I have 9 month old baby w/ my ex. he was making good money but is financially a moron so he was not paying his bills or giving money to help w/ the baby. He has basically ignored me for the past 7 mths showing no affection or love to me. He sees the baby and I 1-2x a month and all he would do is sit on couch w/ beer and ESPN. He slept on the couch. He would not touch me at all & when I would try to kiss him he would clam up. I ask him what was wrong and he would get mad. Now his car has been repoed which is on my credit because I signed for it, and he has lost his job. Lack of affection has cause me to not love him now. He is at my house laid up drinking beer and running up stuff that I will have to pay for w/ no help from him because he have no job. He is my baby father but I want him to leave. he has been rude to me and has not helped with the baby. Now that he down and out he wants to try and play house. I don't need it. I've moved on an will take care of my child as a single mom.
2007-02-20 03:30:02 · 7 answers · asked by candyred1999 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We just broke up a couple days ago. I had told him I wanted him to leave and that I was filing child support. He tells me he has someone coming to get him and i get from work and he still there. I could send my brother but I don't want a fight starting.. we broke up when he denied the baby and claimed he wants to sign over his parental rights. that was a couple days ago. Now he's being nice trying to kiss up on me and show affection..and play with the baby I don't want him touching me..and I don't leave the baby with him when I go to work.. i ain't stupid..he just ain't got nowhere else to go so he trying to be nice..I don't want him..baby father or not.. I just want him to leave and go lay up on someone else..
2007-02-20 03:39:25 · update #1
You go girl!!! I had to do the same thing with my sons' father. My son was 5 months, when I decided that he needed to leave. If you are arguing and not getting alone BEFORE the baby, trust me when I say that it will not get better AFTERWARDS. Besides, you can do bad all by your DAMN self..... what I did was get all the assistance I could and got back into school and found a better paying job. Once all that was in place, I stopped all assistant and am glad to say that I needed that change in my life. Kick his sorry azz out, file for child support and raise your child by yourself.......nothing wrong with being a single mother. And there ared support groups out there for that exra support that we as single mothers need......Good Luck!
As for giving up his rights.....does not matter, he will still have to pay...he jus twill never get to see the baby. My son's father said that same thing to me, so I found out that its not true. Take his azz to court and be done with him. My son's father tried for months, years to get back in good with me.....like I told him, "our" relationship is only b/c of our child.....nothing more!
2007-02-20 03:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I'm kinda going through that myself . I've been with this jerk for 6 years and I have 2 kids with him he makes good money he just doesn't want to help me and if he gets mad at me he'll take it out on the kids like he'll disappear and won't call for nothing I myself am gonna take him to court . Kick his *** out. Would love to talk to ya always helpful to talk to someone going through the same hit me up . Good Luck!
2007-02-20 12:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by precious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgot who coined it, but DTMFA (Dump the mother ****** already). This guy is either super depressed or effing other girls. He is a complete slag and the only use he had was as a sperm donor. Kick him out and move on.
2007-02-20 11:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he either needs to start contributing or get the f out.
2007-02-20 11:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you already know what you want. Just tell him to leave or throw him out, that's it. goodluck.
2007-02-20 11:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...THEN THE EASY PART IS OVER. YOU'VE TALKED ABOUT IT. NOW MAKE HIM LEAVE. YOU AND YOUR BABY ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT THAT DEAD-BEAT.
2007-02-20 11:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him out. if he argues call the cops
2007-02-20 11:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by shiara_blade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋