Can you help a college guy who is completely new to dating????

Question

I'm 20, but I'm completely new to dating. I figure that most people learn this stuff in highschool, but I didn't. So how's it work?

I'm very shy and unconfident, almost to the point where I have considered seeing a therapist, although I've gotten better since I went on my first date (see below).
Thanks for helping a guy out.

PS - I'm not BS'ing you, I've been on one date (last month, she came onto me by the way) and the whole experience of talking with the girl ended in her being impregnated by another guy and becoming engaged to him without letting me know. When she stopped calling, I was crushed like I've never been crushed before, but I'm over her and want to move on.

Answer 1

First of all go out and meet people, but you are going to have to build up your self confidence woman like confident men. And just be socialable mingle with different people and you will over come your shyness. If you want to chat hit me up.