by Livin lonely 1

more often i observe she is not happy after the play. wt to do to satisfy her 100%.

2007-02-19 23:37:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ello, need some advice, long one this...

Been with a girl for a very long time now, but although i think i love her, it's getting really tedious and more of a chore to keep her happy.

Then recently, a very close friend came back into my life and now i think i'm falling for her. I'm getting indications that she feels the same and i'm just so much more happier being in her company. Although i'm not going to do anything whilst i'm still attached, i just can't stop thinking about her and the times that we've had so far.

Have you been in the predicament in the past? Did it work out for you? I know that it's not fair splitting up with someone to be with someone else, but surely it wouldn't be fair on me if i just carried on being unhappy with her.

TIA

2007-02-19 23:33:03 · 16 answers · asked by A_lil_Confused 1

A semi pro will do - fancy some online dating?

2007-02-19 23:32:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this girl who I am really falling for, and I want to show her my feelings. She has expressed similar feelings, and I wanted to know if anyone knew a good song to give her to dedicate to her. I was looking earlier but all I could find were just romantic love songs, and we aren't that romantically invovled yet.

2007-02-19 23:29:42 · 12 answers · asked by purplecresentiori 1

Do you cheat because you have been cheated on?
Is it because you have gone off the person you are with?
Why can you just no speak to your partner and deal with issues and if need be break up rather than cheating to break up!
Why do we take back cheaters?
Do you think about who you are cheating on and how they will feel if they find out?
Do you feel bad?
How would it make you feel if you were in their shoes?

2007-02-19 23:28:33 · 15 answers · asked by whos_that_girl? 1

i like my bestfriends cousin jay. and her whole family knows it, but its cool because i love her family and they love me. they say he likes me to. they also say he said i look like a "good girl" what does this mean ?


anyway on saturday i went to his house and helped him move from outta town to closer to where i stay. we don't go to the same school or anything but a drive to and from our houses is short.

i like him because he did'nt seem bad like into drugs or having alot of girls. or just wanting sex.

but im scared that he really is like that based of little things my friend tell me about him. he's rich and he knows it. but jay is also down to earth. he tall honey brown eyes and muscles. i rarely like find somone that i like alot.


when i went to his house [me and his cousin were helping him move] his mom said ''u must be bri`ann'' and gave me a hug. my cousin and her sister said she didnt tell her my name so the whole family must be talking about me but once again

2007-02-19 23:27:48 · 5 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

Honest opinion please.

2007-02-19 23:26:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so upset and i feel bad about my appearance. I was chatting with someone online, we always talk on the phone and we send each other text msgs too, he already saw me on cam and i told him that im chubby and that he should not expect me to be sexy like what he keeps on telling me. We decided to meet up in person, we had a date and everything went smooth...he is so sweet and i thought he liked me for what i am. Then when we went home he started to change suddenly...he used to text me 50 msgs a day but today i only received 4...hes changed...im so hurt.. is it because i am chubby? u might wanna take a look at me

http://www.myspace.com/einjela

please help im so down...

2007-02-19 23:23:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

he likes you doesn't he?

2007-02-19 23:23:44 · 11 answers · asked by debra 2

Personality,body,ext anything! I just want to know.

2007-02-19 23:22:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like it....don't like it??? Do tell.

2007-02-19 23:21:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are they trying to say?How would you take it? This is a girl to a guy!

2007-02-19 23:19:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i lost myself a few years back and im slowly becoming better. how can i become really confident. tips please :D. thank you :).

2007-02-19 23:16:32 · 11 answers · asked by Curious John 1

Do you think this dress makes me look too slim

You take me out too much, can't we just stay in

A fake one will do

You look stressed out, let me give you a B.J.

Have a night out with your mates, you deserve it

That Pamela Anderson has a lovely body

My mother is a real old bat

No, No, you buy me too much already

What headache ?

Put your money away, let me buy the round

I dont want anything new. Im bored buying nice things for me.

2007-02-19 23:15:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its been along time since i heard a funny joke that is not silly :)

2007-02-19 23:09:25 · 6 answers · asked by amyhamad 1

he's not that showy with his emotions but he wasn't always like that... he had a few heartaches a while back and that's probably why..i feel he has boundaries around himself although he tells me that with me, he doesn't...but i still can't help feeling that he's holding back...help pls...

2007-02-19 23:06:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

what will happen in my life?

2007-02-19 23:05:58 · 14 answers · asked by Preeti S 1

Is it really true that you can teach you're heart not to love someone only to see you're friend happy? Why does loving have to be painful?

2007-02-19 23:03:14 · 5 answers · asked by witch_18 2