Do you cheat because you have been cheated on?
Is it because you have gone off the person you are with?
Why can you just no speak to your partner and deal with issues and if need be break up rather than cheating to break up!
Why do we take back cheaters?
Do you think about who you are cheating on and how they will feel if they find out?
Do you feel bad?
How would it make you feel if you were in their shoes?
2007-02-19 23:28:33 · 15 answers · asked by whos_that_girl? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive never cheated on anyone ive ever been with im just not like that , ive been cheated on and i aint nice, the people who do it are lossers and dont relise what they have got. You dont cheat on someone you love it not right.
2007-02-20 02:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat for all kinds of reasons. Some do it because they can, while others may do it out of boredom within a relationship. It depends on circumstances and how strong a persons morals or values are.
I would rather break someone's heart and tell them it's over, than creep around with another man. It's deceitful, hurtful and painful and I feel no-one should be treated that way.
Anyone with common sense would not take a cheater back either. How can you trust someone who's lied to you and misled you? You can't! Once the trust has been broken then there really is no point in trying to make it work as trust takes a lot of time and effort to build.
2007-02-20 07:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by rachel e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating for a guy means they are bored, Cheating for a woman is more about emotions. They are missing something emotionally and sometimes physically so they find a replacement. We take back cheaters because we are insecure and we don't want to be alone. Any time I have cheated I don't feel guilty, If I really liked the Girl I was cheating on then i wouldn't be cheating.
2007-02-20 07:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have a bf that i 've been with for three years now, and i cheated on him once . Why did i do it ? it's going to sound cliche but after our first year together we lived together and ironically stopped having sex , doing all the things that made us happy together in the first place ,so yes i cheated ,i told him ,we broke up for a few weeks .
Did i feel guilty ? no because i would never cheat if my mate is showing me all the love,time, and affection i need to feel secure with our relationship .
He took me back , maybe because he loves me but i moved out i found it better that way now we make sacrifices to see each other . I love and care about him very much so of course it would hurt if he cheated on me but i was guilty of it first so what can i really say but hope he doesn't
If i was in his shoes i would off dumped me
Doest that show you how cheaters feel , think and why ?
2007-02-20 07:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by canielany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is just leave that person who ever cheated you. i cant see the point of getting even or the revenge thing, no need to tire yourself of how to do it or how to get even.
some people, they are used of cheating so it will not hurt them even a little if somebody will do the cheating to them. so you 'll just look funny and pathetic if you do the same. just break it up coz cheating is always cheating, whatever you may come up now, it'll be a never ending issue between the two of you.
2007-02-20 07:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by machooletz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat for a lot of different reasons. The two most common are, The excitement and thrill of having something you can't really have or, because they are miserable with their mate and think that there is someone out there who can make it all better. But, It isn't your mate that is the problem, it is you. Cheating because you are frustrated leads only to trouble.
2007-02-20 07:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be lots of reasons. Some people cheat because it's high risk and if they can get away with it that enhances the feel good factor. Other people may have such low self esteem that they crave any kind of attention from others or they dont care if they give themselves away
2007-02-20 07:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by ************* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to work with 200+men and i was the only female,i was involved at the time and everyone knew it.
The amount of men i worked with that were married that tried it on with me was ridiculous.
I always stayed faithful to my then partner but my work collegues did their best to quash that.
I was quite friendly with a few men who have remained my true friends to this day and they said certain men wanted to be the 'first there' with me which repulsed me.
Some people cheat just to be seen as the 'first there'.
1 man even told me his marriage was on the rocks and wouldnt tell anyone if we did have an affair,,as if
2007-02-20 07:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is the absence of Love (emotion) No Feelings? No guilt. You need to have Love, come from Your Heart. As well as his. Then, he won't cheat. Good Luck to ya!
2007-02-20 07:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that someone will cheat on you or its you who will do it. It means the relationship between the two of is already not stable. Somethings wrong thats why it is bound to happen.
2007-02-20 08:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋