Singles & Dating - 19 February 2007

n c looke me like bro n c love another guy but i heard that guy dosent love her so what to do do u have any supper ans plz

2007-02-19 16:43:05 · 4 answers · asked by salam 1

On July 3, 2006, Scott convinced himself he was totally in love with me spending every possible moment he could right by my side. I wasn't in love, in fact I felt smothered but admit I enjoyed his company & his help repairing items around the house, he'd even paid my bills since I'm out of work & still out of work. Yes, he wanted sex but I wanted to be really sure he cared about me. Three months later I figured, OK, he really does care about me. We had sex. Almost immediately after, Scott totally changed into a jerk, lying, avoiding my calls, talking behind my back, standing me up. I just found out I am pregnant. I told Scott & he flew into a rage first denying the baby is his then demanding I get an abortion. He big time lied about wanting to make me his wife & having a child with me. After many failed attempts to contact Scott, he finally emails me saying, "I will drop $400 off & I am done!" I am unemployed with some bills past due & very depressed. I'll be 40 next month. Help!

2007-02-19 16:42:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My GF and I had a terrible argument yesterday because of my Honesty prior to us attending a Friend's B-Day Party. She dressed up then asks me if she looks fat on that dress she just put on.I ask her..."Would You like my personal Opinion Or The Honest truth?".She said my opinion & i said I love You! then she asks the truth,then i told her you don't want to hear it.but she insisted & I said "You look like a hippo on a tutu!" She Cried,Bawled loudly Then stormed out the room. I said I was sorry But She wouldn't talk to me. She 's giving me the silent treatment.Now Before you judge me...I was brought up to tell the truth no matter what. What did i do wrong!? She insisted the truth so i did! We've been together for 2 years now & i never seen her behave like this b4.What she expect from me...Lie to her!? I Really Love this woman w/ all of my heart & i'm willing to lay down my very own life for her on a moment's notice but she's driving me crazy! Please Help me!....

2007-02-19 16:41:35 · 23 answers · asked by joel750 4

So my friend and I, who have been good good friends these past few years have recently discovered that we're falling for each other. It turns out these past years he's always had a thing for me. He would tell me i was pretty but never really beleived him. Now that we're "hooking up" - things are going good. The first day we "hooked up" is was just sweet little kisses of pecks and some "full ons kisses" and an arm around the shoulder. The second time was sweet little kisses, pecks, (some on the neck) and his hand around my waist on my thigh. The third time (it's been like a week before the second time) - it was still sweet little kisses, pecks, "full ons", but he was holding me closer and feeling up my a**. Here's the thing though: i don't feel violated at all - actually, it's feels "normal" - guys, was he being a perv (which i doubt) and do you think he's going too fast? (keep in mind...after all these years, he's finally got the girl)

2007-02-19 16:41:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, i've liked this girl for a while and i have known her for a couple months, and it appears as though she likes me back. I hung out with her and her friend last night, and she gave me positive signs all night. Then..to my surprise, her friend told me she has a bf. I asked her about it and she said that she just recently got a bf. Here is my question...should i just lay off and wait out this hopefully short relationship? or continue going for her?

2007-02-19 16:40:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A while back I told a good girl friend that I liked her romantically, but we decided we both wanted friendship. Since then, she wanted our friendhsip to grow. Lately, I told her in an email that if our friendship continued to grow my feelings would grow stronger. Well, our friendship continues to grow, and she wants me to ask her questions to get to know her better. Does she want more than friendship now?

2007-02-19 16:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-19 16:37:02 · 46 answers · asked by andy2987 1

Is that big or is it small?

2007-02-19 16:36:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

OKAY..so im about to have a nervous break-down..i havent been out with my friends for 1yr and 6 months..(ever since i've been with my patner) and i havent had time alone with my patner for 6 months(since our son was born)..it is all starting to get to me.. i feel like im going to explode sometimes.. i do all the housework..take care of the baby ..do the shopping..and all my patner does is sit down on the computer or play playstation..even when i go on the net (like now).i still have to keep an eye on my kid because my patner wont do it.
I've told him i need a break otherwise im real close to having a nervous break-down..and all he says is " your alright..you wont have a nervous breakdown relax yourself"
how do i make him understand that i truly do need a break!

2007-02-19 16:35:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short. Im in love with this guy. We have known each other for around 5 years. We have been torn apart and reunited through circumstances. We have never done anything for holidays or birthdays. But I think we are growing closer. I emailed him the other day and wished him Happy Birthday. It touched him, and I think it showed that I care. He doesn't really like to celebrate birthdays or holidays (he is ENTP for all you personality peeps, and he is 15 years older than me). I already bought this really nice simple card (which all of my coworkers love and are pushing me to give). Should I give it to him when I see him tomorrow? or should I just leave it at the email. I don't want to overshadow the thought with some cheesy gesture. I know that I am probably one of the only people who remembered his Birthday and I know he wasn't expecting that. What should I do?

2007-02-19 16:33:09 · 12 answers · asked by whiterose4410 1

Been with bf for 3 years, when we get intimate its all about his pleasure I can't even pick a position ever?? He always touches the obvious spots on me I need more than get naked insert he's not into fourplay at all its its getting dull, So Question is he just being selfish, or is he not wanting to please me? please any advice will help.

2007-02-19 16:33:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had like 10 guys telling me to come over to there house cause here parents are out of town does that mean its ok
? or no and how do i know there not joking???i know 1 was seriouse he tryed to take ff my shirt ....but the problem is hes 12 years older then me and. they all have some way of telling me 1 put my humps on in his car and said you wanna?...do it and i was like what???? and he was all yeah sweets ya know what i mean...and i was all yuo mean....and he was like yeah sex and i was....buttnaked? and he was like oh yeah...and i was like but o havent shaved my pubes in a week and he was all i like them harry and i said how would you know hes all im not a rapest i swear and it creeped me out so i was like get outta the car and he was all this is my car and he was all so you get out and so i got out

2007-02-19 16:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by ucla<3 1

There is this guy I like and I go to his school once a week (it's a long story) and while I'm there he flirts more with me than the girls he sees everyday. I'm supposed to sit next to him and while I'm there he plays/flirts with me, like throws paper at me, and I throw paper back, he pokes me, plays footsie with me, and while I was talking to one of my friends outside he started coming outside and flirting with me and then I flirted back. He asked out this girl who is a lot thinner than me (I am sortive overweight not much). Does he think of us as more than friends. My mom and friend say that I am the type of person that is hard to read. My friend refers to me as a journal, and my mom refers to me as a book. So does he like me??? Is he just getting to know me??? Confused. SMS!! Save my Soul.

2007-02-19 16:29:05 · 7 answers · asked by Know-It-All or Nothing 2

2007-02-19 16:27:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres a guy i like and he says he LIKES me but he flirts with a lot of girls and asks out a few but then says "o it was just a joke" so the first time, he sed he liked me but i already had a boy friend. and he sed he would ask me out if i dumped my boy friend. so i did and he stopped talking to me. strike 1. so then i got back togather with my boyfriend and he liked me again. and i kinda liked him. and he sed hed ask me out if i dumped my boy friend. and i wanted to. he acted like he really ment it. but i was going to a dance with my boyfriend and i already had my dress so i didnt wanna dump him. so i told the other guy to wait like a week. and he asked me to an other dance. and niether of them showed up to either. so strike 2. and then he sed his dad wouldnt let him go and stuff and that he still liked me. but i was ignoring him and stuff cuz i was mad at him. so on val day he put roses, chocolate and a teddy bear in my locker. the nex day he asked out some one else. wut shood i do

2007-02-19 16:26:45 · 14 answers · asked by cate 1

I have been speaking to a guy for several months now , we are not dating , but i really like him from what i know about him and i think he is the same . what are your opinions on this and meeting people over the internet ?

2007-02-19 16:25:51 · 13 answers · asked by Hayley 1

back together but it didnt work i care about this guy so much i cant forget about him i still miss him we was in a pretty serious relationship and happy until one weekend he hung out with his friend who was breaking up with his gf at the same time and then just out of the blue he broke up wit me after they hung out i tried to keep us together but he wouldnt work things out or even try should i not give up on the guy i love and try again to win his heart or forget about him like i wish my heart would let me?

2007-02-19 16:23:50 · 11 answers · asked by brutalysweet 1

We've kissed and almost had sex once. He has NOT lied from day 1. He's had sex with other women & told me about it. The other women tell me that I'm different because they are only sex with him and that's what he says too. We are different b/c its not about sex with us. We're friends first and just genuinely care for one another. He doesn't tell the other girls anything at all about him. One didn't even know his name. We won't sleep with each other b/c he had a gf and I didn't want to get hurt even more. I've figured out the hard way that just b/c you're not sleeping with someone doesn't mean that your not involved with them. I have completely fallen in love with him. He doesn't want to hurt me so we are just friends but even that hurts at times. I know he cares a lot about me but I'm afraid that if I don't stop talking to him then I'm only going to fall harder for him. I don't know if I can trust him. I'm 5 yrs old than him (30 & 25) so he still has time to grow up. Help

2007-02-19 16:23:42 · 7 answers · asked by 5STL23MOM98 1

2007-02-19 16:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by Danny R 1

2007-02-19 16:22:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking to get my fincee` a sex toy, but I am not sure what to get her, or where to get it. also she has never had one before.

2007-02-19 16:22:37 · 1 answers · asked by Van 1

My boyfriend is sick from the cold, and we were going to have dinner and then a movie, but I understand , I dont care if we go ,he worked so hard to plan this for me, cause it's been 2 years since we been together, I just want him to be happy, is there anything else we could do instend of going any where, I just want him to be happy. I feel bad , because he wanted to plan this for me, to show me how he cares, what can I do to show him I love him, And how much I care about him.

2007-02-19 16:22:18 · 4 answers · asked by kitty 6

Both of these people i really love and care about but i am datein one of them but i love the other one too wat do i do PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-02-19 16:21:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend took me home in a cab Saturday night because I was too drunk and instead of coming in and taking care of me, he got back int he cab and went to a club.

The next day no call, thinks he can just come home and get into my bed and Ill forgive him.

Am I "that girl" the pathetic one??

2007-02-19 16:21:04 · 8 answers · asked by Me 2

I'm just curious here. I just started dating someone. I'm in my middle 20's. I'm a virgin. I'm not hoping for sex quickly or anything. It's just that a friend of mine told me that most people have sex at least within a month of dating, and if not the person might get bored. I know to go at my own pace, I just want to hear feedback from others, get some stats going.

2007-02-19 16:19:28 · 10 answers · asked by someonehasalreadychosenthisname1 1

Was she just anxious to swap saliva with me and was nervous about kissing or do you think it means something else? I thought the rest of the night went well and just before she spit on me I complimented her that i thought her dress looked better now that it had shrunk over the past few years.

2007-02-19 16:19:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-19 16:17:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my early 20's and have never had a serious relationship or intimacy. As a man I'm weary about taking a 50% chance of losing most of what I'm worth and losing my rights to the kids.

2007-02-19 16:17:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my ex that ive liked since 4th gradeis back in the picture. i would say he was my first love. i love everything about him. he would have to be the best thing that has ever happend to me. i can act like a total fool and he would still love me. we stopped dating in 6th grade after 7months because of this big fight cause he was flirting with this girl and they kept doing it after i told him to stop. i regret breaking up with him for that. me and him are friends but i dont wanna be friends anymore. i wanna be more but i dont wanna hurt him cause ive changed alot. i liek to flirt with lots of guys, since ive been single for a while. (btw that girl is gone) he still loves me. but resently i found out i was moving to tennessee in july. i wanna go back out with him but i have this feeling that when i move. its gonna hurt us really bad. and i dont wanna have to go threw another heartbreak. what do i do? (im in 8th grade now)

2007-02-19 16:16:24 · 2 answers · asked by Callay <3 1

2007-02-19 16:16:03 · 12 answers · asked by sugar n' spice 5