Both of these people i really love and care about but i am datein one of them but i love the other one too wat do i do PLEASE HELP!!!
2007-02-19 16:21:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about which one of them is more of a friend. Which one actively listens to you? Which one would be by your side if you were in a horrible accident and ended up in a wheelchair for the rest of your life? Which one has most of the same values as you about family and children? Which one makes you smile and laugh the most? Which one handles the bad days better? Which one wants to know everything about you? Which one makes you feel like you are a better person? Think about your answers to these questions and think about your role with each person and how you would answer these questions and I'm betting you'll come up with an answer to your question.
2007-02-19 16:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by 5STL23MOM98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may seem confused, but deep down inside u know which one u love romantically and since i dont know u in real life i really cannot tell u who to choose or how u can choose. just remember that the person u love u have a really deep connection with , and when u are with them all of ur worries go away and becuase of them u have become a better person and noticed many things that u havent noticed before u met this person. and since u cannot decide u should really take some time alone to think about the feelings, and what u should do. good luck!
2007-02-20 00:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young and romantic. Sigh. That's not a bad thing, but it means you don't have experience on your side. No matter which one you "pick," you'll have regrets.
(Unless you see one on the street in 30 years with a receding hair-line and a beer gut, but we are rarely so lucky).
But you are only going to hurt the person you are with if you love someone else. I sense from your question "I'm dating one, but I love the other," that you may not be true to the person you are with. So that you don't have to live with the guilt later, break it off early with the guy you are dating. You will only hurt him worse by staying with him when you don't love him.
2007-02-20 00:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by sherrilyn1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved any of these guys you wouldn't have lead them on. Make your mind up now before they make their own minds up and are done with you. It's not that hard of a question to figure out, if you don't love the guy you are with dump him and go out with the guy you do love. Cause at this point in time you are only hurting them both by being dishonest.
2007-02-20 00:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never have to pick between people. I believe you are single since you said you were dating. If you love someone, pursue that relationship and let the other one go. It should have never progressed this far with two people. You should of been straight forward with them so they too can make the decision to continue dating you or not. Good luck. Have strength in your decision and your heart will never be weak. Good luck.
2007-02-20 00:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by wiseone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can love two people at the same time but you cant be with both as you are going to hurt someone you love plus your self in the mean time, let your heart choose it will and then you will no where you are meant to be.
2007-02-20 00:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by yah yah sisterhood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from both of them for two weeks then go with the person you miss the most.
2007-02-20 00:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You flip a coin. No I'm just kidding.
You don't contact either one for two weeks and after the end of the two weeks, the guy that comes to your mind first.... is your true answer.
Try it and let me know how it works out... remember.. two weeks... no contact at all....
2007-02-20 00:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by chilledguy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your choosing between both people that your like then.. take some time.. breathe and review your experiences with them , if theres a small doubt in your mind about one of them then hes not your choice. its gonna fail sooner or later .. which sucks
2007-02-20 00:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by AlFoNs0_newbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always give the same advice for this situation:
IF YOU LOVE 2 PEOPLE, LEAVE THEM BOTH (otherwise you will never be happy)
2007-02-20 00:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by proofofignorance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋