Singles & Dating - 20 February 2007

I hv a colleague of mine, she is very reserved in office. somehow i got her on online chat in office, then on everyday she started voluntarily chatting online wid me during office hrs. sometimes she sends friendly sms at night 11.30pm, but not regularly.
she does look at me in office, but does not talk directly, but prefers to talk on phone wid me even for official matters. once i called her casually for a cup of coffee, but she said "keep dreaming..."

i'm really confused wid this gal, wht r her intentions? is she interested in me? or is she jus flirting wid me. wht shud i do now, can i rely on this person & make a move??

2007-02-20 05:22:46 · 5 answers · asked by Kim 1

just wondering because i always use to get told that.

2007-02-20 05:21:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay...here's the deal people.

I fall, really hard for the guys who I shouldn't fall for. I'm a good student. i get all a's and b's . I'm pretty (or so I'm told. See avatar) but I always fall for potheads or abusive guys. It really sucks. i don't know a way out of it. I've tried to like other guys, but I can't seem to do it. What are some good ways to meet *nice**honest* guys that won't cheat on me like all the other ones have?

2007-02-20 05:20:50 · 2 answers · asked by Lola 5

don't you think his too young for me but he loves so much ,for an example he brought me a nice 18k necklace with a carat diamond for valentine day .It's just i always said he loves me but i'm just afraid that one day he decided to date with a younger girl than me.....

2007-02-20 05:19:37 · 13 answers · asked by BOOKEY 2

Friday night we went out to eat, and were just hanging out talking chatting about the day and he says: " I really miss this, we havent just talked and spent real time together in a while, i think we should take time to grow our friendship more"

We have been having problems lately with our relationship, im more into it wanting something solid, and he thinks we are moving to fast and that i want more than hes ready for yet. He says he wants to be with me, but wants to take it slow. He says that if we are closer as friends we will last longer, and it will develop into the kind of relationship that i want.

Part of me feels like this is just a ploy to slow things down and im fine, however i need ideas on how to build my friendship with my bf and not relationship wise. Its hard to not think about the relationship, but i need to.

So any ideas on how to build a friendship with someone?

2007-02-20 05:18:27 · 5 answers · asked by ~Browneyes~ 2

okay this goes along with another question I asked but I am summing up the question...I have got together physically with this guy who I like. This isnt he first time we have messed around here and there for over 4 years but I just got out of a relationship and then I did the thing with "R" on friday night. this was the first time in like 5 months. how long do i wait for him to call me before i know if he used me or if he really likes me?

2007-02-20 05:16:37 · 14 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

My man i know luvz me for many real reasons but he cheats i dont understand why sex is still good anyone know?

2007-02-20 05:16:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this boyfriend and i really love him and he loves me of corse whats not to love. He doesn't force me to try to have sex with him. so what sould i do?

2007-02-20 05:16:01 · 8 answers · asked by Sweet Tootsie Roll 2

Im suposedly a good girl and i have a solid upbringing so why do i always fall for the druggie a$$wholes who treat me like $hit? the only bad part is, is that i flirt with them and idont even mean too. what should i do?

2007-02-20 05:14:40 · 8 answers · asked by cheerleadingfobfan 1

my boyfriend of a year and a half is a great guy but has done out of the ordinary things in the past that i cant seem to let go. hes bad with the phone and doesnt always pick up my calls , mine and everyone elses, lets just put it this way hes done suspicious things that i have called him out on and i said it looks really weird and he denies hes ever done anything like that cuz he knew what i was thinking, and when i ask him why he did it he has an explanation. then when he speaks i truly believe him and that hes being sincere. i would never be with someone who cheated on me ever. he knows how it feels his ex gf did it to him and we always made a promise since i first met him to break up first beffore anything happens. how do i just let go of the past and continue with our future. btw, hes a very sweet caring guy so nice and sweet that i think he could NEVER ever do tha to to me. he tells me im his dream girl and i know he loves me. how do i stop being paranoid. i really need advic

2007-02-20 05:13:56 · 7 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1

Just curious. (- -,)

2007-02-20 05:12:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know where to start. I was walking one day with my daughter in my apartment complexes, and this man walks up to me and asks for my number. We went out on a date and formed a friendship. After two months, we officially started seeing one another. This man turned out to be wonderful. He treats me like a princess and he is in love with both my daughter and me. The problem with our relationship is that he is very quiet. He is going through depression, but he says that he has always been shy. Sometimes, it's very hard to talk to him. He doesn't get irritable, but he just can't seem to find the words to say. Last week, he started antidepressant medications and he is going to start therapy. Our relationship is very routine, and we are somewhat limited to what we can do due to my physical disability. He has been wonderful to my daughter and me, but he is also a little clingy. He is not controlling by the way. He gives me the freedom to do whatever I want.

2007-02-20 05:11:48 · 7 answers · asked by aloha_kisses2007 1

i want to keep him as a friend but i dont have any feelings for him the way he has for me. he has told me that on more than one occiasion that he loves me and i have told him not to say that. so can someone please help me out with this

2007-02-20 05:11:31 · 12 answers · asked by padra29 1

My name is Ryan Adams, I like in Albany, NY, im 19 years old, 6'5 185, i play basketball(im a 2) i play baseball(3rd base) i like the red hot chili peppers, i have blond hair blue eyes, and i and im a Syracuse Orange fan. comments appreciated. thanks,
Ryan

2007-02-20 05:11:17 · 17 answers · asked by Ryan Adams 1

what should i do

2007-02-20 05:10:54 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley V 1

my girlfriend insists on spreading my sandwitches, does it get on your nerves too????

2007-02-20 05:10:50 · 15 answers · asked by reem2 3

should you still stay by his side and wait and see if you develop feelings for him later on?

2007-02-20 05:09:01 · 12 answers · asked by GotAnswers? 2

would you want to meet someone who fell in love with your nude picture

2007-02-20 05:06:38 · 4 answers · asked by rentsdew 2

2007-02-20 05:04:49 · 8 answers · asked by sendzik04 2

2007-02-20 05:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by mariahpapaya29 1

My g/f and I have been together for a while now and not all the time but, sometimes she thinks that I am talking to other women.
I have told her several times that I am not interested nor talking to anyone else because she's the only one for me. Today while on my cigarette break, I was staring off into the sky and when i turned around, I saw my g/f coming around the corner. She immediately asked me if I was talking to that girl that just ran around the corner. I said no and she replied that she went around the corner awfully fast when she (g/f) came around the corner. To me, it's real silly and weird. Now, she's staring to feel down. This is starting to get on my nerves because it's like she can't trust what I say. I belive that I am an honest, commited man in a wonderful relationship but, it's the fact that she can't trust me over little things. There was also a rumor going about that some other girl in one of my classes likes me. I DONT CARE ABOUT THAT!! how can I help her?

2007-02-20 05:02:33 · 16 answers · asked by jaymil1979 1

Theres this guy i really like and i want to ask him out but his friend told me hes just not in the mood for a girlfriend right now, he'd rather start in the summer...he liked my best friend and she has a boyfriend..i like him so much im scared (cuz shes thinking of breaking up with her boyfriend) that she will take him from me. She knows how i feel..i dont know what to do..He knows i like him im pretty sure..but he doesnt know how much.

2007-02-20 05:02:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's a guy at work who told me I was too weird for him to be friends with since I was sending him mixed signals about getting with him. The reason I was wavering was because he has a fiancee. I know this because last year I helped him get the engagement ring for her. The thing is she is in another country. Anyway to make the long story short, he asked me to stop texting or emailing him. He even told me he changed his cell phone number, I haven't tried calling him or emailing him and I asked him why can't just say hi at work. He told me I was too weird to be his friend and that are no hard feelings between us and I should get therapy. I don't think I'm crazy or weird, and people at work are being extra nice which bothers me. One day, I was gone from my desk to go downstairs and he was by my desk, but was kind of hiding since he was packing a box of books really fast. Then I went to the fridge to get my lunch and walked back to my desk, and later he walks past my desk fastly.

2007-02-20 05:01:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend goes out with his buddies and comes home drunk. the next day he told me every thing that happen. he says "his friend paid for him to get a lapdance" from a stripper and he was so drunk he didnt say no.....i got pretty mad and left the place that we where eating at, luckly i had my own car since we met up there.. so should i be mad even though he came clean with everything, he say thats all that happen we have had a trustful relationship and nothing like this ever happend before to us. he even brought me a 1ct braclet but i didnt know since i walked out until he went to bed and i found it next to the sofa???(by the way we have been together 3years)

2007-02-20 05:01:09 · 18 answers · asked by K S 1

i love a girl and i want to propose her i never talk anytime with her i really like her please help me .......

2007-02-20 05:00:25 · 7 answers · asked by saranjeet20 1

2007-02-20 05:00:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in a small town and it's in the middle of winter now. not much to do here. My boyfriend of 6 months is coming from 500+ miles to see me and he's from a big city. I am really having trouble finding something fun or unique that would be memorable. He doesn't like to bowl, I can't ski and local ice rink isn't open to the public on weekends. We dont have snowmobiles or winter fishing gear. We have already been to nice resteraunts within 50+ miles of here. No local events happening the weekend he will be here either. I'm just out of ideas...... Any help?
(I'm in northern michigan)

2007-02-20 05:00:08 · 6 answers · asked by Vicki K 1

I'm 20, but I'm completely new to dating. I figure that most people learn this stuff in highschool, but I didn't. So how's it work?

I'm very shy and unconfident, almost to the point where I have considered seeing a therapist, although I've gotten better since I went on my first date (see below).
Thanks for helping a guy out.

PS - I'm not BS'ing you, I've been on one date (last month, she came onto me by the way) and the whole experience of talking with the girl ended in her being impregnated by another guy and becoming engaged to him without letting me know. When she stopped calling, I was crushed like I've never been crushed before, but I'm over her and want to move on.

2007-02-20 04:59:44 · 1 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

We just got back together like 5 months now. We been on and off almost 2 years. She has lost my trust last summer when she cheated on me. I am now always insecured about where she goes and who she hangs out with, What can I do to gain her trust. I tell her I feel insecure and she tells me I have to trust her. But its so hard to do

2007-02-20 04:59:32 · 17 answers · asked by Khanh V 2

I already did what I thought was the right decision, but I dont know if I made the right choice......

2007-02-20 04:58:20 · 13 answers · asked by Vialicious 2