My boyfriend and I have had the perfect relationship for the last 2 yrs. I found out last Sept. that he was texting 2 other girls. He said it was like a mid-life crisis, he wanted to see if he still had it, that the attention gave him an ego boost but he knew he would never pursue it. After a lot of talking, i gave him the benefit of the doubt. If it happens again in any way, shape or form it is over. He used to make me feel safe, confident and loved unconditionally and now I almost feel like I need other people to fulfill that for me because he crushed my ego and I wonder why he had to look outside this relationship and what that whole texting thing did for him, i need to understand to resolve this. In Dec. he proposed in front of his whole family..it was very romantic and sweet. We are engaged now and I love him but this issue still haunts me...I am scared it is still going on, chatting,im ,texting, trading emails. It may not be but if it is..I want to know before the wedding. help?
2007-02-20
04:04:55
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electra4
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