So my friend and I, who have been good good friends these past few years have recently discovered that we're falling for each other. It turns out these past years he's always had a thing for me. He would tell me i was pretty but never really beleived him. Now that we're "hooking up" - things are going good. The first day we "hooked up" is was just sweet little kisses of pecks and some "full ons kisses" and an arm around the shoulder. The second time was sweet little kisses, pecks, (some on the neck) and his hand around my waist on my thigh. The third time (it's been like a week before the second time) - it was still sweet little kisses, pecks, "full ons", but he was holding me closer and feeling up my a**. Here's the thing though: i don't feel violated at all - actually, it's feels "normal" - guys, was he being a perv (which i doubt) and do you think he's going too fast? (keep in mind...after all these years, he's finally got the girl)
2007-02-19 16:41:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Our "sessions" weren't all "wild" and "high" - it's like our time to be with each other cuddle and have sweet little kisses here and there ;) Another thing is that in the past when i would mess around with a b.f., i would be conscious concerning "territory" - but this time, it's like i didn't really notice - it felt so normal :)
2007-02-19 16:42:46 · update #1
Holy Lord Child!!! Just go with it... Not only did he get the girl, but YOU got the guy! Take it slow and enjoy every second of this. You are obviously very comfortable with him and enjoy being with him. Many people would give a limb for this... Shush up and kiss him!
2007-02-19 16:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by troyaj1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you guys are moving to fast. He should have waited a couple weeks before the first move. Just think in the next month or so he will try to get you into bed. If I were you I would tell him that you need to slow it down a little. Just try talking more and seeing what you guys have in common. That's my advice but if you like it and feel content about it you can completely ignore my advice.
2007-02-20 00:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, how fast is fast to you? You've known each other for a few years!! And if it feels "normal" is because it is ,geez the poor guy's been waiting for years and you ask if he's being a perv,girl you don't know a good thing if it hit you on your face.
2007-02-20 01:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that girl. But don't do things just out of pleasure. Be careful or you might regret some things.
2007-02-20 00:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seemed to like it and it felt normal to you, so go with it.
Hesitate to have sex. That requires some thought, preparation/safety and maturity.
Have fun with the rest.
2007-02-20 00:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no general rule! If you feel comfortable, go for it! If you feel uncomfortable, talk about with him!
2007-02-20 00:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋