ok.here's the problem.i keep talking a lot abt my crush, & how cute he looks & some guys in his class had gone & told him that i talk of him in a wrong way & that i constantly keep on complimenting his looks.apparently,my crush thinks i'm a psychopath now(seriously-one of my friends had explained to him that it's just my hyper way of dealing with crushes & that it's my personality but he wasn't convinced)...now he's freaked out by everything i do.(he doesn't know me very well.we hardly talk & i assume he doesn't know my real character at all,or has even bothered to find out).when i confronted him abt this & apologised,he just told me that he didn't know who to trust.was this a wise thing to do?
plus i just want to know why he thinks i'm such a psycho.i mean,i don't think that ANYONE would be freaked out by compliments & attention,are they?
guys-what would you do in a situation like this?listen to your friends,or ask the girl herself?would you even give her a chance to explain?
2007-02-20 03:24:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like something straight out of high school...gheez!! Young boys listen to what their friends say and allows it to influence their minds......very weak minded. It does not sound like you are a psycho and if he thinks that you are ....forget him and move on. Dont spend your time trying to convince this dude that you are not.......besides he is more influenced by his friends, then you........obviously!
2007-02-20 03:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The mature thing to do would have been to talk TO your crush, not talk ABOUT him to others so much. Now, he's unsure what kind of person you are. And truly, you have no one to blame but yourself. And pursuing this is only going to make it worse.
Take this as a lesson learned, and leave the poor guy alone. Next time, act in a mature manner from the beginning.
2007-02-20 03:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey from what i've read, that guy doesn't deserve such compliments. if i were in you shoes, i would totally forget that he ever existed. if he won't ask for any explanations, then so be it. normal guys would be flattered if someone has a crush on them. he doesn't deserve any of your time at all. your'e just wasting your time if you keep on thinking about this dimwitted guy. who does he think he is? tom cruise?
2007-02-20 03:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋