back together but it didnt work i care about this guy so much i cant forget about him i still miss him we was in a pretty serious relationship and happy until one weekend he hung out with his friend who was breaking up with his gf at the same time and then just out of the blue he broke up wit me after they hung out i tried to keep us together but he wouldnt work things out or even try should i not give up on the guy i love and try again to win his heart or forget about him like i wish my heart would let me?
2007-02-19 16:23:50 · 11 answers · asked by brutalysweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly the only thing you can do is to let him go. If he doesnt want to work on the relationship anymore, you cant make him. I am very sorry. Good Luck.
2007-02-19 16:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by tking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely u guys are both maturing, and arent adults yet, since he hasnt given u a reason, do u know why he broke up with u? do u realy think its because of ur guys friend? but w.e the reason is this is time to move on and get passed him, the reason why ur relationship had failed is most likely becuase u guys were not meant for eachother, i know it is hard to let go becuase like u said u guys were serious, and giirls tend to fall harder than guys do, so the best thing to do is hang out with ur girlfriends go shopping or do anything that takes ur mind off of him, if u guys arent meant to be no matter how much u try to get back with him nothing will work. take care of urself good luck!
2007-02-20 00:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you need to realize is that you are in control of your own heart. You should find things to occupy your time, and allow him to miss you, if it is meant to be, he may just come around later. But dont bug or nag him about you past relationship, go out and find a nice guy to entertain your time, you never know, you may meet someone who may sweep you off your feet.
Good Luck
2007-02-20 00:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kourtney Hall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like you are " beating a dead Horse" as the old saying goes. I think if your ex would have wanted it to work he would have put some commitment and effort into it like you did. Cut your losses and find a new guy that wants a relationship.
2007-02-20 00:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has moved on, it is time you did too. It hurts, and it will hurt for a little while longer, but you need to be strong and be more confident in yourself and someone better will come along. Someone that won't drop you just because his friend wants him to be single at the same time. You are worth more than that. You just have to believe that.
2007-02-20 00:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by butterflywndr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl...sorry to say but it sounds like you fell in love and fell hard, it sucks eh? but trust me you need to forget him, it'll take time and it will suck, but eventually you will get over it, just keep living life to the fullest as much as you can, meet new people, try new things, and just move on, you'll find someone soon enough, just stop looking for him, lol, just move on, it's the best thing for you!! good luck
2007-02-20 00:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by Erica P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is better to have loved than to not have loved at all.. let him think about his mistake dont call him let him miss you. and if he does not call he did not deserve you any way.. and to break up with you because his friend broke u with his gf is stupid and sounds loike he just did not want to be with you anymore and did not know how to tell you and sounds really immature
2007-02-20 00:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by tonysgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him and know the reason why. if things didn't work out then don't waste time...turn your attention to your friends and family or date another guy..
2007-02-20 00:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by RJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make somebody love you. Surround yourself with good people and try to move on.
2007-02-20 00:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to get back with you, there's nothing you can do about that. It's been two months already.
Let him go and move on.
2007-02-20 00:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋