i lost myself a few years back and im slowly becoming better. how can i become really confident. tips please :D. thank you :).
2007-02-19 23:16:32 · 11 answers · asked by Curious John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you have to know your boundaries. Your Strenght and weaknesses. Acknowledge your weaknesses and try to convert it as one of your strength. Remember, knowing and acknowledging our own weakness is already a part of our strength. And always think that you are special and that there is something in you that makes you perfect. GOD bless hope that this simple advice can help you gain back your confidence...
2007-02-19 23:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Furthering your education can be a really good way. I found out a lot about myself by starting uni at the age of 27, it was a life changing decision and I'm so glad I went for it. Knowledge is power as they say. The previous answer about just BEING confident is also very useful. It sounds silly but you really can convince yourself of something by the fake it til you make it rule. Shoulders back, head high and back yourself because nobody else will unless you do =)
2007-02-20 07:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God doen't make no junk. I don't care what u did u are still a unique and valuable person and no one else in the universe like you.I used to have to visualize certain situations where I would virtully see myselg doing things and in my mind I knew I could do nd say the appropriate thing and so when I actually lived the day everything went so much better. Not saying I didn;t have problems that day but I could handle them OK. Good luck and wishing u the best.
2007-02-20 08:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by luminous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it really depends on how you lost yourself. Is it by like drugs or something or doing really terrible things? But anyway, it is a good sign that you yourself is seeing your progress. Try being with groups that will give you more encouragement in 'healing' and make sure you'll try to avoid those things that causes your fall before.
wish you all the best!
2007-02-20 07:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by machooletz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just BE confident. There is no really straight forward answer with this, but setting your mind to thinking "Im confident, Im happy with where I am and who I am. I love life". Thats the mind set you need to remain confident.
2007-02-20 07:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you go out more often. That way you can socialize, and know more guys/ chiks. Anyways, try to read more about things, research is good and it really helps, because you get to know what you dont know, and at times you may be able to answer other peoples questions, and they may be impressed.
2007-02-20 07:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is too difficult to help you with out knowing in details what actually happened to you, what you did.
Loosing your self has lot of meanings.
You have to let yourself know that what every you did was wrong and look at the things it brought you in. You have to com pair it with the positive side or bright side. You have to com pair yourself with your past and now.
well that is What i can say till i know what you did. Sorry if it doesn't help.
2007-02-20 07:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of good books on the subject. Go to your local library or a nearby bookstore and get one. I'm sure you'll find some information in these books that you can put to good use. Good luck!
2007-02-20 07:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure what r u talking about , but i think if u concentrate in one good thing , will be ok
for ex ; work hard, hobby ,decent relationship,... etc...
2007-02-20 07:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by stranger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust and believe in yourself...in that way, you will be more confident... trust me
2007-02-20 07:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by harveyalanco2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋